

Calm, Clear & Helpful
Mariette Snyman
If anxiety, heartache, chronic pain or other issues are keeping you awake, listening to "Calm, Clear & Helpful" can bring you comfort and clarity. Ever-curious journalist Mariette Snyman interviews a range of experts on holistic health, love relationships, parenting, and life's phases and challenges. Join us each Tuesday for fresh insights, practical know-how, and for conversations from the heart.
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May 27, 2025 • 50min
Ep. 211 How men determine their worth – and what to do when things go wrong
 If men have a biological tendency to seek self-worth through personal, independent performance, what happens when they can’t work or don’t reach their goals? Executive coach Neil Bierbaum explores manhood and the 4 stages of maturity, including a possible mid-life crisis. He discusses countering the loss of identity and recognition by deliberately creating a meaningful context and cultivating acceptance. www.mariettesnyman.co.za · neilbierbaum.com · themanmatrix.com · This episode's podcast notes and photograph · www.facebook.com · www.instagram.com · www.linkedin.com 

May 20, 2025 • 54min
Ep. 210 Divorce and maintenance issues: new hope for South African parents
 Following divorce, arrear maintenance can have a devastating financial and emotional impact on children and primary caregivers. Family mediator Anneke Greyvenstein introduces the Maintenance Order Management System, which allows arrear maintenance to reflect on a maintenance debtor’s credit profile. Discover how to recover arrear maintenance with interest, and how the Co-Parent App can help divorced parents limit misunderstandings and conflict. This episode's podcast notes and photograph · www.mariettesnyman.co.za · www.facebook.com · www.instagram.com · www.linkedin.com 

May 13, 2025 • 54min
Ep. 209 Liezl Thom: meditation - the key to transformation
 Did you know meditation can be used to reprogramme your subconscious mind to reach desired goals? Master transformation coach Liezl Thom explores the difference between mindfulness and meditation, the benefits involved, and cultivating blissipline. She offers advice for those believing they simply cannot meditate, and shares Vishen Lakhiani’s powerful 6-phase meditation. www.mariettesnyman.co.za · liezlthom.com · This episode's podcast notes and photograph · www.facebook.com · www.instagram.com · www.linkedin.com 

Apr 29, 2025 • 47min
Ep. 208 High-performance teams: optimally combining AI and Biological Intelligence
 Many of us fear that Artificial Intelligence may undermine our jobs, purpose and humanity. Neurologist Dr Etienne van der Walt discusses the respective strengths of AI and Biological Intelligence or BI, AI’s increasing ability to show empathy, and existing differences between AI and BI. He advocates leading teams toward achieving the flow state and applying hybrid intelligence to achieve optimal outcomes. www.mariettesnyman.co.za · www.neurozone.com · This episode's podcast notes and photograph · www.facebook.com · www.instagram.com · www.linkedin.com 

Apr 22, 2025 • 55min
Ep. 207 Addressing the effect of Adverse Childhood Experiences on young South African professionals
 How can childhood trauma impede professionals’ personal impact power and career success? Executive coach Gail Cameron explains how unforeseen change can trigger the effects of Adverse Childhood Experiences, often linked to large-group trauma and transgenerational transmission. She outlines a mindfulness-based, 3-step solution which can restore self-regard and shift limiting beliefs. www.mariettesnyman.co.za · www.mypocketcoachapp.com · This episode's podcast notes and photograph · www.facebook.com · www.instagram.com · www.linkedin.com 

Apr 15, 2025 • 48min
Dr Hannetjie van Zyl-Edeling: how to handle unexpected retirement stress
 Are you struggling to adjust to retirement, or fear the prospect of leaving formal employment? Apart from financial changes, this life transition involves emotional, social, and other challenges. Psychologist Dr Hannetjie van Zyl-Edeling discusses the 6 stages of retirement, how specific losses can affect an individual's stress score, factors that can mitigate retirement stress, and how to navigate a sensible lead-in period. www.mariettesnyman.co.za · www.drhannetjie.co.za · This episode's podcast notes and photograph · www.facebook.com · www.instagram.com · www.linkedin.com 

Apr 8, 2025 • 59min
Ep. 205 Mandy Gwen Mulders: Coming to terms with stage 4 incurable bone cancer
 How does one come to accept ‘endgame cancer’? When her breast cancer metastasized into terminal bone cancer, Mandy Mulders took steps to throw off emotional burdens and past trauma. She shares her journey to freedom despite the loss of her breasts and strength, supported by family, friends, spiritual transformation and BrainWorking Recursive Therapy. www.mariettesnyman.co.za · thelifeofmgm.blogspot.com · This episode's podcast notes and photographs · www.facebook.com · www.instagram.com · www.linkedin.com 

Apr 1, 2025 • 59min
Ep. 204 Gielie Hoffmann: kortkuns, speelsheid, melancholie en of die lewe lukraak gebeur
 Wat is die verband tussen beheer oor ons lewens, terugstaan en verwondering? Bestuurskonsultant en skrywer Gielie Hoffmann gesels oor uitbranding op ‘n jong ouderdom, ‘n dapper loopbaanskuif, die kerk en geloof, wat ons vashouplek kan gee, groot voete - en of sy nuwe boek hom kwesbaar laat. www.mariettesnyman.co.za · www.gieliehoffmann.co.za · Hierdie episode se potgooi-notas en foto's · www.facebook.com · www.instagram.com · www.linkedin.com 

Mar 25, 2025 • 46min
Ep. 203 Dr Micki Pistorius: why female serial killers kill for money
 Which deep-seated psychological need motivates female or ‘quiet’ serial killers? Psychologist and criminal profiler Dr Micki Pistorius explores this in terms of Maslow’s hierarchy of needs, crucial differences between male and female serial killers, what distinguishes serial killers from other humans, and whether serial killers are mentally ill. She discusses the TV series based on her book, ‘Catch me a killer,’ and her educational offerings. Sensitive content: meant for adult listeners. www.mariettesnyman.co.za · mickipistorius.co.za · This episode's podcast notes and photographs · www.facebook.com · www.instagram.com · www.linkedin.com 

Mar 18, 2025 • 1h 12min
Ep 202 Marina Wildt: how women experience ADHD differently from men
 Marina Wildt, a wellness coach specializing in chronic illness and mental health, sheds light on how ADHD affects women differently than men. She explains that women's symptoms often manifest as overachievement and emotional sensitivity, leading to perfectionism and burnout. Marina discusses the importance of recognizing internalized symptoms and provides practical advice for managing ADHD. The conversation emphasizes the need for support, self-compassion, and creating understanding environments for those with neurodivergent traits. 


