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Mar 21, 2021 • 10min
62 - Church Ladies
Today's video is brought to you by a donation from Big Time Fighter 1. He wanted me to cover the topic of Christian women and online dating sites. This is with Big Time Fighter One had to say: "I've just now recently discovered MGTOW philosophy and am slowly going over the fence. I'd like to hear you thoughts on women who are "saving themselves" for marriage. They would seem to be a viable alternative to the promiscuous party girl so I have always been attracted to and looking for this kind of woman. Lately I have been using e-Harmony and Christianmingle dating sites and have come to realize that these women are full of BS. It is a frustrating endeavor as I'll have a few dates with them and we seem to hit it off. Then they will inexplicably cease communicating or give me the slow fade out. Invariably I find them back on-line with the same spiel in their ads and on their facebook pages commiserating with other Christian women as to why there aren't any good men out there (given the fact that I consider myself a "good" man; respectful, decent looking/fit, good job, doing the things they church say would work, lol.) So I was hoping you could do a video giving your take on the mindset of these types of women and if they are simply no different than feminists in their hostility toward men." Well Big Time, there's nothing wrong with them not being interested in you. Dating is a numbers game. You've got to go through a lot of rotten apples to find a few bad apples, if you know what I mean. If the woman is not interested and wants to keep looking that's up to her. I've found plenty of women I was attracted that weren't attracted to me or women that were attracted to me but I wasn't attracted to them. So no worries there. I also dated a Christian girl in my late teens for about a year. This was back in the late 1990s when internet dating sites were just starting out and I even found her on Christian Matchmaker. And There was nothing Christian about her. She was Christian only in name.Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/mgtow/donationsAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Mar 19, 2021 • 11min
61 - Extreme Hypergamy
I had a client I was working with last summer. She told me about the remote community of Sault Ste Marie up in Northern Ontario and what happened when it's economy collapsed. My own experiences put me in Cuba and Former Yugoslavia as a teenager when they were undergoing periods of economic stress and collapse. But this was the first time I had heard about a financial collapse in Canada. In the late 1980s Algoma Steel laid off a large portion of the male population in town and all hell broke loose. All of a sudden women started leaving their unemployed husbands and sleeping with other men. My female client told me that everyone was sleeping with someone elses husband or wife. This was all because the economic equilibrium had been broken. Some men still had jobs and women were leaving their husbands and chasing those particular men. Those men still employed would have women literally throwing themselves at their feet, so they started cheating on their wives. And then all of sudden the men whose wives were cheating on them and leaving them started getting together with the women that were being abandoned by their husbands that still had jobs. Attractive women were getting together with the men that still had the jobs and unemployed men were predominantly getting together with women that weren't as attractive and had been dumped by their husbands and boyfriends for women that were far more attractive. Families fell apart and society disintegrated and then rebuilt itself along new economic lines with the good looking women and still employed men at the top. My client ended up leave the Ste and coming down to Southern Ontario to find work and a better life. She left her husband and kids to do that. I'm not judging her because it's female nature that gets women to act like this, not necessarily the conscious parts of a woman's mind. The reason I bring this story up is to illustrate that women will migrate because of hypergamy and take extreme risks and leave their existing pair bonds and families because of the promise of a better material life. Men on the other hand tend to leave one woman and family because they meet a more attractive woman. Again human nature.Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/mgtow/donationsAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Mar 17, 2021 • 11min
60 - Social Climbers
Today's video is brought to you by a donation for ETI. He wants me to answer a question and I'm paraphrasing what he has to say: "I'd like you to explain this for me, you'll typically see men that are classified as 7s and above and they will be with women that are 5 and below. You never see it the other way around where women that are 7s dating men that are the 5s unless the guy has something that she wants. And these women may overrate themselves this way because that "hot" guy decided to date them and sleep with them. What's your take on this? Well ETI I think your observations are partially accurate. It's kind of ironic that even though women make up the majority of people in our society they are the ones doing the choosing and they are the ones refusing to settle for man less attractive then they are in many cases. And some women are not only gold digging for a man's money but they are also gold digging for the currency of social status. Men make a mistake by thinking that women are only after their money, if men can even think that far ahead. But women are also after for social currency as well. They want other women to see them with an attractive male that looks out of their league and get jealous and envy them because this increases their value in the female pecking order. The tragedy here is that men seem to have the tendency to undervalue their own social value and physical attractiveness. They don't even see their attractiveness in many cases. Most women don't tell their husbands, boyfriends and male friends they are good looking because it might get to their heads and they might see their potential and leave the relationship. I think it makes many women insecure to give compliments to men because if men realize they are the prize in a relationship then they will think twice about being in that situation to begin with. That's why I believe women ask questions like, "Do I look fat? Instead of saying "You look great." to their man. When a woman asks you if she looks fat she is destroying your self esteem because the question is rigged. If you say yes you are in the dog house and if you say no then the woman will say you are lying to you. It's a passive aggressive way for her to take control of the relationship and society thinks it's funny.Why Beautiful Women Date Ugly Men http://www.menconfess.com/why-beautif...Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/mgtow/donationsAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Mar 14, 2021 • 12min
59 - MGTOW Shaming
The issues regarding our MGTOW identity are similar to being a gay male twenty to thirty years ago with regards to nosy friends and family members. The stigma of being a single in our society is incredible. People look at you as a failure that can't hold down a relationship. Even if you've chosen to opt out. By telling people that you are opting out of relationships stirs up all kind of emotions and ideas in their heads. He must be a child molester, or or a failure. They just can't seem to accept the idea that the game is rigged. Most people are like compulsive gamblers addicted to the love and relationships. And they don't seem to understand why other people aren't addicted to it either. Choosing not to date or be in a relationship is even harder then playing ball for the other team in some ways. At least gay people have the ability to provide a pre-packaged answer for nosy friends and family. Men going their own way is nowhere near the map of social consciousness. If more people saw it as a conscious social choice many of the MGTOWs out there that didn't know what to label themselves would be better off. And men fed up with the dating scene would no longer have to feel as much pressure to get hitched and start producing babies. And if you mention the term MGTOW to people and they look it up on the internet it will instantly brand you as a misogynistic man intent on controlling women. The people I've told about mgtow and my videos immediately assume that I hate all women and that's why I do what I do. When I explain that I don't agree with the legal system and how it's stacked against men and behavior of women these days, people tell me I'm selfish and that I need to man up. My younger brother is getting married next year and cousins in my age group are mostly married. My cousins 5 to 10 years older then me are getting divorced and are becoming bitter, but the younger ones are just sleepwalking into relationships thinking divorce won't happen to them. For them to feel good about their relationship they have to convince others to mgtow the line and get married as well. They need external validation. Sidney when you go to family functions you are invalidating their choices. You are a threat that must be rooted out and dealt with immediately. Your values have to be identified, categorized, shamed and exercised like a demon.Single Dad Boom - Australiahttps://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VRwKl...Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/mgtow/donationsAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Mar 12, 2021 • 14min
58 - Pussy Pass
So what did I do you ask. Well the first thing I did was talk to my friend the suspected NAWALT. She's the same girl I talk about in my video called self-sabotage from a month ago. I told her about what happened with Mr. Junior sending me a donation and she said that she personally knew strippers and call girls and was still in contact with one of them. She used to work at a gambling establishment by the airport years ago and the strippers and call girls would come in to spend their money there. She did customer service and had the opportunity to speak to many of them and knew them personally. So I asked her if she could connect me with her stripper slash call girl friend and let her know I was interested in getting information from her and learning more about the escort business in this city. So my friend got in touch with one and asked her if it was alright for me to speak to her about this? She ended up agreeing to do a conversation on the phone as long as I promised not to record her voice or use her real name. So I asked her what name she wanted to use instead and she came up with "Dallas Glitter pants." I said like Debbie does Dallas and I asked why glitter pants and she said because it sounded like the name of a 1970s porn star. I also asked her if she wanted to pose for pictures and she said no. I asked her if people don't contact her online how do they get in touch with her? She told me that the strip club is where she gets her clients. They see her on stage and then they talk about what she can do for them off stage. It's perfect because her parents can't find out about it she has a perfect cover in terms of income by making tons of money as a stripper. Right now Dallas is in her early thirties but she started stripping at the age of 22. She finished college for secretarial work, did that for a couple of years and then saw her life going no where so she decided to get into stripping. She makes great money stripping, over one hundred thousand a year . . . .Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/mgtow/donationsAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Mar 10, 2021 • 15min
57 - The Glass Hammer
Today I'm going to do something a little bit unusual. The youtube user Cro - Mag-non, as in Cro Mag non Man donated some money and wanted me to share an essay with you guys. I've already had a couple requests to do a video where I'm reading someone else's script but had to turn them down. One was extremely hateful and angry and the other one didn't make any sense. So I had to tell both people, no I'm not going to read your script and sent them their money back. The script Cro - Mag-non sent is different. It's well written and relevant and it's about men dealing with women in positions of authority in the workplace. So thank you Cro-Mag-non for your donation, let me read your script and then I'll go into my own analysis afterwords. This is what Cro-Mag non has to say: "As Female Supervisors, managers, Course leaders, and directors are now everywhere You will have to learn and develop new strategies in order to take them on, should they decide to oppose your interests and rights. They are neither the alpha dog or the Charismatic rogue nor are they a bullish lesbian. their behavior follows none of these patterns in any way. So how do they operate? Women have moved into the workplace and seek to usurp economic power for themselves, this creates competition. We all know the broad strokes of feminism and its emasculation through indoctrination. However, what tools do women rely upon when they are embedded in a power structure such as the work space, Government, or Education? The forging of the glass hammer comes about as women desire power but have an extreme aversion to risk. Power has to be wielded which means responsibility must also be established, women want the power but not the risk of being held to account for its use. Dealing with competition directly may end in humiliation and a loss of status for a woman. So being direct carries the risk of culpability. In spite of this women like to lead, but not from the front. They like to use leading questions so that the opposite party substantiates their point for them. If you refuse to be led what other methods does she have at her disposal? She has the glass hammerSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/mgtow/donationsAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Mar 7, 2021 • 12min
56 - Project MGTOW
Today's video is brought to you by a donation by Kathryn from Nevada. She didn't want me to cover a specific topic and instead let me cover whatever I want. As a thanks I'm going to show her pictures from Nevada. What I'd like to cover in this video is the value of art in the MGTOW movement. And the pictures I'm showing you come from the Rhyolite Ghost Town in Nevada along the border with Death Valley, California. At its peak this town had anywhere between three thousand to five thousand inhabitants. Today the gold mines are closed and all that's left are a few buildings and an open air museum with tons of interesting works of art in the middle of no where. What I'm going to show you is mostly art installations in the desert. My educational background is a fine arts Degree in New Media. And while I was taking my bachelor or fine arts feminists tried to brainwash me about the idea that gender was something we choose and not something we were born with. One of my female professors went to such extreme lengths as to masculinize herself to look, sound and possibly think like a man. I even suspect she either went as far as to have breast reduction surgery or resorted to taping down her breasts. Whatever she did it looked like she completely flattened down her chest. She came across as really angry about being women and I feel like they would rather have been born as men. I rarely saw her smile and I felt like she was full of self loathing. But even with all of these negatives she exposed me to she opened up my eyes to some interesting strategies to get culture to change. It's the artists in a society that change the direction of culture and popular values. Feminists have infiltrated higher education and the arts for over 50 years and have been changing culture and society to suit their needs. If MGTOW is to grow and evolve we need to create art that captures the imagination of the public. That can be anything from music, like Marcus Brown is doing, videos, art installations and even performance art and culture jamming. I think the best way for us to be effective is to do different pieces of performance art and get attention from that by recording it on video and sharing it with other. Another great strategy is for ourselves to live as the examples we want others to follow. We need to show the world that being a MGTOW is all about freedom of choice, movement, association. We need to show that we are not living the shadows of women but have stepped into the light for ourselvesmras and feminists arguing at u of t mra eventhttps://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nvYyG...Ferrari Pick Up Prank.https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TWvH7...Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/mgtow/donationsAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Mar 3, 2021 • 9min
55 - I Married a MGTOW
Today's video is brought to you by a donation by Ronaldo. He had a few questions he wanted me answer and I'm going to paraphrase his questions. The first one is: "Do you have a girlfriend and are you keeping your MGTOW beliefs a secret from her?" Well I'm single and don't see myself in a relationship at all. I'm thinking of hiring a call girl in the next little while for sexual services, maybe I'll do a video on my experience. Maybe I'll find one that wants to trade photos for her services. I'll take pictures for her ads and she can show me a good time. Then I can share the photos with everyone here. But of course she'll have to be wearing something in the photos I put up. But I'm getting way off topic. For me it's probably a bigger deal sharing my MGTOW beliefs with my parents then any potential female partner. My mother is already trying her hardest to shame me simply for not dating. I can't imagine the guilt that would be thrown my way if she finds about my MGTOW values. Ronaldo you also say that you don't believe in marriage, having kids or cohabiting but the woman you're dating you haven't told her about your preference to continue living on your own, in your own place without moving in together. You also haven't told her that you have no interest in a traditional life with all of its treacherous trappings of a usual relationship. And this is your question: "What's the the best way for me to tell her that I don't want a traditional relationship and about my MGTOW beliefs?" Ronaldo I honestly feel that you are expecting some kind of a backlash from her when you tell her but at the same time telling me you don't care if he tells her and then she leaves. I think you do care if she leaves. otherwise you wouldn't be asking me this question and bringing up these issues. I believe that you want her to accept your MGTOW beliefs and then validate your point of view and stay with you in a relationship. I think you want me to validate how you feel and confirm that you will be fine regardless of if she stays or leaves. I think you want me to play the role of a life coach? Please correct me if I'm wrong but it's almost like you are asking me to make a choice for you? Or possibly you are looking for another option that you haven't thought about before. Murdering Marriagehttps://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sFpmZ...Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/mgtow/donationsAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Feb 28, 2021 • 11min
54 - Briffaults's Law
A few weeks ago I did a video for CCRoxtar and now he wants me to do another one. So he made a donation and has a new topic idea. This is the question he asked me: Having heard Stardusk (& to a lesser extent Barbarossa) talk often about Briffault's Law, I wonder what your take on it is. It is quoted from Robert Briffault's book, The Mothers: A Study of the Origins of Sentiments & institutions (1927) & states as follows: "The female, not the male, determines all the conditions of the animal family. Where the female can derive no benefit from association with the male, no such association takes place." I deem this to be true to the extent that in nearly every sexually dimorphous species, the females are the selective sex while the males compete to be selected. Yet in other ways such a statement could apply to anyone regardless of gender. For instance, MGTOW like you & me realize that if we cannot benefit from associating with females, we need not do so. Hope to hear from you soon on this topic. :) Thanks for the question CCRoxtar this is my take on it: Men have to be less picky about their sexual partners. I believe that as men it's not that many of us want to consciously have constant sex outside of a relationship with multiple partner but it's actually part of our subconscious mind. Biology makes us interested in many of the young and attractive women simultaneously so we can meet our biological imperative and procreate. Biology makes us want to have sex all the time but the emotions of love want us to have one female partner. It's almost like love and the lust attraction are balancing themselves out in many cases. I'm speaking of my own personal experience here. In the end I've always sought out emotional intimacy and closeness and sex. And I'd say the seventy to eighty percent of my male friends see relationships with women the same way. They are in committed long term relationships or looking for such relationships. The ones looking for relationships have no problem having no strings attached sex but once they fall in love that changes for many of themSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/mgtow/donationsAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Feb 26, 2021 • 12min
53 - MGTOW Infiltrators
A couple of weeks ago I noticed that there were more women then usual frequenting my youtube channel. It seemed like all of a sudden women were trying to contact me an prove that they too were MGTOWs. Since then the female attention to this channel has died down a bit. But it got me thinking, why are women drawn to MGTOW. How can you be a man going your own way if you're a woman? And I've chatted back and forth with two women that tried to use the rationalization hamster to convince me that they were MGTOWs. One of them was married. But this makes me think that these women are either male trolls, feminist infiltrators or possibly the real deal, actual women that are here to somehow become part of MGTOW. You can't really take things at face value on youtube. This is one of the few remaining places where people still have their anonymity. And anonymity was one of the cornerstones the internet was built on.Tommy Sotomayorhttp://youtu.be/WckewBBUNZ0"Ain't That Sumthin'"http://youtu.be/g15l_ROE3TcSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/mgtow/donationsAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy


