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Jun 15, 2022 • 11min

237 - Feminism & Gynocentrism

Most men in the manosphere can agree that feminism is negative for men because it promotes female superiority in politics, education, economics and every single aspect of human society. Some would go as far as to say that feminism is gynocentrism revealed in its most naked form and exposed for the entire world to see. Gynocentrism IS covert female nature and feminism is overt hyper female nature. The men's rights movement fights feminism but it embraces gynocentrism by welcoming in women into the movement as well as traditionalism. The MRM only exposes half truths and many men's rights organizations, but not all use women as human shield to protect themselves from unpopular opinions. And at the same time some of the women in such organizations use those organizations to gain status or attention for themselves. It's like two parasites feeding off each other. Or it's like the Polish blanket trick, where you increase the length of a blanket by a foot by cutting a foot off the bottom and sewing it to the top. No offense to Polish men. However, MGTOW on the other hand fights both feminism and gynocentrism or feminism light as I'd like to call it. Gynocentrism is after-all a very large component of traditionalism. Before the industrial revolution, women needed to make themselves out to be fragile or delicate pretty flowers or beautiful jewels in order to avoid many of the backbreaking chores humans had to do before fossil fuels and electricity. They had to cover their bodies in long flowing dresses to protect themselves from the elements. Now that those manual labor chores are much easier to do, thanks due to men and the technology we invented, they no longer need to play up to their fragility. They no longer need to pass themselves off as passive. Instead feminism has made women aggressive with regards to what they want. Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/mgtow/donationsAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
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Jun 12, 2022 • 10min

236 - Casual Sex Regrets

Women it seems often regret having casual sex with men and that regret usually happens the day after. And then women regret being sexually active and then take that regret out on men in the form of false rape allegations and/or sexual assault charges. But what I want to know is why do women regret casual sex in the first place and more importantly why do they take it out on a man? I'm including a link to an article called "The Real Reason Women Might Regret Casual Sex in the description below and here is a paragraph from that article: "The research team found that college-age women are more likely to regret a one-time sexual encounter, whereas men are more likely to regret not taking a sexual opportunity. Women's biggest sexual regrets are losing their virginity to the wrong partner, cheating on a partner or moving too fast sexually. Men, on the other hand, regretted not making a move on a potential partner, and a lack of sexual adventurousness in their younger or single days. Similar patterns held among gay men and lesbians – women were more likely to regret sexual activity, while men were more likely to regret chances not taken." The article also says that there is scientific evidence that negative feelings also create stronger memories. So if a woman feels negative about a one night stand and she regrets it then she's more likely to remember it more intensely. When women regrets a one night stand and takes it out on the man by saying that he took advantage of her, what she's really saying is that she feels bad for letting her hormones in the moment take advantage of her and therefore she getting back at her casual sex partner is one way to take back some of the power she lost by giving away her sexuality cheaply. She probably acted out on subconscious impulses, had a one night stand to someone she probably barely knows and now feels bad about it. Someone has to pay for her feelings of regret and women are often taught that men are disposable. So it's easy to put the blame on a male scapegoat. I also believe that this is natures way of creating buyers remorse in a woman. If she has casual sex and her subconscious mind doesn't think the guy is worthy of having children with the following day then she will regret it.The Real Reason Women Might Regret Casual Sexhttp://www.alternet.org/real-reason-w...The Anatomy of False Accusations: A Skeptical Case Studyhttp://www.centerforinquiry.net/blogs...Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/mgtow/donationsAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
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Jun 10, 2022 • 10min

235 - Transgender Women

Today's video is brought to you by a donation from Kill Joy one nine seven and this is what he has to say: "Hi Sandman, From my personal experience over the past few years with a transgender M2F friend, I have noticed the most dramatic changes in 'her' personality coming about due to her hormone treatment. She had slowly lost her ability to think logically as she did before and 'the change' has now become very emotion drive (becoming hostile at any criticism, breaking into treats over minor issues or events, ect.) as well as changing her mentality to one where she looks at people for their utility value more so than their friendship with her. Seeing this change happen first hand has allowed me to see the development of the female mentality in a compressed time. Two additional questions are how is bisexuality and homosexuality effecting women and MGTOW? Since its offering men alternatives to spending time and money on women and thus giving women less opportunities and more competition. And how has the trans community effected feminism as it opens the "men are evil, women are good by nature" debate up further and puts into question just who will benefit from feminism; those born female or any one identifying as such?" well, thanks for your questions Kill Joy one nine seven. I've already spoken about the gay and bisexual influence of men in the MGTOW movement. In fact I have two videos that I'm linking to in the description called Women Hate Bi Guys question mark and Gay MGTOW. Hopefully you can find answers in those videos with regards to men and their sexuality. But your description of the male to female friend has got to make everyone see that being male versus female has more to do with hormones then anything else. Estrogen, the female hormone allows women to exploit men's strength and Testosterone, the male hormone allows men to be exploited by women. More and more I realize that female nature is nature in the hormonal sense.Women Hate Bi Guys? - MGTOWhttps://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rL0U7...Gay MGTOWhttps://www.youtube.com/watch?v=B3LI5...Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/mgtow/donationsAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
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Jun 8, 2022 • 11min

234 - Virtual >Rape Culture

If there's any doubt that Toronto, Canada is the undisputed capital of feminism and gynocentrism outside of Sweden then the link I'm including in the description below will prove it once and for all. Apparently women in this city are so bored with their lives that they have turned to policing games like Grand Theft auto five and making sure that people don't create rape hacks for video games. And the story in the video is covered by CityNews one of the main local news stations in the city. They cover this story by interviewing a woman that says that simulated sexual assault happens when your character is locked into place in the game and then the evil gamers do awful sexual things to your character. And now even the Toronto police department is paying attention as more women in this city complain about virtual rape. But what are the police supposed to do? Shut down users in Russia and Asia that are outside their jurisdiction. The whole situation sounds like a gross mismanagement of public resources. Fortunately I have a solution for female gamers. I think that women should fight the problem of male hacking by hacking into the games themselvesand modifying the gamer experience. Anything a man can do a woman can do just as well. So I'm sure there are tons of female hackers out there with computer science degrees ready to fight this online scourge of virtual rape. Right? Well as far as I know most game developers are male and so are most programmers. So even if women wanted to modify these games and fight back there probably wouldn't be enough competent female hackers to fight this. I think to some extent as more women enter gaming world we'll probably see more of this type of behavior.Virtual rape hard to track in online gaming, police sayhttps://www.youtube.com/watch?v=neTTQ...The Horrendous Odds in Online Datinghttp://mgtow1.blogspot.ca/2014/10/the...Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/mgtow/donationsAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
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Jun 6, 2022 • 10min

233 - Lifelong Child Support

We've all heard that in many jurisdictions lifelong alimony exists regardless of how much money a man makes and financial hardship he may face. But what about lifetime child support? Bernard Chapin covered an article that I'm linking to in the description below called "Spanish man must continue child support to 29-year-old daughter." The youth unemployment rate in countries like Spain, Portugal, Greece and many other European nations is twenty or thirty percent or more in some cases for those people under the age of thirty. And in this case the judge ruled that the father of a twenty nine year old woman must pay her five hundred Euros per month in child support. According to the article, "The judge pointed out that due to the economic situation, and also the fact that the father himself has a good financial standing, he would have to wait until she completes her studies in two years." You can surely bet that such a decision by this judge could set the precedent for this to happen to other men and possibly women in Spain. The judge also said that the plaintiff "appears to have an economical position of relative strength, owning several real estate properties along with several vehicles, including a BMW." So all the men out there listening to this who have finished paying paying child support in Spain, you have to start worrying about it again for your fully grown adult children. In this case The judge further pointed out that the young woman, never having worked, was not entitled to unemployment benefits and that once she has completed her studies, she has more of a chance of finding gainful employment. The man's lawyer said "These rulings are surprising, crazy and not normal. It's absurd.Spanish man must continue child support to 29-year-old daughterhttp://www.digitaljournal.com/news/wo...Being extradited for $2500 child support and my kids are almost 30...https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0Vx3q...Toronto and Vancouver home prices pass Rome and close in on Parishttp://business.financialpost.com/201...MGTOW: Not All Women Are Like That!https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fYdbx...Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/mgtow/donationsAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
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May 29, 2022 • 10min

232 - Nice Guys

As I mentioned at the close of yesterday's video another you-tuber named Razor Blade Kandy mentioned that women's minds don't seem to process when a a male is behaving nicely the same way as men do. When he said this is struck a nerve and triggered something in my head to explore the idea of nice guys and why women don't seem to want nice guys even though they say they do. It seems like a contradiction. I believe that many women say they want a nice guy as the ultimate form of shit test. All of those talk shows and behavioral trends that were promoted in the nineteen eighties, nineties and early two thousands where women went on national television and spoke about how their men were bad dead beats and what they really wanted was a nice guy was an attempt to socially condition many men in generation x, myself included into white knights. Many of us were too young to know what a shit test was so when we heard women speak we took them at face value instead of understanding their true motivations. I was too young to even comprehend what a shit test was yet I still passed it subconsciously because I decided not to become a nice guy but instead focused on my outward appearance at that young age. My body and clothing would be the way I conveyed my values and beliefs. Perhaps what I subconsciously understood was that Women will make an acception for nice guys if they have other physical or possibly financial qualities. If they dress well, have nice bodies or have money. When they say I want a nice guy, what they really mean is a nice looking guy. Not a guy that behaves nicely. For many men there is a disconnect or communications issue between behaving nice and looking nice. Most men it seems process the word nice to relate to their behavior instead of their looks. While I was in High School I put most of my effort into my appearance instead of my personality. Both males and females would criticize my behavior me but at the end of the day I would still get girlfriends. whereas the guys with nice attitudes but with an average looking appearance would remain perpetually single. The average looking man with a great personality is on the same level as a fat or overweight woman with a great personality. It doesn't take much if any work for a man to look average.Internet Has Destroyed Gender Dynamics Beyond Repair & It Will Get Worse !!https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6ELYk...Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/mgtow/donationsAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
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May 27, 2022 • 10min

231 - Oneitis

"Hey Sandman, I have a YouTube video request. I'm not a MGTOW myself, though since discovering the manosphere I certainly feel like I am one. At first, out of necessity, then out of spite, and now for my own sake. I'm sure you're aware of something in the seduction community known as "oneitis." In order to be a true MGTOW, one must conquer a primal directive, oneitis being the main manifestation of such a thing. What are your personal experiences with oneitis and what advice or insight can you give to guys struggling with oneitis or as I call it "pussysuffering"? Well thanks for your question Volodymyr. Withregards to my own experience with "oneitis" this happened to me for the first time in my life when I was in the tenth grade in high school. I was obsessed with a girl for about six months and I would say that this was my first young love. And after this I never got hung up on a woman until my first real adult love in my mid-twenties but even then I got through the emotional pain relatively quickly after that relationship. But when I was in high school I had both male and female friends that were obsessed with one person for one, two or even three years between the ages of fourteen and eighteen. And the friends that I still know from that time period are still dealing with the consequences of their obsession with one person. The time I spent dating many different girls in high school was usually when my male friends spent obsessing over one woman that wouldn't give them the time of day. And she was probably getting off on it knowing that she had their attention for many months or years. I found that many women like knowing someone cares for them and wants them and it boosts their ego. So oftentimes they don't have the heart to tell the poor schmuck that they aren't interested and let him go on his merry or non merry way.Nine Steps to Avoid neediness and oneitishttp://www.blackdragonblog.com/2012/0...Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/mgtow/donationsAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
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May 25, 2022 • 11min

230 - MGTOW Declaration of Independence

Earlier today I had someone contact me about asking me to define the difference between the MRA Movement and MGTOW. His name is Anthony and he has been an MRA since before the turn of the century and I know him personally. So he's been following the movement for over fifteen years. When he started getting involved and following the MRM there were a couple of dozen men involved. I take his thoughts an opinions seriously because he was involved in this long before anyone else. And he asked me how I see MGTOW and MRA differently. So I told him what I've said before. That men going their own way are about decentralized power and influence. We aren't into organizing, holding meetings or creating a social movement. We are purely into philosophy and make our videos to increase awareness about gynocentrism and fight feminism ideas just like the Men's Right's movement. Most of us are not about activism in the traditional sense. It's more about online activism making videos. And keep in mind that what I say here is not a manifesto but just a bunch of generalizations that I'm making. I also told him that a MGTOW can be an MRA and and MRA can be a MGTOW. There might have been a time when the two were inseparable but I believe that time has passed. And people can now choose to either be an MRA, MGTOW, both or neither. And I'm not the one saying this but hundreds if not thousands of men are saying this now. People believe that the MRA movement and MGTOW philosophy are increasingly separate things and getting that idea out of people's heads now that it's been formed is like trying to skate uphill. Unlike many of the other vocal critics of the men's rights movement I support what they are doing even if it only brings awareness to the issues. And the men's rights movement is comprised of more then just AVFM. There's Cafe up here in Canada, Men's Rights Edmonton as well as other groups. And Cafe is extremely inclusive of everyone and that's what I like about it. AVFM is a company with a hierarchy. New people come in and old people leave, willing or otherwise. My entire life I've been anti-corporation. I've never liked working for companies that have defined hierarchies and leadership structures.Does Feminism Discriminate Against Men? A Debatehttp://www.menstuff.org/columns/farre...Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/mgtow/donationsAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
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May 22, 2022 • 10min

229 - Demographic Winter

Just a quick update before I begin today's topic. Some of you may have noticed I sounded a bit sick yesterday and I'm getting a bit of a sore throat so I can't really talk with my normal intensity. Hopefully it will clear up shortly. But it's difficult to speak at high volume and energy when it causes pain. Anyways, I want to talk about the Demographic Winter. This is a situation where there are far more older people in a population then young people because younger generations are choosing to have no kids or less kids. And it's a topic that relates to MGTOW because 99% of us are choosing not to have children and contribute to population growth. This will effect most of us because as we get older there is a risk that the social safety net is going to fall apart due to the inability of governments to pay off the interest on their national debts. This is why every man going his own way needs a financial backup plan in case that does end up happening and the state can't afford to pay pensions. Right now there is no danger of that happening because interest rates are incredibly low and will seemingly never go up again. In Canada where I live the population continues to increase even though I remember reading a few years ago that the birth rate was one point five to one point six children for every couple. Immigration continues to increase the population base even though native born Canadians as well as first and second generation Canadians aren't having children. The demographic winter will probably be a form of poetic justice for many men because it's women that tend to outlive men by four or five years. So it will be women in their extremely old age that will be the most impacted by the demographic winter. But this is fair because women are the ones that have taken us into this situation. Before women entered the workforce men forced families to save money. And because of that the savings rate always seemed to hoover between ten and twenty percent.Japan's The Margarines pop idols aim to sing away debthttp://www.bbc.com/news/blogs-news-fr...Demographic Winter Documentaryhttps://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jxUD8...Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/mgtow/donationsAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
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May 20, 2022 • 10min

228 - Purse Ladies

"Hi Sandman, In a nutshell, I work in Washington, DC. I take a shuttle bus to the Metro, for starters. There are two women who get on the bus and take the front seat and put their bags on the second seat so no one can sit beside them. One of them is "disabled" simply because of her weight and claims entitlement for the front seat, refusing to offer it up even for blind people. What got me thinking was the bag issue. Most working women carry at least three huge bags to work with them every day. Men usually have a briefcase or a backpack and that's it. However, the women have a purse, a tote-bag and usually two other "mystery bags" on public transportation this causes a mess for commuters, who often have little room to move. Also, I work in downtown DC and need to walk through a metal detector every day for work. Many of us need to pass through security for our agencies. These women always make the entrance more difficult because of all their bags that need to be x-rayed and then they need to collect all that crap on the other side of the detector. During fire drills, which could be serious, they have to collect all their stuff to leave the building, only to have to lug it all in again. Also at the end of the day all those bags need to be checked by out police. So I am asking: Why all the damn stuff? What do they lug in every day that they don't just keep in the office? I know its a little silly, but it is also annoying. I actually had a female coworker who carries so many that she left one abandoned in the parking garage and they had to call the bomb squad for an unattended bag...i kid you not. Anyway Thanks again." Well, thanks for your questions and comments mercury rising. I think that there are many rational and irrational reasons women carry so many bags with them. The lady on the bus is using the bags she carries with her to increase her personal space. The bags represent and extension of her already larger then life size and her own bags surrounding her are like a mobile nesting instinct. It's like she's a big bird and the bags represent a nest surrounding her. This increases her personal space which can be at a premium in a city like like Washington DC. Washington is more European in design because of the mid rise building style and many walk-able streets. When I visited I found it extremely pedestrian friendly.More Street Harassment!?!? MGTOWhttps://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fQl9e...Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/mgtow/donationsAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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