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It's our favorite month...Anal August! And to celebrate we are offering you tips and tricks on how to explore anal safely and pleasurably including how to play with your own ass, how to play with some else’s ass, and how to play with the prostate. Be sure to check out our Instagram contest (just search Shameless Sex Podcast on Instagram) as we are giving away a TON of prizes this month - many of which are sponsored by one of our favorite sex toy brands, Fun Factory.  We also answer a sex question: My wife rarely wants to have sex with me, but she masturbates all the time. Should I talk to her about this? Other Links: Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESSSEX on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.com Get $5 off while mastering the art of pleasure at OMGyes.com/shameless Get 20% Off and Free Shipping with the code Shameless at Manscaped.com Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at purepleasureshop.com Be the first to get Margins Wine's new releases by signing up for their newsletter at marginswine.com

Join Dr. Lovejoy, an experienced femdom phone sex operator, and Bratty Nikki, a successful online femdom and co-owner of iWantClips, as they discuss what a day in their lives looks like. They explore the nuances of fetishes in relationships and the importance of communication. With humor, they delve into health topics impacting sexual well-being. The duo shares personal anecdotes from their journeys into financial domination and highlights empowering aspects of their work, along with bizarre tales from the phone sex world.

What is the orgasm gap? Why does it exist, and what can we do about it both personally and on a larger scale?  Suzannah Weiss is a freelance sex and relationships writer who currently serves as a regular contributor to Vice, Teen Vogue, Bustle, Glamour, Playboy, New York Magazine, and more. She frequently discusses gender, body image, and social justice on radio shows and podcasts and has spoken at conferences including SXSW. Her feminist essays have been published in several books. She has edited for Broadly, Teen Vogue, and several bestselling authors and ghostwritten for well-known CEOs. Whoopi Goldberg once cited one of her articles on The View in a debate over whether asking for what you want in bed is a feminist act. (She thinks it is.) Suzannah holds degrees in Gender & Sexuality Studies, Cognitive Neuroscience, and Modern Culture & Media from Brown University (which she uses mainly to overanalyze The Bachelor and argue over semantics). Her background in writing, editing, marketing, and communications ranges from Silicon Valley startups to academic journals. Before starting her freelance career, she served as Assistant Editor for Footnote, a site that translates academic research for mainstream audiences, Editorial Assistant for Differences: A Journal of Feminist Cultural Studies, Content Specialist for the tech startup WibiData, and Research Assistant for Brown’s Humanity-Centered Robotics Institute and Social Cognitive Science Laboratory. Her writing has also appeared in The Washington Post, The Los Angeles Times, The Village Voice, Cosmopolitan, Elle, Marie Claire, Harper’s Bazaar, Seventeen, Bitch, Bust, Women’s Health, Paper, Paste, Redbook, Good Housekeeping, Mic, Business Insider, Buzzfeed, The Huffington Post, Alternet, Thought Catalog, Pop Sugar, xoJane, MEL, and much more. To learn more visit: https://suzannahweiss.com/  

Kristen, a knowledgeable sex educator, returns to discuss a range of sizzling topics. She dives into exploring desires, sharing tips on pegging and fisting, emphasizing the importance of communication and trust. Kristen addresses listeners' curious queries about pregnancy fetishes and navigating trauma in relationships. The conversation is sprinkled with humor and personal anecdotes, making it both informative and entertaining. Expect juicy insights into intimacy, body positivity, and celebrating diverse sexual orientations!

What does it mean to be submissive? Why do some people like exploring "sub space" and what are some tips on exploring submission without sacrificing one's strength? Veronica is a multi-passionate entrepreneur on a mission to strip people bare—of the expectations and limiting beliefs that do not serve them—so they can thrive unapologetically exactly as they are.From systems to spankings, she emboldens womxn to leverage their pleasure and power in business and the bedroom with Business Laid Bare (systems for creatives and entrepreneurs that scale and save their sanity) and Desires Laid Bare (kink education for beginners in a fun and shame-free way).She gets all hot and bothered by diligent process, thoughtful protocols, and high-quality service: from the spreadsheets to the bedsheets. To learn more visit https://veronicayanhs.com. Check out her YouTube channel here: https://www.youtube.com/desireslaidbareOther Links:Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESSSEX on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.comGet $5 off while mastering the art of pleasure at OMGyes.com/shamelessGet 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at purepleasureshop.comBe the first to get Margins Wine's new releases by signing up for their newsletter at marginswine.com

Ashley Manta returns to teach is all about hand jobs AKA hand sex. Learn Ashley's signature position, the "Reclining Diamond". Master the "Pepper Grinder" and "Lower Lip Tease". Use these "Handy Skills" to make hand pleasure the main course!Ashley Manta has mindfully combined sex and cannabis as part of her CannaSexual® brand. Her work has been profiled in The Huffington Post, BBC, LA Weekly and featured on VICELAND. She co-founded "International Hand Job” day … yes this is a real holiday that is celebrated around the world. Her work is featured at mainstream, adult and cannabis events and retreats around the world. Learn more at http://www.ashleymanta.com/ Other Links:Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESSSEX on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.comGet $5 off while mastering the art of pleasure at OMGyes.com/shamelessGet 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at purepleasureshop.comBe the first to get Margins Wine's new releases by signing up for their newsletter at marginswine.com

We recorded this episode because YOU, our dear sweet listeners, requested that we bring on an expert to speak on this important yet touchy subject. Holistic Therapist Melissa Fritchle returns to chat all about depression, anxiety, ADHD, SSRI's and how they all affect sex and relationships. She also shares some tips and tools on how folks can navigate these often turbulent waters, as well as how partners can support them. Melissa Fritchle, LMFT is a Holistic Sex Therapist & award-winning Sex Educator with a private practice in Santa Cruz, CA. She is also a Certified Mindfulness Meditation teacher and is working on a second book, The Body as Guru. She is the author of The Conscious Sexual Self Workbook and writes the pleasure activism blog, Transformational Pleasure. Founder & Director of Trauma-Informed Sex Positive Therapy Training, she promotes inclusive sexual health around the world. To learn more visit  www.mf-therapy.comOther Links:Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESSSEX on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.comGet $5 off while mastering the art of pleasure at OMGyes.com/shamelessGet 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at purepleasureshop.comBe the first to get Margins Wine's new releases by signing up for their newsletter at marginswine.com

Dixie De La Tour is a sexual folklorist, professional storyteller, podcaster, teacher, community builder and most of all, a facilitator. She is also the founder, curator & host of the award-winning and NSFW storytelling series, Bawdy Storytelling (“The Moth for Pervs” - LA Weekly, “The Original Sex and Storytelling series” - Playgirl) that’s been lauded for its transformational, relatable, empowering performances. This live stage series celebrated its 12 year Anniversary earlier this yera, and Bawdy’s groundbreaking podcast has had over 1.5 million downloads, plus it’s been acknowledged as a ‘Best Of’ Sex podcast from GQ Magazine, Marie Claire, Uproxx, Bustle and (twice!) by Esquire Magazine. In addition to story and public speaking coaching for her own series, Dixie coaches for TEDx, Women in Technology, offers custom Brand Storytelling coaching, teaches Storytelling for the Classroom (she’s taught her Master Classes to high school students, too). Ultimately, this story-loving southerner is passionate about storytelling’s ability to keep people safe, reduce our social anxiety and connect us with strangers. Stories help you find your people! Bawdy Storytelling is available on all of the podcast apps. To learn more visit bawdystorytelling.com Other Links:Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESSSEX on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.comGet $5 off while mastering the art of pleasure at OMGyes.com/shamelessGet 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at purepleasureshop.comBe the first to get Margins Wine's new releases by signing up for their newsletter at marginswine.comGet 10% off during your first three months at ritual.com/SHAMELESSSEX

Once a month we are offering an ad-free bonus episode as a gift to our listeners. This episode is with a repeat guest and fellow podcaster and friend Connor Moore of The Realness Podcast. We talk about dating, orgasms, how to show up as our best, most true selves in sex and relationships, and more. Enjoy! Connor Moore is a Lifestyle Design and Dating Coach. He also leads personal development retreats and is the host of The Realness Podcast - following the motto "Authenticity Over Everything" while delivering unconventional life advice in a way that is somehow both charming and ridiculous. Check out his podcast on all podcast apps or learn more at https://gettherealness.com

What is erotic breathwork? How can it enhance our sexual experiences? And why does it all start with the anus? Tune in to learn about this and more! Recorded live from Sex Geek Summer Camp!M’kali-Hashiki (em-KAH-lee-HAH-she-kee) is a Renegade Sexual Mystic; a Tour Guide to the realm of Eros; & a Teacher of Somatic Erotic Possibilities. M’kali-Hashiki is also a Certified Sexological Bodyworker; a Certified Sound, Voice, & Music Healer; and a Certified Tantric Sacred Intimate - offering group intensives, individual sessions, instructional videos, ecourses, guided visualizations, blog posts, conversations, and live ritual events. To learn more about M’kali-Hashiki's work visit fiercepassions.comSupport us on Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/shamelesssexCome to our June 29th, 2019 workshop at Diamond Adult World, Grover Beach! DiamondAdult.comGet 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESSSEX on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.comGet $5 off while mastering the art of pleasure at OMGyes.com/shamelessGet 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at purepleasureshop.comDrink a glass of delicious natural wine while listening to us by visiting marginswine.com