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What gets in the way of people having great sex with themselves or others? What is the most powerful thing people can do to amp up the pleasure? Return guest and dear friend, Pyasa, answers all this and more (along with plenty of applicable tips for how to how more sexual pleasure in your life). We also answer a sex question about dirty talk. And we share our fav sex toy of the week: The Kurve About our guest: Pyasa is a trauma-informed somatic sexologist, Interdisciplinary Pelvic specialist, and sexological bodyworker. She mentors women and couples online, facilitates individual and group transformational retreats, and has been raising consciousness about the importance of sexual sovereignty as a public speaker on stages around the world. She is also the author of the Intimacy Adventure Playbook.Pyasa believes pleasure is our birthright as human beings and a powerful healing force. She is passionate about helping people unleash from the disempowered conditioning imposed by sex negative cultures which have distorted it’s original expression. She uses embodied learning, presence practices, pelvic/heart, and de-armoring techniques to support her students to take agency of their lives so they can bring their full-bodied presence into the world, enjoying life and all its pleasures. To learn more visit iampyasaunleashed.comhttps://www.instagram.com/iampyasa_unleashedhttps://iampyasaunleashed.com/costa-rica-womens-retreat/Mention Shameless Sex Podcast & get $200 off tuition for the Sexual Healing Initiation & Celebration RetreatOther links:Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESSSEX on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.comGet $5 off while mastering the art of pleasure at OMGyes.com/shamelessGet 20% Off and Free Shipping with the code Shameless at Manscaped.comGet 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at purepleasureshop.comWant to try one of our favorite boutique wines? Get 10% off of 3 bottles or more with code SHAMELESSSEX10 or 15% off of 6 bottles or more with come SHAMELESSSEX15 at marginswine.comBuy some Shameless Sex swag while supporting a good cause when you visit teepublic.com/stores/shameless-sex-podcast  

Why is masturbation important? How can it change your life for the better? And what are some of the ways people can bring more self-pleasure into their lives? August shares her own personal journey as well as plenty of tips and applicable life hacks for ways you can have great sex with yourself. Want to skip to the interview? Fast forward to minute 17. About our guest: August McLaughlin is a nationally recognized health and sexuality writer, media personality and host and producer of the podcast, Girl Boner Radio, which offers a spicy blend of personal stories, in-depth reporting and inspiration. Reviewers have called the show “Sex in the City meets NPR” and the “Fresh Air of Sex” and the show frequents Apple Podcasts’ top 100 sexuality chart.August’s work as an advocate for sexual empowerment and gender parity led her to the TEDx stage and to attend the 2016 United State of Women summit as a nominated change maker. Her articles have appeared in a range of notable publications, including Cosmopolitan, The Washington Post and DAME Magazine. August is also a trauma-informed certified sex educator with a passion for myth-busting and normalizing stigmatized topics.Publishers Weekly called her book, Girl Boner: The Good Girl’s Guide to Sexual Empowerment (Amberjack Publishing, 2018) “equally fun, risqué, and informative” and “a welcome addition to sexual health literature.” The New York Times called it “terrifically encouraging” and “a thorough primer on everything from sex toys to bondage to ‘no means no.” Her workbook, Girl Boner Journal: A Guided Journal to Sexual Joy and Empowerment (Amberjack Publishing, 2019), is full of true stories and writing prompts for deepening sexual self-discovery. August’s forthcoming book, With Pleasure: Managing Trauma Triggers for More Vibrant Sex and Relationships, cowritten by sex therapist, Jamila Dawson, LMFT, will be released by Chicago Review Press in the fall of 2021. Known for melding personal passion, artistry and activism, August uses her skills to lift others’ voices, debunk damaging myths, and encourage folks to embrace their bodies, sexuality and selves, making way for richer, more authentic lives. To learn more visit girlboner.orgOther links:Get Feeld - our favorite dating app - FREE + 50% off your first 3 months of the Majestic Membership by clicking here or going to this link: feeld.co/shameless Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESSSEX on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.comGet $5 off while mastering the art of pleasure at OMGyes.com/shamelessGet up to $200 off your customized dream mattress + two free pillows at helixsleep.com/shamelessGet 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at purepleasureshop.comWant to try one of our favorite boutique wines? Get 10% off of 3 bottles or more with code SHAMELESSSEX10 or 15% off of 6 bottles or more with come SHAMELESSSEX15 at marginswine.comBuy some Shameless Sex swag while supporting a good cause when you visit teepublic.com/stores/shameless-sex-podcast  

Learn how to give pleasure to your partner WHILE bringing yourself to orgasm with you on top! This episode is packed full of tips, tricks, position techniques, and a lot of laughter. About our guest: Samia created Sexual Essentials to take an unconventional approach to sexual education, by offering hands on sex workshops such as the infamous #MouthMasterclass #DickRiding101 & the Sex Conditioning Workout. These workshops are centered around building confidence in a bold yet respectable way where anyone can feel comfortable because they are a tribe & a 100% judgement free zone. To learn more visit thesexualessentials.com. Use code MasturbationMay now through 5/31/21 for a discountOther links:Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESSSEX on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.comGet $5 off while mastering the art of pleasure at OMGyes.com/shamelessGet turned on with 30 days free of super hot audio erotica at dipseastories.com/shamelessWant to try one of our favorite boutique wines? Get 10% off of 3 bottles or more with code SHAMELESSSEX10 or 15% off of 6 bottles or more with come SHAMELESSSEX15 at marginswine.comGet 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at purepleasureshop.comBuy some Shameless Sex swag while supporting a good cause when you visit teepublic.com/stores/shameless-sex-podcastCome to Amy's Tantra In Motion Workshop at Daniel Mollner's Summer Solstice Campout: danielmollner.com

What is crossdressing and why does it feel so good (and arousing) for penis owners who embrace the feminine part of themselves? How does crossdressing show up in sexuality? And how is this related (or not related) to sexual orientation or gender identity? We also answer a sex question: Menopause is ruining my marriage. About our guests: Sissy Becca has been an alpha male all of his life, but discovered his feminine side 15 years ago. Over the past 15 years he has alternating with struggling with his desire and being proud of his femininity. Over the last 2 years he found the perfect woman who helped him understand that being a CD is just a part of his psyche and that he should be perfectly content with living a double life. He now is happy as an alpha male most of the time, but also proud of being the sissy crossdresser the rest of the time. Ms. Ava Durga discovered the fun of feminizing males in 2001, and has helped crossdressers, sissies, and bi-curious males achieve their potential at The Sissy Parlor in South Florida since 2017. She’s been a guiding force in helping them accept that their feminine side, often including the desire for receptive sexuality, is a key part of their psyche that they should embrace. To learn more visit https://circleofq.com/Other links:Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESSSEX on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.comGet $5 off while mastering the art of pleasure at OMGyes.com/shamelessGet 20% off delicious, organic, ready to eat meals with code SHAMELESS at sakara.com/shamelessGet 15% off of some of our favorite sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at purepleasureshop.comWant to try one of our favorite boutique wines? Get 10% off of 3 bottles or more with code SHAMELESSSEX10 or 15% off of 6 bottles or more with come SHAMELESSSEX15 at marginswine.comBuy some Shameless Sex swag while supporting a good cause when you visit teepublic.com/stores/shameless-sex-podcast  

Billy joins us to share his shameless slutty YET SAFE sexual adventures including installing a glory-hole in his apartment, masked outdoor blowjobs, getting jerked off by a FemDom and then cumming on her male sub's face, and more. Want to skip to the interview? Fast forward to minute 10.About our guest: Billy Procida is a professional stand-up comedian, podcaster, and accidental gang-bang organizer. For over a decade, he's entertained audiences all over the country and can be seen at comedy clubs around New York City. His show The Manwhore Podcast: A Sex-Positive Quest for Love was named a Top Sex Podcast by Esquire and Uproxx three years in a row, and his sex & dating advice has been featured in outlets like Cosmo, YourTango, Men's Health, and more. Oh, and his father is finally proud of him. To learn more visit ManwhorePod.com/itunesOther links:Get Feeld - our favorite dating app - FREE + 50% off your first 3 months of the Majestic Membership by clicking here or going to this link: feeld.co/shameless Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESSSEX on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.comGet $5 off while mastering the art of pleasure at OMGyes.com/shamelessGet 20% Off and Free Shipping with the code Shameless at Manscaped.comGet 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at purepleasureshop.comWant to try one of our favorite boutique wines? Get 10% off of 3 bottles or more with code SHAMELESSSEX10 or 15% off of 6 bottles or more with come SHAMELESSSEX15 at marginswine.comBuy some Shameless Sex swag while supporting a good cause when you visit teepublic.com/stores/shameless-sex-podcast  

NOTE: Dr. Willow Brown's retreat has been moved to June 12th, 2021. Did you know that you can have a kidney orgasm, a liver orgasm, and utilize sex as medicine to change, heal and empower you? Friend and repeat guest Dr. Willow Brown joins us to to talk about all of this, as well as sex for longevity, vitality, & spiritual/emotional harmony, the four phases of moon cycle and five Chinese elements in relation to sexuality, and how to unlock and embody your inner Queen. We also answer a sex question about vulva shaming. About our guest: Willow Brown holds a doctorate in Chinese Medicine, blending ancient taoist philosophy with sexual and spiritual practices that ignite the souls true calling. She is devoted to the sexual healing of humanity and works to promote and open receptive pleasure pathways in each person she works with. Willow works with her clients and patients on every level. Physical, spiritual, emotional, sexual and psychological. You will not find a more holistic approach to a long happy and healthy life. To learn more visit drwillowbrown.com.For her Dreaming the Queen Awake retreat on June 12th, 2021 visit https://drwillowbrown.com/dreaming-the-queen-awake/ Other links:Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESSSEX on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.comGet $5 off while mastering the art of pleasure at OMGyes.com/shamelessGet turned on with 30 days free of super hot audio erotica at dipseastories.com/shamelessWant to try one of our favorite boutique wines? Get 10% off of 3 bottles or more with code SHAMELESSSEX10 or 15% off of 6 bottles or more with come SHAMELESSSEX15 at marginswine.comGet 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at purepleasureshop.comBuy some Shameless Sex swag while supporting a good cause when you visit teepublic.com/stores/shameless-sex-podcast  

Ian Kerner, PhD, a sex therapist and author, joins the hosts to talk about uncovering couple's repetitive sex scripts through discussing the last time they had sex. He shares tips on rewriting old sex scripts for better intimacy and more sex. The hosts also address a sex question about helping a wife achieve orgasm. They discuss the importance of communication, trying new things, and using toys to enhance pleasure. The podcast covers topics such as factors affecting arousal, finding sex coaches, breaking free from sex scripts, and incorporating presence and arousal into sex life.

How can what feels like the ultimate betrayal turn into the ultimate blessing? How can folks navigate the feeling of their lives/world falling apart - especially when it comes to breakups and divorce? And what if you have kids? Tammy Letherer, author of The Buddha at My Table, answers all this and more. Want to skip to the interview? Fast forward to minute 25.About our guest: Tammy Letherer is an author, writing coach, and blogger. She holds a degree in Journalism from Indiana University and has enjoyed a long and varied professional writing career. In addition to The Buddha at My Table, Letherer is also the author of the novel, Hello Loved Ones and the children’s book, My Health is in My Hands. She lives in Chicago with her three children.Read her blogs on Huffington Post or learn more about her work at TammyLetherer.com. Also visit her on Facebook, Twitter, and LinkedIn.Other links:Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESSSEX on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.comGet $5 off while mastering the art of pleasure at OMGyes.com/shamelessGet 20% Off and Free Shipping with the code Shameless at Manscaped.comGet up to $200 off your customized dream mattress + two free pillows at helixsleep.com/shamelessGet 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at purepleasureshop.comWant to try one of our favorite boutique wines? Get 10% off of 3 bottles or more with code SHAMELESSSEX10 or 15% off of 6 bottles or more with come SHAMELESSSEX15 at marginswine.comBuy some Shameless Sex swag while supporting a good cause when you visit teepublic.com/stores/shameless-sex-podcast  

What is Extended Orgasm? How does it lead to a hot passionate relationship and/or help couples get the chemistry back into their love lives? And what about for single folks? How can they practice/have Extended Orgasms?We also answer a sex question: I'm having a a hard time making my partner orgasm. Want to skip to the interview? Fast forward to minute 14. About our guests: For over 25 years Erwan and Alicia, who joined Erwan in 2003, have been working successfully with singles and couples, teaching their signature process – the Davon Method to hundreds of students in groups, retreats, and individual sessions and helping them create the relationships of their dreams. Erwan and Alicia have a unique approach to relationship coaching that combines their educational backgrounds in psychology and sexuality and aspects of Zen Buddhism to provide a holistic method to effectively improve connection with the self and others.Erwan and Alicia have been together for almost 20 years and over 10K students have participated in their work since 1995. They have demonstrated their signature sensual technique, Extended Orgasm, for over an hour in front of 100 people. Their specialties are supporting singles in getting into turned on and intimate relationships and helping couples take their relationships to new heights of passion and intimacy. Erwan & Alicia offer all of their coaching and classes online and support students all over the world. To learn more text Alicia at 415-308-9580 (please text + note this is a business number)Sign up for their online Extended Orgasm Workshop on April 10th, 2021 here: https://www.eventbrite.com/e/introduction-to-extended-orgasm-for-singles-couples-online-tickets-136363387563Visit pleasurecourse.com Other links:Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESSSEX on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.comGet $5 off while mastering the art of pleasure at OMGyes.com/shamelessGet turned on with 30 days free of super hot audio erotica at dipseastories.com/shamelessGet 15% off our favorite cute and compact safety alarm at shesbirdie.com/shamelessWant to try one of our favorite boutique wines? Get 10% off of 3 bottles or more with code SHAMELESSSEX10 or 15% off of 6 bottles or more with come SHAMELESSSEX15 at marginswine.comGet 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at purepleasureshop.comBuy some Shameless Sex swag while supporting a good cause when you visit teepublic.com/stores/shameless-sex-podcast  

Dating and relationship expert Damona Hoffman shares her top tips for successful dating - both online and in person, as well as advice for folks looking for long term partners. She also touches on the question: “Is it dating preference or racial bias?”. For this week's sex question, we answer: How do I navigate losing attraction for my partner after excessive he's gained a lot of weight?Want to skip to the interview? Fast forward to minute 15. About our guest: Damona Hoffman is a certified dating coach, radio host, and TV personality. Damona starred in the TV series #BlackLove and A Question of Love on FYI TV (A & E Networks), she hosts the Dates & Mates with Damona Hoffman Radio Show & Podcast, plus she is the Love Expert for BET.com. Damona has made hundreds of media appearances on NBC, Fox, Animal Planet, SiriusXM, People Magazine and more. To learn more visit damonahoffman.com/ Other links:Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESSSEX on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.comGet $5 off while mastering the art of pleasure at OMGyes.com/shamelessGet 20% off delicious, organic, ready to eat meals with code SHAMELESS at sakara.com/shamelessGet 15% off of some of our favorite sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at purepleasureshop.comGet 15% off our favorite cute and compact safety alarm at shesbirdie.com/shamelessWant to try one of our favorite boutique wines? Get 10% off of 3 bottles or more with code SHAMELESSSEX10 or 15% off of 6 bottles or more with come SHAMELESSSEX15 at marginswine.comBuy some Shameless Sex swag while supporting a good cause when you visit teepublic.com/stores/shameless-sex-podcast