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Well this was a fun one. Our dear friend and Somatic Healer Ian Stratton joins us to talk all about how we can become our best selves in all fields including in relationships, with purpose and passion, and within our own being. Stay tuned for a playful yet informative episode. We also answer a sex question about helping a partner deal with "premature ejaculation" shame. About our guest: Our friend Ian Stratton is a man on a mission to help liberate others from trauma and unconscious programming, bringing their passions to life. He does this through his training as a somatic counselor, ethical use of psychedelics, and his latest offering and creation - a deep-dive program called Altared. To learn more visit santacruzmedicine.com and Altared.lifeOther links from Ian Stratton:-Brownies Spreadsheet-Brownies "How to" Doc-Wim Hof Beginner Practice (10 Mins)-Wim Hof Advanced Practice (20 Mins)-Short Guided Breath Journey (30 Mins)-Full Guided Breath Journey (60 Mins)Other links from our beloved sponsors:Get Feeld - our favorite dating app - FREE by clicking here or going to this link: feeld.co/shameless Buy 1 BYOB sexy kit, get 1 69% off! Go to likeakitten.com/shameless and enter code 69Box at checkout Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESSSEX on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.comGet $5 off while mastering the art of pleasure at OMGyes.com/shamelessGet 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at purepleasureshop.comWant to try one of our favorite boutique wines? Get 10% off of 3 bottles or more with code SHAMELESSSEX10 or 15% off of 6 bottles or more with come SHAMELESSSEX15 at marginswine.com 

Ams and Kat from the 2HotWives podcast tell us all about their adventures opening up their longterm marriages and then venturing out into "the lifestyle". From everything including MMF and FFM threesomes to sexy house parties and swinger resorts, they share all about their experiences and even offer a few tips on how to do so lovingly and ethically. We also answer a sex question about load and ball size. Want to skip to the interview. Fast forward to minute 16.About our guests: Ams and Kat, hosts of the 2HotWives podcast, are on a mission to create a community where like-minded women can explore their sexual interests and embrace great sex as the ultimate in self-care. Both are deeply committed wives and mothers, exploring sex on their terms. Now, they have a podcast together and talk about open marriages, kink and BDSM, meeting couples to play with, seeing their partners with someone else, and the joy that phenomenal sex brings to their lives. To learn more visit 2hotwives.comOther links:Get 30% off any Satisfyer sex toy with code Shameless30 at satisfyer.comTake your (sexual) health into your own hands with at-home test kits + get 20% off at everlywell.com/shamelessGet 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESSSEX on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.comGet $5 off while mastering the art of pleasure at OMGyes.com/shamelessGet 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at purepleasureshop.comWant to try one of our favorite boutique wines? Get 10% off of 3 bottles or more with code SHAMELESSSEX10 or 15% off of 6 bottles or more with come SHAMELESSSEX15 at marginswine.com    

What is the prostate all about? Where is it located, how is a prostate orgasm different from other orgasms, and how can toys help? Also, what are the health benefits of using prostate massagers such as Aneros? Return guest and prostate expert Forrest Andrews answers all this and more. We also answer a sex question: I love my partner but I want more sex than she does and I feel like a scumbag...what should I do about this? Want to skip to the interview? Fast forward to minute 21.About our guest: Forrest Andrews is the Product and Business Development manager of Aneros. Forrest's relationship with Aneros began in 2002 and he has played an important role in the evolution of the company and their products ever since becoming their sole product tester and a consultant for the development of new products. Between 2003 to 2012 he mentored many hundreds of men helping them transition to new levels of sensual awareness through prostate massage. To check out all of Aneros’ incredible line of products go to aneros.comOther links:Get turned on with 30 days free of super hot audio erotica at dipseastories.com/shamelessGet up to $200 off your customized dream mattress + two free pillows at helixsleep.com/shamelessGet 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESSSEX on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.comGet $5 off while mastering the art of pleasure at OMGyes.com/shamelessGet 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at purepleasureshop.comWant to try one of our favorite boutique wines? Get 10% off of 3 bottles or more with code SHAMELESSSEX10 or 15% off of 6 bottles or more with come SHAMELESSSEX15 at marginswine.com    

In this episode we talk about squirting, gushing, g-spots and so much more with sex educator and (soon to be) author Kenneth Play. Kenneth shares the biology behind how it works as well as plenty of tips and tricks on how to do it (whether you are the giver or receiver). If you've ever wondered about squirting then you definitely do not want to miss this one. We also answer a sex question about losing/lowering libido after menopause. If you want to skip to the interview, fast forward to minute 22. About our guest: Kenneth Play is an international expert on female pleasure who was named the World’s Greatest Sex Hacker by GQ & Men’s Health. Kenneth has been featured by more than 100 media outlets including The New York Times, Nightline, Cosmo, Playboy, Vice, and Huffington Post. Kenneth’s forthcoming book, “Beyond Satisfied: A Sex Hacker’s Guide to Endless Orgasms, Mind-Blowing Connection, and Lasting Confidence”, will be released in 2022. To learn more visit kennethplay.com and use code SHAMELESS for 50% off his sex hacker pro course or click here to redeemOther links:Get 30% off any Satisfyer sex toy with code Shameless30 at satisfyer.comGet your buzz on without getting floored with our favorite legal, organic smokable hemp by Dad Grass + 20% off your first order at dadgrass.com/shamelessGet 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESSSEX on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.comGet $5 off while mastering the art of pleasure at OMGyes.com/shamelessGet 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at purepleasureshop.comWant to try one of our favorite boutique wines? Get 10% off of 3 bottles or more with code SHAMELESSSEX10 or 15% off of 6 bottles or more with come SHAMELESSSEX15 at marginswine.com    

Why is productivity valued above pleasure, and how does this harm sex and relationships? What about those folks who say “I just don’t have time (for sex/connection)? How can busy folks (and parents) add more pleasure into their daily lives? We also answer a sex questions about how to fulfill your bisexual partner's fantasies. Want to skip to the interview? Fast forward to minute 18.About our guest: Lisa Welsh is a Sexual Empowerment and Pleasure Coach who helps people to overcome sexual shame and insecurities so that they can step into their true orgasmic nature. She started out as a life coach, and gradually moved into the realm of sexuality after discovering the healing impact of reclaiming this part of her own identity. Lisa’s life used to revolve around her to-do list. As a busy mum with massive body image issues and no time for herself, sex started to feel like another chore to complete. She learned to put on an act to make her partner feel good and get it over as fast as possible. Eventually Lisa was forced to admit that she was losing ‘herself’ and decided to turn inward to remove the barriers she had erected over the years… she dedicated years to reading, learning, self-study and personal experimentation to re-stoke that fire in her belly and now she guides women to do the same. To learn more visit www.inbedwithlisa.comFollow at @inbedwithlisaOther links:Take your (sexual) health into your own hands with at-home test kits + get 20% off at everlywell.com/shamelessWant 20% off the ultimate BYOB sexy kits? Go to likeakitten.com/shameless or enter code SHAMELESS at checkout Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESSSEX on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.comGet $5 off while mastering the art of pleasure at OMGyes.com/shamelessGet 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at purepleasureshop.comWant to try one of our favorite boutique wines? Get 10% off of 3 bottles or more with code SHAMELESSSEX10 or 15% off of 6 bottles or more with come SHAMELESSSEX15 at marginswine.com    

"Sexting" culture is pretty huge right now, so we decided to invite Kyer Wiltshire - one of our brilliant photographers who specializes in capturing the Natural Beauty through the lens of being nude in nature - to share all about DIY erotic photography whether you want to take a  sensual photo of yourself at home or outdoors, or for material to send to a lover. We also chat about tips on lighting, props, positions, angles, as well as how taking sensual or nude photos of ourselves can help us love our bodies even more.  About our guest: Kyer began taking pictures as a teenager, documenting my outdoor lifestyle, backpacking, and climbing in the Pacific Northwest. Later he lived in Spain, Latin America, and Thailand. He is based in Santa Cruz, California, and Bali. Kyer’s photographic focus has been on yoga, weddings, portrait, travel, and event photography. He has also published four books. His first book is Tribal Revival: West Coast Festival Culture, a gorgeous coffee table book that was published in 2009. His second book is Hot Spring District. It’s a photo essay of Truth or Consequences, a funky artists enclave and hot springs in southern New Mexico. His third book is Tirta Gangga. In the spring of 2016, I photographed the Royal Water Palace of Tirta Gangga, the water gardens, ceremonies, and dance performances that took place there. His 4th book - called Natural Beauty - was released in 2021, and it represents his finest work. It celebrates the nude female form together with Mother Nature and the progress women have made around personal choice and individual sovereignty. Follow him and get sneak peak of his celebratory masterpiece on Instagram at  @kyernaturalbeauty as well as @kyerweddings To buy his beautiful book visit kyernaturalbeauty.com   To learn more about his other professional offerings visit kyerwiltshire.com

Well this was a fun one. World renown comedian Lisa Lampanelli has joined forced with Nick Scopoletti and Beau McDowell to create the Losers With a Dream Podcast. Lisa is 60, celibate and couldn't be happier to be done with the deeeaakkk. Nick is dating, finally over blondes and loves women who ask for what they want. Beau is in love and still frustrated that his testosterone forces him is masturbate everyday. Note: This podcast is a mix of playful (sometimes mildly harsh) comedy and vulnerable real talk about sex and relationships. Be prepared to laugh and feel all the feels. We also answer a sex question about getting put in "the friend zone". Want to skip to the interview? Fast forward to minute 17. About our guests: Comedians Beau McDowell and Nick Scopoletti suck at dating, suck at jobs, and suck at most things in life. But they’re great at talking about their feelings and taking advice from their mentor, the former Queen of Mean Lisa Lampanelli. Losers With a Dream releases an episode every week and can be found on all the podcast apps. And be sure to follow @lisalampanelli on InstagramOther links:Get 30% off any Satisfyer sex toy with code Shameless30 at satisfyer.comGet turned on with 30 days free of super hot audio erotica at dipseastories.com/shamelessGet 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESSSEX on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.comGet $5 off while mastering the art of pleasure at OMGyes.com/shamelessGet 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at purepleasureshop.comWant to try one of our favorite boutique wines? Get 10% off of 3 bottles or more with code SHAMELESSSEX10 or 15% off of 6 bottles or more with come SHAMELESSSEX15 at marginswine.com    

In this super fun and informative episode with Sexpert Sunny Megatron we talk all about kink and BDSM, why learning more strategic "soft skills" are key, as well as plenty of playful and sexy tips and tricks on bringing more kink into your erotic life. We also answer a sex question: Is it okay to go outside of my marriage if my partner isn't satisfying my sexual needs? Want to skip to the interview? Fast forward to minute 24. About our guest: Sunny Megatron is a sexuality & kink educator and media personality. She’s the host and executive producer of the Showtime original television series, SEX with Sunny Megatron, plus co-hosts the AASECT Award winning American Sex Podcast and Open Deeply Podcast. Sunny is a Certified Relationship Coach and American College of Sexologists International Certified Sex Educator plus was voted XBIZ 2021 Sexpert of the Year and Kinkly’s Sex Blogging Superhero of 2017. She’s been featured by outlets like Cosmo, Playboy, Buzzfeed, and CNN, plus is a contributing editor of XBIZ Premiere Magazine and a regular columnist for Sexual Health Magazine. Her first book, Customizable Kink: A Strategic Guide to Erotic Play will be released in 2022. In her sell-out sex and kink workshops, Sunny’s unique brand of “edutainment” seamlessly combines her humorous lecturing style, interactive exercises, and the latest sexuality research. Sunny’s passion is helping people become their authentic, sexual selves by learning to overcome shame and shed inhibitions. As a lifestyle BDSM enthusiast, her work focuses on demystifying non-normative sexual practices, amplifying erotic intelligence, and ending stigma.LINKS sunnymegatron.comtwitter.com/sunnymegatrontiktok.com/@sunnymegatroninstagram.com/sunnymegatronfacebook.com/sunnymegatronAmericansexpodcast.comopendeeplypodcast.compatreon.com/americansexpodcast Other links:Get your buzz on without getting floored with our favorite legal, organic smokable hemp by Dad Grass + 20% off your first order at dadgrass.com/shamelessWant 20% off the ultimate BYOB sexy kits? Go to likeakitten.com/shameless or enter code SHAMELESS at checkout Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESSSEX on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.comGet $5 off while mastering the art of pleasure at OMGyes.com/shamelessGet 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at purepleasureshop.comWant to try one of our favorite boutique wines? Get 10% off of 3 bottles or more with code SHAMELESSSEX10 or 15% off of 6 bottles or more with come SHAMELESSSEX15 at marginswine.com    

Why and when does passion go out the window in so many long-term relationships? What are some tips and tools for lovers/couples to revive it? We also answer a (graphic) sex question about what to do about upset stomach/bowels from "finishing inside" after anal sex. Want to skip to the interview? Fast forward to minute 16. About our guest: Naomi Slater is an experienced love & intimacy coach, host of the “Divine Couples” podcast, yoga teacher and bio-energy therapist. She is the creator of the online course “Awaken Your Desire” - helping women reclaim their wild and powerful divine feminine. Naomi’s passion is guiding women and couples to heal their relationships and reclaim their power, pleasure and passion. To learn more visit ​​divine-couples.com. To sign up for her free masterclass go to awakenyourdesire.comFollow her on Instagram at @divine.couplesOther links:Get 30% off any Satisfyer sex toy with code Shameless30 at satisfyer.comGet Feeld - our favorite dating app - FREE by clicking here or going to this link: feeld.co/shameless Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESSSEX on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.comGet $5 off while mastering the art of pleasure at OMGyes.com/shamelessGet 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at purepleasureshop.comWant to try one of our favorite boutique wines? Get 10% off of 3 bottles or more with code SHAMELESSSEX10 or 15% off of 6 bottles or more with come SHAMELESSSEX15 at marginswine.com    

How can partners get through conflict and come back to being in a loving, connected place? How can partners help each other with their triggers? And what if the triggered person triggers you? Relationship expert and author Jayson Gaddis answers all this and more. We also answer a sex question: What do I say when my partner asks me what I want but I have no idea, and how can I learn to orgasm through penetrative sex? Want to skip to the interview? Fast forward to minute 16 (but you may miss out on some juicy sex questions).Other links:Get turned on with 30 days free of super hot audio erotica at dipseastories.com/shamelessWant 20% off the ultimate BYOB sexy kits? Go to likeakitten.com/shameless or enter code SHAMELESS at checkout Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESSSEX on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.comGet $5 off while mastering the art of pleasure at OMGyes.com/shamelessGet 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at purepleasureshop.comWant to try one of our favorite boutique wines? Get 10% off of 3 bottles or more with code SHAMELESSSEX10 or 15% off of 6 bottles or more with come SHAMELESSSEX15 at marginswine.com