Shameless Sex

Hot power couple Ahmir and Basirah of Both Sides of the Bed podcast join us to talk all about how they discovered their sexually adventurous sides and how you can, too. We discuss everything from how to tap into your kinky side, what it means to be a dom or sub, non-monogamy, man squirt, and so much more!About our guests: Ahmir and Basirah are lovers, creatives, and all-around "Freaky" people who love just about everything having to do with sex, love, connection & kink.Ahmir is a sex enthusiast who loves to talk about his sexual experiences and passion for sex and has the desire to shift how people view sex, pleasure and relationships as a whole. Basirah is a Board Certified Sexologist and Relationship Coach with the desire to provide people with the tools and language needed to receive deep connection, strong intimacy and better sex.Their Podcast “Both Sides of the Bed” is all about getting both the masculine and feminine perspectives of all things sex, love and relationships and how to make them stronger. To learn more visit bothsidesofthebed.tvOther links:Get turned on with 30 days free of super hot audio erotica at dipseastories.com/shamelessGet 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESS on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.comGet 10% off while mastering the art of pleasure at  OMGyes.com/shamelessGet 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at purepleasureshop.com

Is a tight pussy a better pussy? How does tightness of the vaginal canal affect both health and pleasure? Are tight cocks a thing? How do tight cocks impact performance in the bedroom? Repeat guest Jenny Putt, PT, shares the ins and outs of pelvic floor health, as well as a number of life-altering tools to bring more pleasure into your life.About our guest: Jenny Putt is a pelvic floor physical therapist and sex educator among many other letters that go after her name. She believes talking about sex, poop, pee and genitals shouldn’t be deemed awkward or inappropriate and that the world would be a better place if people were more connected to their pelvic floor and had access to more pleasure. She specializes in the pelvic floor health of perinatal individuals with in-person and virtual services across the continuum of preconception through pregnancy, delivery and postpartum recovery. To learn more visit www.jennyputtpt.com or checkout her IG at @jennyputtptOther links:Listen to the Erotic Short Stories podcast hereStart meditating now with 40% off a Calm Premium subscription at www.calm.com/shamelessGet 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESS on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.comGet 10% off while mastering the art of pleasure at  OMGyes.com/shamelessGet 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at purepleasureshop.com

What does it mean to live a life led by desire? How does this enhance sex, relationships, and everyday life? What are some of the ways to start living a life led by and full of desire? The hosts of the Desire On Fire podcast share all this and more.About our guests: Aimee Batuski and Ellie Montgomerie are Pleasure and Intimacy Experts, committed to women living turned-on, connected and satisfying lives. They’ve worked side by side with some of the top Sexuality + Intimacy teachers in the world. These women are the millennial authorities in the global wide movement of the new feminine. Through their retreats, programs and international sisterhood community, they’ve taught thousands of women how to create wild, confident intimacy, hot sex and fulfilling relationships.http://www.desireonfire.comhttp://www.instagram.com/aimeebatuskihttps://www.instagram.com/desireonfire/Other links:Listen to one of our fav podcasts Sluts and Scholars here: slutsandscholars.comTry our favorite dating app Feeld for free + get a free month of their Majestic Membership here: feeld.co/shamelessGet turned on with 30 days free of super hot audio erotica at dipseastories.com/shamelessGet 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESS on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.comGet 10% off while mastering the art of pleasure at  OMGyes.com/shamelessGet 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at purepleasureshop.com

What are some of the reasons vulva owners experience pain during sex? What can people do at home to have less pain, as well as with a specialist utilizing the current medical technology? What are the best sex positions for someone experiencing pain? And how can couples get out of a rut or dry spell? Dr. Bahlani answers all this and more.About our guest: After completing her residency in OB/GYN at New York Presbyterian/Weill Cornell Medical Center, Dr. Sonia Bahlani pursued a fellowship in the urology department working with pioneers in pelvic pain. Training in both areas gives her a unique, comprehensive foundation and has allowed her to treat women with a variety of urologic and gynecologic pelvic pain syndromes. Through her training, Dr. Bahlani is able to take a holistic view of common women’s health issues. She takes a compassionate, patient-centric approach and listens to her patients to gain a deep understanding of their challenges. This allows her to develop a personalized, comprehensive treatment plan aimed at addressing the issue from all angles to improve their quality of life beyond what they thought possible.In her efforts to bring the topics of pelvic pain and women’s sexual health out from behind closed doors and find real, proven solutions for those in pain, Dr. Bahlani continues to be involved in research and has presented at numerous conferences, as well as being published in top national and international journals. She has been featured in Cosmopolitan, Romper, LifeHacker, and the Dr. Oz Show. She is author of the newly released book “ Dr. Sonia’s Guide to Navigating Pelvic Pain—Result Oriented Strategies for Better Quality of Life” now available where all books are sold. To learn more visit www.pelvicpaindoc.comOther links:Come to Shameless Sex Podcast's live "G-spots, P-spots and Backdoor-lovin'" class in Salt Lake City on Saturday, Feb 25th! Purchase tickets at Blue Boutique's Sugarhouse location: blueboutique.comOr join us for the event online by registering here: https://fb.me/e/4aTb53igOListen to the Sex Talk With My Mom podcast here: sextalkwithmymom.comStart meditating now with 40% off a Calm Premium subscription at CALM.COM/ShamelessGet 15% off your ultimate sexy holiday kit with code SHAMELESS at likeakitten.com/shamelessGet 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESS on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.comGet 10% off while mastering the art of pleasure at  OMGyes.com/shamelessGet 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at purepleasureshop.com

What does it mean to be a Daddy? How can someone embody or role-play their hot inner daddy energy? Does it always involve dominance? How does dirty talk come into the mix of daddy dynamics? What are some top tips for upping my dirty talk game? And what if I’m shy but want to be more sexually vocal and verbally express my sexual desires? "Daddy" Mischa shares all this and more.About our guest: Mischa Byruck (He/him) is a sexual integrity coach. He guides people to live their sex lives in line with their values. He is the founder of Evolve.Men, where he coaches, teaches and writes on gender and sexuality. He is an ICF-certified coach, with training in abuser counseling, facilitation, antiracism, trauma, gender, consent, men’s work, and sexuality. He teaches workshops on phone sex, dirty talk, daddy kink, and is the consent education partner for Bonobo Network, the Bay Area’s premiere sex-positive community organization. He’s also been an erotic model and appeared in amateur porn. Previously, he founded forLove, a virtual erotic events company, ran partnerships for DataKind and Code for America, worked in international development, and started a large-scale disaster relief organization. He holds a BA from Columbia and an MPA from NYU. Learn more about Mischa at Evolve.MenCheck out his upcoming course here: BeyondConsent.loveFind him on Instagram at @mByruckCome to Shameless Sex Podcast's live "G-spots, P-spots and Backdoor-lovin'" class in Salt Lake City on Saturday, Feb 25th! Purchase tickets at Blue Boutique's Sugarhouse location: blueboutique.comOr join us for the event online by registering here: https://fb.me/e/4aTb53igOOther links:Learn more about the American Sex podcast here: sunnymegatron.comGet 15% off your ultimate sexy holiday kit with code SHAMELESS at likeakitten.com/shamelessGet turned on with 30 days free of super hot audio erotica at dipseastories.com/shamelessGet 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESS on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.comGet 10% off while mastering the art of pleasure at  OMGyes.com/shamelessGet 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at purepleasureshop.com

What is long arousal and how does it differ from orgasm? Can everyone experience it? If so, how? What are arousal arcs? How can understanding and cultivating these practices lead to liberating, pleasure-filled erotic bliss? The legendary Pamela Madsen answers all this and so much more.About our guest: Pamela Madsen, a Somatic Wellness Coach with a Master's degree in Education, has coached hundreds of women and couples on their own personal journey back into their bodies. Pamela founded Back to the Body, Inc and The Back To The Body MethodTM, now in its twelfth year. A pioneer in fertility and sex advocacy, she also was the Founder and first Executive Director of The American Fertility Association. Pamela is a veteran speaker, educator, and has been a blogger for The Huffington Post, Psychology Today, and more. She is the author of Shameless: How I Ditched The Diet, Got Naked, Found True Pleasure and Still Got Home In Time To Cook Dinner (Rodale, January 2011). Pamela has appeared on Sex with Emily, Oprah, Cosmopolitan, Women’s Health, Buzzfeed, 60 Minutes, CNN, The New York Times, O Magazine, USA Today, and more. She is also the co-creator of Everybody Squirm, objects for sensory experiences.She is a fearless advocate for women’s health and integrated sexuality who leverages her raw honesty and well-informed wit to help strip the stigma from women’s wellness, female desire and pleasure, body image, and infertility. To learn more visit https://backtothebody.orgHer website, which includes a link to book a consultation -- https://backtothebody.org/Her quiz -- https://quiz.tryinteract.com/#/62d17e2bf1290b001863d3a3Her blog post about the study that features her work -- https://backtothebody.org/blog/womens-sexual-wellness-demands-researchOther links:Listen to the Good Moms, Bad Choices podcast at goodmomsbadchoices.comStart meditating now with 40% off a Calm Premium subscription at CALM.COM/ShamelessGet 15% off your ultimate sexy holiday kit with code SHAMELESS at likeakitten.com/shamelessGet 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESS on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.comGet 10% off while mastering the art of pleasure at  OMGyes.com/shamelessGet 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at purepleasureshop.com

This episode is a fun "Smash-Up" containing clips of six of Shameless Sex podcast's favorite episodes from 2022. We love all of our episodes and guests, and we could only choose a few, so here is a little sneak peak that is near and dear to our hearts (and genitals) :) #295 How to Talk Dirty - With Sexpert Lola Kat - Listen here or here #271 How to Have the Best Sex of Your Life! - With Layla Martin - Listen here or here #286 A Sex-Hacker's Guide to Anal Sex - With Kenneth Play - Listen here or here #267 Spank Me! Choke Me! (But Learn These Tools First!) - With Orpheus Black - Listen here or here #287 Flirting, Dating and Casual Sex - With Rachel Wright, LMFT - Listen here or here #293 Fetishes, Porn and Sex Toys - With Master Fetish Trainers Jet Setting Jasmine and King Noire - Listen here or here Other links:Listen to the Anthony Bourdain of sex podcast, the Private Parts Unknown podcast hereTry our favorite dating app Feeld for free + get a free month of their Majestic Membership here: feeld.co/shamelessGet 15% off your ultimate sexy holiday kit with code SHAMELESS at likeakitten.com/shamelessGet 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESS on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.comGet 10% off while mastering the art of pleasure at  OMGyes.com/shamelessGet 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at purepleasureshop.com

What makes a deeply connected relationship work? Can couple's continue to have the best sex of their lives in long term relationships, and if so, what are some of the tools or creating and maintaining a fulfilling sex life? How does commitment including marriage affect things? What are some of the ways people can grow and nourish partnerships whether or not they "put a ring on it"?About our guests: Jef combines transformational coaching with emotional mastery, psychological integration, shadow work, and energetic attunement. He is a meme lord and a master level practitioner and teacher of EFT (Emotional Freedom Technique) and incorporates shadow integration and cognitive science into the methodology that he now trains practitioners in. He guides people in a process of intentional patterns of thought that invite internal unification, profound personal empowerment, and deep energetic/emotional hygiene. His vision is one of collective healing, harmonization and integration that is self replicating, just like a meme.Check out Jef’s work at mosjef.co and peep his memes on Instagram @mos__jefFabienne is a Sex and Intimacy coach who specializes in helping penis-owners develop mastery over themselves through the window of their sexual energy, offering them the insight and perspective of a well-studied woman with a pussy.She helps people have better sex lives, helping them embody their sexual power with integrity through the use of ancient practices and therapeutic techniques based on modern day neuroscience. Her mission is to help people of all genders come into more understanding and respect of each other so that we can all evolve together while getting our needs met and having great sex. Find out more about Fabienne’s work at fabienneannick.com or on Instagram @fabienneannick, and for $300 off Fabienne and Jef's upcoming course use code SHAMELESS.Other links:Listen to the Double Teamed Podcast at doubleteamedpodcast.comMake eating healthy, delicious meals easy with 60% off plus free shipping at greenchef.comStart meditating now with 40% off a Calm Premium subscription at CALM.COM/ShamelessGet 15% off your ultimate sexy holiday kit with code SHAMELESS at likeakitten.com/shamelessGet 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESS on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.comGet 10% off while mastering the art of pleasure at  OMGyes.com/shamelessGet 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at purepleasureshop.com

How does pressure show up in relationships, and why does it hinder pleasure, connection and arousal? How does pressure operate differently in new encounters vs long term relationships? What are some helpful tips to start turning the pressure valve down - both within the self and when engaging in intimacy with others? Repeat guest Dr. Aly answers all this and more.About our guest: Dr. Alison Ash, aka Dr. Aly, is a trauma-informed intimacy coach and educator, Stanford University Lecturer, author, and founder of TurnON.love. As a sociologist with a PhD from Stanford, she has a comprehensive understanding of the complex societal challenges that often lead to unsatisfying and disempowering sexual experiences. Dr. Aly is champion for others overcoming shame and deepening pleasure and helps her clients experience pleasurable sexual interactions and nourishing romantic relationships. She designs workshops, courses, and retreats and offers individuals and couples coaching to give others the tools to discover their desires and confidently pursue them. Dr. Aly invites you to TurnON pleasure, intimacy and love at www.TurnON.love/intimacyClick here to sign up for Dr. Aly's upcoming Sexual and Emotional Intimacy MastercourseFollow us on Tik Tok @shamelesssexpodcast! We just lost out own account and now have a new one. Follow us for entertaining and informative clips from episodes such as this one.Listen to the Holly Randall Unfiltered podcast hereLearn more about our awesome Pleasure Podcast Network hereOther links:Get 15% off your ultimate sexy holiday kit with code SHAMELESS at likeakitten.com/shamelessGet turned on with 30 days free of super hot audio erotica at dipseastories.com/shamelessGet 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESS on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.comGet 10% off while mastering the art of pleasure at  OMGyes.com/shamelessGet 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at purepleasureshop.com

How can I have amazing orgasmic anal sex? How does surrender and awareness come into the mix? How can I enhance my orgasmic potential as a receiver, and how can I up my anal sex game as a giver? Repeat guests Alicia and Erwan Davon share all this and so much more.About our guests: Erwan and Alicia Davon have become the go- to experts for those seeking a higher level of relationship support. Erwan is the founder, senior teacher and president of San Francisco based The Davon Method. Together with Alicia, who has a Masters in Psychology and training as a therapist, they specialize in supporting singles in getting into passionate and successful relationships, and helping couples take their relationships to new heights of romance and intimacy.Based in the SF Bay Area, Erwan and Alicia provide a high end boutique service that gives their clients an effective way to enhance their relationships. They offer all of their coaching and classes online and support students all over the world. To work with the Davon's text 415 308 9580 or click this linkTo learn more about their work visit davonmethod.comFollow their socials on IG & TikTok handle @davonmethodSign up for their upcoming Valentine's Pleasure Course for singles & couples here. Get $100 off with coupon code CODE100Follow us on Tik Tok @shamelesssexpodcast for entertaining and informative clips from episodes such as this one.Check out the MultiAmory podcast hereOther links:To learn more about microdosing THC go to Microdose.com and use code Shameless to get free shipping & 30% off your first orderGet 15% off your ultimate sexy holiday kit with code SHAMELESS at likeakitten.com/shamelessGet 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESS on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.comGet 10% off while mastering the art of pleasure at  OMGyes.com/shamelessGet 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at purepleasureshop.com