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In this enlightening discussion, I sat down with Melo Calarco, a seasoned mindfulness coach and author renowned for his work on overcoming burnout and achieving balance. In this episode, we explore the multifaceted nature of burnout, delving into Melo's personal journey of cycling 30,000 kilometres around the world and how this challenging experience shaped his understanding of resilience and self-belief. Alongside his exploration of the critical role mindfulness and gratitude play in combating burnout, this conversation offers invaluable insights into identifying the signs of stress and how to shift your mindset towards a healthier, more balanced lifestyle. What You'll Learn: Understanding Burnout: Melo provides a comprehensive explanation of burnout, beyond the work environment, emphasising that it's largely about chronic stress. Key Signs and Symptoms: Early indicators of burnout such as physical tension, emotional withdrawal, and behavioural changes. The Role of Mindfulness: How integrating mindfulness into daily practice can serve as a powerful tool to manage stress and enhance mental clarity. Stress Responses: The distinction between challenge and threat perceptions of stress and their impact on motivation and behaviour. Practical Mindfulness Techniques: Simple yet effective strategies for implementing mindfulness and meditation into a busy schedule. Gratitude and Positivity: Exploring how gratitude can rewire the brain for positivity, counteracting stress and promoting better mental health. Key Takeaways: Burnout extends beyond the workplace; it is the result of chronic, unmanaged stress which can accumulate from various life sources. Self-awareness is crucial in identifying stress signs early. Listening to your body's cues and recognising emotional shifts can prevent deeper burnout. Mindfulness and meditation are not just practices for moments of stillness. They can be woven into daily routines to enhance focus and reduce anxiety. Adopting a challenge-oriented mindset, supported by self-belief and past experiences, provides a protective buffer against burnout. Simple practices like daily gratitude can have profound impacts on mental health, promoting a positive outlook and resilience. Resources: Melo Calarco’s Website: Visit melocalarco.com for free sample chapters of his book and additional mindfulness resources. Books: "Beating Burnout, Finding Balance" by Melo Calarco. Mindfulness Apps: Explore guided meditations through apps like Insight Timer. Website and free sample chapter: Melo Calarco LinkedIn: Melo Calarco Support and Share: If you found this conversation insightful, please subscribe, rate, and leave a review on your favourite podcast platform. Your support helps us reach a broader audience and share these valuable discussions. Share this episode with anyone who might be grappling with stress or seeking more balance in life—your recommendation might be the nudge they need towards a healthier mental state. 01:00 Inspiration for World Travel 02:58 Challenges and Lessons from the Journey 06:36 Understanding Burnout 08:15 Writing the Book on Burnout 15:36 Signs and Symptoms of Burnout 20:51 Stress Responses and Coping Mechanisms 29:16 Balancing Stress and Recovery 31:08 Understanding Relaxation vs. Recovery 32:50 The Importance of Mindfulness 34:31 Formal and Informal Mindfulness Practices 36:16 Mindfulness in Daily Activities 40:35 The Science Behind Mindfulness 51:30 The Role of Gratitude in Combating Burnout 59:17 Practical Tips for Avoiding Burnout    See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

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In this first episode of the Mojo Monday series, Carly explores why mental fitness is a more empowering, actionable way to approach personal wellbeing. This series will cover the pillars of mental fitness, providing tools and strategies you can implement into your life to move up the mental fitness continuum. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Today I chat with Amy Jacobson, an expert on emotional intelligence and author of two insightful books. We delve into the depths of understanding emotional intelligence and its important impact on both personal and professional landscapes. Amy shares her practical framework, insights from her latest book, and explores the pivotal role emotional intelligence plays in shaping our lives. What You'll Learn: Own It, Face It, Feel It, Ask It, Drive It: Amy outlines her five-step framework for mastering emotional intelligence, guiding us through the process of self-awareness and empathy to achieving effective communication and action.  Personal Impact: Understand how emotional intelligence affects personal relationships and learn how improving these skills can lead to more meaningful and harmonious interactions with loved ones.  Professional Dynamics: Discover the influence of emotional intelligence within the workplace, both among colleagues and in leadership roles, and how it can enhance workplace culture and performance. Overcoming Challenges: Amy provides strategies for navigating difficult conversations and interpersonal conflicts, emphasising the importance of empathy and understanding in resolving issues. Decoding Emotional Triggers: Gain insight into how childhood experiences and neural pathways affect emotional responses and learn methods to manage and adjust these responses effectively. Key Takeaways: Emotional Intelligence is a Skill: It can be developed and honed over time with practice and awareness. Understand Your Emotions: Acknowledge and process emotions rather than suppress them to avoid building stress and tension. Empathy is Key: Truly understanding and feeling the perspectives of others is fundamental in enhancing emotional intelligence. Communication is Critical: Effective communication requires understanding that it's about delivering a message that resonates with the listener, not just expressing your own thoughts. Take Action: Explore Amy Jacobson's books for more comprehensive insights: Emotional Intelligence: A Simple and Actionable Guide to Increasing Performance, Engagement, and Ownership The Emotional Intelligence Advantage: Mastering Change and Difficult Conversations To learn more about Amy Jacobson, her insights, and how to engage her for speaking engagements, visit her website: Amy Jacobson. Support and Share: If you're ready to embark on a journey towards enhancing your emotional intelligence, take the steps today to "Own it, Face it, Feel it, Ask it, and Drive it." This framework is not just a guide but a pathway to personal and professional excellence.   01:25 The Journey of Writing and Emotional Intelligence 05:06 Defining Emotional Intelligence 06:29 Emotional Intelligence and Neurodiversity 10:59 Impact of Emotional Intelligence in Personal Life 17:42 Emotional Intelligence in the Workplace 21:18 Framework for Building Emotional Intelligence 24:34 Embracing Reality and Control 25:15 Facing Emotions Head-On 27:49 Empathy and Understanding Others 32:16 Effective Communication Strategies 37:04 Implementing Emotional Intelligence 38:32 Navigating Difficult Conversations      See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

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In this insightful conversation, I sit down with Captain George Dom, a retired U.S. Navy officer, to explore the essence of high trust leadership and its pivotal role in building high-performance teams. Captain Dom shares his extensive experience from his distinguished military career, including leading the renowned Blue Angels and teaching at Top Gun. Together, they delve into the principles of trust and how these can be effectively applied both in the military and corporate environments. What You'll Learn: The Foundation of Trust in Leadership: Captain Dom offers a compelling look into his philosophy of trust, outlining five levels of trust that are vital for leadership and team cohesion. He emphasises the need for leaders to earn unconditional trust through consistent behaviour and openness. The Power of Effective Communication: Discover how clear, concise, and consistent communication helps in building and maintaining trust within teams. Dom and I highlight the importance of mutual understanding, where leaders must ensure they are understood and also convey that they understand their team members. The Importance of Debriefing: Paul Taylor and Captain Dom discuss the sacred practice of debriefing in aviation and how this routine ensures continuous improvement. This practice, they argue, is crucial not just for safety in aviation but for success in any high-stakes environment. Transitioning from Military to Civilian Life: Learn about the challenges and opportunities involved in transitioning from a structured military environment to the civilian world, and how the principles of trust and leadership remain relevant across these domains. Building High-Performance Teams: Through examples from his military career, Captain Dom illustrates how trust is not just a nice-to-have but a strategic imperative for any high-performing team. Whether flying jets or managing corporate teams, the principles remain the same. Key Takeaways: Trust is Earned: It's a continuous commitment and starts with leaders demonstrating integrity and reliability. Character and Commitment: These are at the core of trust. Leaders must show they are committed to their teams, especially when challenges arise. Communication is Key: Effective leaders ensure that they communicate clearly with their teams, and also actively seek feedback and understanding. Shared Sacrifice Bonds Teams: Experiencing challenges together can strengthen team bonds and trust. High Trust Leads to High Performance: Trust allows teams to operate more efficiently and effectively, leading to better outcomes. Resources: For those looking to delve deeper into the concept of high trust leadership or to apply these strategies in their own teams, consider exploring Captain George Dom’s book "High Trust Leadership: Building High-Performance Teams."   Support and Share: Connect with George Dom: Website: georgedom.com Book: High Trust Leadership - Building High-Performance Teams - Whether you're a current leader, an aspiring one, or simply interested in enhancing your team dynamics, this discussion offers invaluable insights into fostering trust and achieving high-performance in any field.   01:00 Early Inspirations and Naval ROTC 02:54 Naval Aviation Career Highlights 05:50 Top Gun Experience and Training 13:44 The Importance of Debriefing 24:39 Transition to Civilian Life 27:42 High Trust Leadership 35:45 The Gift of Trust 36:04 Five Key Elements of Trust 37:04 Character: Walking the Talk 37:45 Commitment: Showing Up in Storms 38:59 Competence: Being Good at What You Do 40:54 Connection: Understanding Your Team 42:46 Communication: Clarity and Consistency 50:54 Rebuilding Trust in Leadership 56:47 High Trust Leadership and Personal Relationships 58:18 Respect for Military Personnel    See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

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This was a fascinating, wide-ranging, amusing and highly useful conversation if you're a human being! Dr Sophie Mort, known as Dr Soph is a UK Sunday Times best selling author of the book "A Manual For Being Human'  and in today's podcast we discuss the topic of her new book 'Unstuck', which is just brilliant. It's a wide-ranging conversation about habit formation, automations in our life, cognitive biases, drama triangles and much more. I guarantee there's be an enjoyable mix of nods of acknowledgement, laughter and aha moments as you listen to it.  Dr Soph is a clinical psychologist with a Degree in Psychology, Masters Degree in Neuroscience and PhD in Psychology. She's also witty, engaging, insightful and a great communicator. What You'll Learn: The Art of Habit Formation: Dive into why over 40% of our daily behaviours are habits, running on autopilot without our conscious decision-making. Cue-Craving-Reward: Explore the science behind habits, including the crucial role cues play in triggering automatic behaviours. Willpower & Habit Change: Discover why willpower alone isn't enough and learn to leverage the power of time-of-day biology to change habits effectively. Understanding Heuristics: Get to know about mental shortcuts that heavily influence our decision-making processes. Combatting Hyperbolic Discounting: Learn why we often choose immediate rewards over future benefits and how it impacts our decision-making. Overcoming Self-Sabotage: Delve into the reasons behind self-sabotage and how we can overcome the hurdles that keep us from reaching our full potential. The Drama Triangle: Understand repeated roles we play in conflict situations and how to break free from them. Key Takeaways: Autopilot Awareness: Recognising that a significant portion of our day is driven by habit is the first step to change. Biology’s Role: Understanding the importance of timing and how our neurochemistry can be leveraged is crucial for effective habit change. Heuristics and Decision Making: These mental shortcuts explain many of our choices and behaviours, helping us understand and improve them. Be Your Own Motivation: Creating instigation habits and setting realistic goals can boost motivation and habit formation. Overcoming Cognitive Traps: Recognising and acknowledging mental traps like confirmation bias helps in making better decisions. Self-Worth and Community: Self-esteem is deeply tied to belonging and confidence – building these can improve overall well-being. Resources: Read "Unstuck": Dive into Dr. Moore's comprehensive guide on breaking free from habits. A Manual for Being Human: Explore more insights from Dr. Moore in her first acclaimed book. Connect with Dr. Sophie: Website: drsoph.com Instagram: @drsoph Support and Share: If you found value in this episode, please consider subscribing, rating, and leaving a review on your preferred podcast platform. Your support helps us reach more people with important insights like these. Share this episode with someone who might be battling with personal habits or looking to improve their mental well-being – this conversation could be the breakthrough they need. Thank you for exploring the paths to becoming unstuck and reshaping your habits with us!See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.