Ever wondered what it's like to navigate the glittering yet turbulent waters of celebrity and reality TV while striving to stay true to your own story? How does one maintain authenticity when every move is magnified, every choice scrutinized, in the high-stakes world of public life? It's a journey that demands a delicate balance between personal truth and public persona.In this episode, Dr. Scott dives into these questions with Rachel Lindsay – an author, attorney, and a trailblazer in the realm of media. Known for breaking new ground as the first Black lead on 'The Bachelorette,' Rachel's journey extends far beyond the television screen. Her story is one of navigating fame, forging a path of self-discovery, and using her platform to inspire and lead with purpose.Together, they’ll explore the challenges of living life in the public eye, the pressures and joys of being a role model, and Rachel’s evolution from reality TV star to a powerful voice in literature and advocacy. Prepare for a heartfelt and revealing discussion, as we celebrate the strength it takes to be a 'gently used human' in a world captivated by celebrity.Topics We Break Down:Keeping up with the pressure of fameThe power of purposefulness.Letting go of caution. Reality TV and the psychological impact of living a performative life. How being on a public platform impacts mental and emotional health. 

Have you ever felt a gut instinct guiding you, an inner whisper about the future, or a tingling alert to danger? Or noticed a string of coincidences that felt almost mystically aligned? Where do these signals come from, and what do they really mean?In this episode, Dr. Scott welcomes Vincent Genna, a celebrated Psychic Therapist and Spiritual Teacher, renowned for his unique approach in connecting the spiritual with the everyday. Author of "The Secret That’s Holding You Back," Vincent doesn't just use his psychic gifts to explore the unseen; he also addresses the real-life obstacles that keep us trapped in unfulfilling patterns.Join us as we navigate the fascinating realms of intuition, examining the interplay of vibrations and the balance between earthly desires and spiritual insights. We'll delve into the art of deep listening and learn to honor our inner voice amid the hustle and bustle of our daily lives.Are you ready to embark on this journey of discovery and enlightenment? Tune in, as we uncover the mysteries of intuition and its powerful role in our lives.Topics We Break Down:The science of intuition The brain vs the mind and why we need bothMoving beyond self-protection mechanismsTrusting ourselvesDiscerning the difference between human ambition and intuitive response.

Falling in love, breaking up, the thrilling but often tricky dance of attraction – it's all part of relationships. But what happens when the intense chemistry leads us astray, into repeated pain and harmful patterns, ending in a tough breakup full of heartache? And once we're there, how do we pick ourselves up, heal, and face the challenging world of dating again?Today on the podcast, Dr. Scott sits down with Amy Chan, an expert in healing from heartbreak and a leader in combining scientific and spiritual approaches for healthy dating. Amy, the founder of Renew Breakup Bootcamp and author of "Breakup Bootcamp - The Science of Rewiring Your Heart," dives into the messy yet enlightening world of relationships and breakups.Together, Dr. Scott and Amy unpack the complexities of romantic connections, discussing why we're drawn to certain people, the realness of vulnerability, and how to turn the end of a relationship into a new beginning. They explore how early life patterns affect our love lives and share tips for bouncing back stronger after a breakup.Tune in for an engaging talk with Amy Chan, where you'll find insights on navigating through heartbreak, embracing the dating scene again, and rewiring your heart for healthier, more fulfilling relationships.Topics We Break Down:The value of a kind breakup.Key tenants of good communication.The complexity of chemistry and attraction.Attachment theory and repatterning your attachment stance.How we heal within relationships.The dangers of putting people on a pedestal.Strategies for better dating.The power of authentic vulnerability.

Have you ever caught yourself in a moment of sheer joy and thought: why can't life always feel like this? Today's guest believes that effortless ease and play is the key to unlocking our inner guide and focusing on what truly matters to us. On the podcast today, Dr. Scott welcomes Grace Harry (The Joy Strategist) for a fascinating conversation about rediscovering and fostering joy in our lives. Beyond simply enjoying happiness when it arrives, Grace advocates for infusing joy into the very essence of our daily lives, recognizing its potential to drive profound, systemic change.In their conversation, Dr. Scott and Grace delve into the art of self-kindness, often reserved for others and the significance of being the architects of our own joy. They explore the deep impact of staying present in our happiness quest and offer insights into shifting from being 'triggered' to living in a state of contentment. This uplifting episode promises to guide listeners through the nuances of maintaining joyfulness, staying present, and fostering authentic connections in life. Topics We Break Down:Your heart’s job as the joy strategist of your own life.How we can take the development of personal joy into creating change in our world. What it truly means to be “triggered” and where the responsibility lies.Dangers of losing yourself in order to make others happy instead of prioritizing personal joy. Creating containers of intimacy to facilitate joy. Recognizing over-performance in our own lives. 

Have you ever witnessed the transformative power of a single swipe of bold lipstick or found yourself wondering how TikTok turned the sunburn into the latest beauty trend? Have you ever debated whether makeup is a repressive and exploitative device or a transformative power of self-expression? Is it hurting our mental health or unlocking our creativity? Today, Dr. Scott welcomes Carrie Barber, a visionary in the beauty world who has reshaped beauty standards with her transformative approach. From art director for leading brands to trailblazer with MAKE Beauty, her career is a mosaic of innovation and a conscious beauty ethos. This chat delves into planet-friendly beauty, the evolving landscape of clean cosmetics, and the innovative integration of lab-engineered natural ingredients.Together, they’ll explore the dynamic world of digital-age trends and the deep connections between beauty, mental health, and self-acceptance. Brace yourself for an enlightening exploration into beauty's powerful potential, uncovering how it can be a catalyst for positive change, enriching not only our personal lives but also making a broader impact on the world.Topics We Break Down: How biotechnology is changing the beauty industryQualities of a successful entrepreneurThe intersection between mental health and beautyHow growth mindset helps with business (and life) challengesWhy trust and sustainability are essential for cosmetics brands

What if you were to play a game of hide-and-seek with yourself or pin the tail on the authentic you? What if, in the adventure of discovering who you are, you must get completely lost in the process? All the while dancing with the inevitable existential truths of death, isolation, and meaninglessness- while just trying to get to work on time!Today's guest is Dr. Sara Kuburic, also known as The Millennial Therapist, an existential psychotherapist whose life narrative is as compelling and intricate as the topics she explores. Dr. Sara brings to the table not just her extensive professional expertise, including her new book, "It's on Me: Accept Hard Truths, Discover Your Self, and Change Your Life," but also a rich tapestry of personal experiences. Having lived through wars and navigated complex relationships, she offers a unique perspective on the existential threads that weave through our lives.In this thought-provoking conversation, Dr. Scott and Dr. Sara delve into the tension between living life authentically and merely performing it. They discuss the balancing act of taking responsibility while finding freedom and examine the interplay of truth, resistance, and the enigma of self-discovery. This episode invites listeners to reflect on authenticity: What does it truly mean? Whose authenticity are we considering? Is it a process of peeling back layers of self-preservation, or is it an unrestrained, bold revelation through the streets of existence?If you've ever pondered the nature of authenticity and how to embrace it, this episode promises to offer insightful perspectives and guide you on your path to self-understanding.Topics We Break Down:The cost of working against yourself. What authenticity is not. Grasping the suffering that accompanies being human.People’s difficult relationship with the truth. Why safety is required for truth and turning inward.

Ever stared down the barrel of a kale smoothie straw and thought, "Is this it – the elixir of life?" Or swallowed up the latest superfood while wondering if the real fountain of youth was something more... substantial? In today's enlightening episode, Dr. Scott delves into these questions with Dan Buettner, the National Geographic Fellow and New York Times bestselling author who uncovered the world's Blue Zones—regions where people live extraordinarily long and healthful lives. With the zest of an explorer and the insight of a researcher, Dan pulls back the curtain on how environment, lifestyle, and community weave together to create the widespread vitality found in these remarkable areas.Together, they'll decode the lifestyle of super-agers and share the surprising ingredients for longevity that exist, not in some magic supplement, but in the collective recipes of purpose, faith, and connectivity. Dan will share his experiences and learnings from the Blue Zones and illuminate how we can cultivate these principles within our own neighborhoods, transforming them into our very own hubs of health and happiness. Whether you're seeking to add more candles to your birthday cake or simply aiming to enhance the quality of your days, this episode is an essential listen.Topics We Break Down:The role of the environment in willpower.How happiness affects longevity. The power of an intentional social circle. Simple changes that make a huge difference in wellbeing. Why purpose matters.

Have you ever felt lost in the vast wilderness of relationships, chasing a trail of breadcrumbs, hoping they might show you the way? Have you ever wondered if there’s a reliable map, maybe a magical compass, to navigate through the complex dance of partnership without sacrificing a piece of yourself in the process? Or just asked yourself… “What is a healthy relationship, and how do I maintain it?”In today’s episode, Dr. Scott sits down with therapist, facilitator, and coach, Dené Logan as they explore the rich terrain of relationships. With her nuanced approach blending depth psychology and a profound understanding of human connection, Dené illuminates the journey of self-nurturing and building genuine bonds. As we embark on the quest of understanding the three pillars of peak connection, she shares her insights on the true essence of couples therapy, the keystones of a flourishing relationship, and the difficult but rewarding work of reparenting ourselves.From the power of embracing your true self and spotting your tribe to the art of balancing in relationships, join us as we journey deep into the relational landscape. Topics We Break Down:Nurturing through strength-based approaches.Constructing thriving relationships.Graceful relational transitions.Avoiding romantic reparenting.Navigating breadcrumbing in dating.Unpacking harmful pedestal placement.Exploring evolving definitions of love.

Have you ever found yourself lost in the enchanting world of a fairy-tale romance, losing sight of your own identity? Have you ever brushed off a heartfelt compliment, doubting its authenticity, or deflected it as a means to avoid accepting it? In this episode, Dr. Scott Lyons sits down with Vanessa Bennett, a licensed holistic psychotherapist, facilitator, codependency expert, podcaster, and Mama to help uncover how our past shapes the way we see and experience the world. Vanessa is the author of the best-selling relationship book It's Not Me, It's You, which offers readers profound insights into the essential elements of enduring and healthy relationships. Vanessa is renowned for her holistic approach which incorporates her years of experience and a deep understanding of Buddhist and psychological principles. She is also the co-host of the Cheaper Than Therapy Podcast, which explores the depths of human experience, combining psychology of the soul, yogic psychology, and mindfulness to help others live authentically and connect with their inner selves. Throughout their conversation, Vanessa skillfully peels back the narratives we write to protect ourselves, revealing those glistening “golden shadows” - the strengths and virtues we often overlook. Together, they navigate the intricate landscape of codependency, those delicate relationship dynamics that can leave us feeling adrift. They unearth the reasons behind our relentless quest for acceptance in others, the ebb, and flow of relationships, the hurdles that often obstruct genuine opportunities for validation, and much more. If you are seeking embodiment and the path to self-acceptance, then this episode is for you.Topics We Break Down:Societal values and how they influence self-acceptance.Weaponizing positive attributes.Consequences of seeking outside validation.Codependence and interdependence in relationships.Friction as a path to well-being and self-acceptance.Therapeutic role-playing techniques.

Ever glanced at the food pyramid and thought, 'How am I supposed to climb that?' Everywhere you turn on social media, another food guru is dishing out bold, sometimes confusing advice about what we should and shouldn't eat. You might've wondered: whose food rules am I supposed to follow? And those oh so tempting carbs — are they our culinary friends or foes?In this delicious episode, Dr. Scott Lyons chats with Jenna Werner — a registered dietitian, nutritionist, and owner Happy, Strong, Healthy. Explore the age-old love affair with the perfect body, how it's changed over time, and its influence on our meal choices. From the pull of trending diets to the empowering message of anti-diet culture, from the secrets of the "blue zones" where folks live the longest to the exciting world of intuitive eating — this episode promises a tasty journey for both your mind and soul.Together, they tap into the whispers of our digital age — the double-edged sword of social media, where hyper-connectivity often masks isolation and where extremes scream loudest in the echo chambers. Unearth the magic (and mystery) buried in nutrition; you’ll find your own delectable 'foodgasm.' Whether you're seeking a sprinkle of wisdom, a dash of laughter, or a full course of introspection, this episode is a feast not to be missed.Topics We Break DownWeight stigma, skinny privilege, and the nuances of external validation.The indispensable role of community in a holistic healthy lifestyle.Empowering personal expertise in understanding our own bodies.The fluctuating landscape of nutrition: from diet fads to food pyramids.Balancing physical health with mental well-being.