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How do you respond to someone else's story with curiosity and compassion? In part 4 of this 4 part series, Marcus Spaur shares his story: "If I Only Could Have Been..."If you love story work, you'd love Husband Material Groups.Apply to join a group at husbandmaterial.com/groupDrew Boa (MA, PSAP) is a Certified Unwanted Guide and Inner Child Recovery Specialist. Drew is the founder of Husband Material, where he helps men outgrow porn. Learn more at husbandmaterial.comWendell Moss (MA, LMHC) is a therapist, lead instructor, and facilitator at The Allender Center. Wendell serves as adjunct faculty at The Seattle School Of Theology & Psychology. Email Wendell at bishopmoss@gmail.comMarcus Spaur is a Certified Husband Material Coach, Inner Child Recovery Specialist, and CCAR Coach. Marcus is the founder of Between The Covers Coaching. Learn more at betweenthecoverscoaching.comChris Inman (M.Div, PSAP) is a Certified Unwanted Guide and Certified Professional Recovery Coach. Chris is the founder of Porn-Free Masculinity. Email Chris at chris@np-recovery.comResources for responding to someone else's story:Attunement: The Key To ConnectionHow To Create Connection In Any ConversationSupport the showTake the Husband Material Journey... Step 1: Listen to this podcast or watch on YouTube Step 2: Join the private Husband Material Community Step 3: Take the free mini-course: How To Outgrow Porn Step 4: Try the all-in-one program: Husband Material Academy Thanks for listening!

Therapist Wendell Moss discusses writing a story about trauma and sexual experiences in part 3 of the series. Topics include impactful storytelling, engaging the senses, memory imperfections, navigating complex emotions, and using story work for healing and connection.

In this podcast, Chris Inman shares 'The Lonely Walk,' highlighting the importance of story work for men outgrowing porn. They delve into childhood wounds, reflections on past experiences, and the impact of childhood absences on adult relationships. The discussion underlines the significance of personal stories for healing and growth.

Drew Boa, a Certified Unwanted Guide and Inner Child Recovery Specialist, discusses story work and its role in overcoming porn addiction. The podcast explores the power of storytelling, expressive writing for healing, and personal growth. It delves into vulnerability, seeking connection, and navigating adolescent struggles. The importance of story work for personal healing and growth is emphasized throughout.

Discover how inner healing prayer can help men overcome porn addiction and trauma. Explore the relational aspect of healing prayer, the role of psychodrama in intimacy recovery, and the importance of surrendering to Jesus for emotional and spiritual healing. Dive into the impact of distorted beliefs on one's perception of God's love and the journey of relearning our identity through inner healing prayer.

John Kilmer discusses how Polyvagal Theory can help men overcome porn addiction by reshaping the autonomic nervous system. He explores the different zones of emotional states, the impact of trauma on connection, and finding safety in the ventral vagal state. Polyvagal Theory offers a perspective for healing and connecting with others to address wounds.

We need a theology of trauma. In this episode, Matt Wenger powerfully invites us to view our trauma through the lens of Jesus's life, death, and resurrection. This episode is a preview of our new online course at healyourtrauma.comMatt Wenger is the clinical director of Boulder Recovery, a 14-day intensive for Christian men struggling with sex, porn, and relationship issues. Boulder Recovery uses the TINSA treatment model (Trauma-Induced Sexual Addiction) to heal the traumatic experiences and attachment wounds driving addictive behaviors and problematic thinking around sex and intimacy.EXCITING ANNOUNCEMENT: Today, Matt Wenger and Drew Boa are releasing a new free online course called "10 Ways To Heal Your Trauma: Resolving The Roots Of Porn And Sex Addiction." Get free access at healyourtrauma.comSupport the showTake the Husband Material Journey... Step 1: Listen to this podcast or watch on YouTube Step 2: Join the private Husband Material Community Step 3: Take the free mini-course: How To Outgrow Porn Step 4: Try the all-in-one program: Husband Material Academy Thanks for listening!

Learn how to create connection in any conversation by using your eyes, face, voice, and words. Practical tips on enhancing nonverbal cues, helpful phrases to deepen emotional bonding, and strategies for fostering relationships. Explore tools like 'Husband Material man cards' and 'Dear Young Married Couple Card Decks' for building deeper connections.

Male survivors of sexual abuse share their stories of harm and healing, exploring reasons for silence and the impact of shame. Topics include challenges in disclosure, manipulative nature of abuse, fear of sharing, and overcoming trauma. The podcast delves into the impact on sexual orientation, building genuine connections, and healing through creative expression.

What is full disclosure? When, why, and how should I reveal sexual secrets to my wife? In this episode, disclosure experts Dan Drake and Janice Caudill walk us through the process of full therapeutic disclosure from beginning to end. You'll learn how to restore truth in your relationship in a way that is healing rather than harmful.Dan Drake and Dr. Janice Caudill co-founded Kintsugi Recovery Partners and co-authored 5 books in the Full Disclosure Series. They developed the first full disclosure training and certification course, and they provide the highest level of support for professionals using their Restoring Truth Model. Learn more at kintsugirecoverypartners.comDan Drake is the Founder and Clinical Director of Banyan Therapy Group in Los Angeles, California. He is a Certified Clinical Partner Specialist Supervisor and a Certified Sex Addiction Therapist Supervisor. Dan is a Christian, a husband, and a father.Dr. Janice Caudill is an APSATS supervisor, CSAT supervisor, Certified Partner Trauma Therapist supervisor, Certified Partner Betrayal Trauma Therapist, Certified Intimacy Anorexia Therapist, and Somatic Experiencing Practitioner. She is the Founder of Intensive Recovery Healing and Intensive Recovery Coaching. Learn more at intensivehope.comBuy Dan and Janice's books! (these are paid links)For you (the blue books):Full Disclosure: How To Share The Truth After Sexual BetrayalYour Disclosure Document: A 10-Step GuideFor your partner (the green books):Full Disclosure: How Disclosure Can Help You Heal (part 1)Full Disclosure: Preparing For Disclosure On Your Terms (part 2)Full Disclosure: Post Disclosure Healing (part 3)Support the showTake the Husband Material Journey... Step 1: Listen to this podcast or watch on YouTube Step 2: Join the private Husband Material Community Step 3: Take the free mini-course: How To Outgrow Porn Step 4: Try the all-in-one program: Husband Material Academy Thanks for listening!