

The Human Side of Money
Brendan Frazier
Are you ready to delve into the emotional side of money, enhance your practice, and forge deeper connections with your clients? The Human Side of Money Podcast offers actionable ideas and strategies to empower financial advisors with the skills needed to excel in understanding the behavioral aspects of finance. Join Chief Behavioral Officer Brendan Frazier as he shares invaluable insights, tips and strategies. Subscribe now to elevate your practice and client interactions!
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Nov 9, 2023 • 1h 4min
100: A Collection of Advisor Stories Telling The Power of The Human Side
Mastering the human side of advice will:
Enrich your clients’ lives
Enhance your relationships with clients
Forever change the trajectory of your business/career
Think it sounds too good to be true?
Listen to these 7 stories from advisors around the world sharing how the human side has made their clients and their practice infinitely better off.
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Resources:
The featured partner for this episode is Knudge, an automated system to help clients actually follow through on their tasks and reach their financial goals
Connect with Brendan Frazier:
RFG Advisory
LinkedIn: Brendan Frazier
X:@jbrendanfrazier

Nov 2, 2023 • 39min
99: Understanding How Your Client’s Past And Future Impacts Financial Decisions Today
Your client isn’t just the person sitting in front of you today.
It’s who they’ll become 30 years from now. And, it’s who they were 30 years ago.
They might be making a decision in the present. But, their decisions in the present are shaped by the experiences of their past and influenced by their vision of the future.
When you work with human beings and money, it’s crucial that you fully understand the powerful forces that the past and future play on your client in the present.
We discuss:
How our past experiences with money carry forward into the present
The two ways in which our current self makes decisions to the detriment of our future self
Two client stories on the power of the past and the future
How to help clients understand their past to drive better outcomes
Two ways to improve the client’s connection to their future self
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Resources:
The featured partner for this episode is Knudge, an automated system to help clients actually follow through on their tasks and reach their financial goals
Connect with Brendan Frazier:
RFG Advisory
LinkedIn: Brendan Frazier
X:@jbrendanfrazier

Oct 25, 2023 • 1h 55min
98: Creating A Unique Money Vision To Build A Client’s Ideal Life with Jake Northrup
It’s one thing for advisors to say they want to get better at the human side.
It’s another thing to actually start making changes to your processes and conversations. And, it’s another thing entirely to have your entire meeting process and deliverables focused on the human side.
Yet, that’s exactly what Jake Northrup has done.
At his firm, Experience Your Wealth, Jake has made a point to optimize the human element in every single meeting. From the questions they ask to the deliverables they provide, he’s thought of it all.
In this episode, Jake gives us an inside look into each meeting to reveal how he infuses the human side to help clients live their ideal lives.
Here’s what you’ll learn:
Using “micro-steps” to improve client behavior
The process they use to help clients create their “Unique Money Vision”
The psychological power of “spending experiments” to help clients live their best life
The action item dashboard they use to improve the gap between knowing and doing
The “Life Planning Timeline” he creates to visualize and prioritize what’s most important
To sign up for Brendan’s monthly newsletter focused on the human side of advice → Click Here
Resources:
The featured partner for this episode is Knudge, an automated system to help clients actually follow through on their tasks and reach their financial goals
Connect with Brendan Frazier:
RFG Advisory
LinkedIn: Brendan Frazier
X:@jbrendanfrazier

Oct 11, 2023 • 1h 36min
97: A Blueprint For Conducting “Re-Discovery” Meetings With Long-Time Clients with Meghaan Lurtz
Let’s face it…most advisors’ meetings with long-term clients are lackluster.
You ask about life, the kids, any changes in their life, etc. Then, you tell them that everything looks good. They’re still on track. They leave and you do it all over again next year.
And, that’s not bad. But, there’s a better way. There’s a meeting that will strengthen your trust and connection, guide your clients to live their best lives, naturally display and reinforce your value
It’s called the “Re-Discovery” Meeting and Meghaan Lurtz shares the blueprint on how advisors can start conducting these meetings right away.
Here’s what you’ll learn:
How to avoid long-time clients getting the “7-year itch”
Questions to ask clients to help them live their best lives
The relationship-building power of co-creating visions and goals
A question to ask at the end of every meeting to improve the client experience
Why asking a prospect to “think it over” may actually be detrimental to the relationship
To sign up for Brendan’s monthly newsletter focused on the human side of advice → Click Here
Resources:
The featured partner for this episode is Knudge, an automated system to help clients actually follow through on their tasks and reach their financial goals
Connect with Brendan Frazier:
RFG Advisory
LinkedIn: Brendan Frazier
X:@jbrendanfrazier

Oct 4, 2023 • 28min
96: Why Advisors Shouldn’t Give Advice (And What To Do Instead)
The relationship dynamic between advisors and clients is shifting.
It’s shifting away from treating the plan and towards treating the person. The old model was the financial advisor as the “advice giver.” Treating the problem by dispensing advice.
The new model has the advisor playing the role of “thinking partner.” It goes like this: Diagnose the situation, discuss the options, and decide together on the best solution.
The client is the hero of their story.
And the advisor is a thinking partner, a guide, a facilitator, a collaborator, and a problem-solver.
We discuss:
What the field of medicine can teach us about this relationship dynamic
Two client stories showing the importance of being a thinking partner
Three specific ways to be a thinking partner with your clients
To sign up for Brendan’s monthly newsletter focused on the human side of advice → Click Here
Resources:
The featured partner for this episode is Knudge, an automated system to help clients actually follow through on their tasks and reach their financial goals
Connect with Brendan Frazier:
RFG Advisory
LinkedIn: Brendan Frazier
X:@jbrendanfrazier

Sep 27, 2023 • 1h 35min
95: Navigating The Dynamics Of Working With Couples And Money with Ashley Quamme
Every advisor remembers sitting in a meeting with a couple where one person is engaged and the other hasn’t said a word.
Or the meeting with the couple whose goals aren’t aligned.
While working with couples certainly has its challenges, it’s also an opportunity for advisors to help couples align and thrive financially. But, doing so requires knowing the skills you need to navigate the dynamics of working with couples and money.
Fortunately, Ashley Quamme specializes in this area and is going to crack the code to get both partners engaged and on the same page so they can thrive together financially.
Here’s what you’ll learn:
Her favorite question to help couples get “unstuck”
How to use “Relationship Maps” when working with couples
How to set the expectations for both partners to talk and engage
The 3 factors that contribute to couples not on the same page with their goals
Questions to ask couples to assess their financial relationship (without being intrusive)
To sign up for Brendan’s monthly newsletter focused on the human side of advice → Click Here
Resources:
The featured partner for this episode is Knudge, an automated system to help clients actually follow through on their tasks and reach their financial goals
Connect with Brendan Frazier:
RFG Advisory
LinkedIn: Brendan Frazier
X:@jbrendanfrazier

Sep 14, 2023 • 1h 32min
94: Why Clients Actually Hire & Fire Their Financial Advisors with Samantha Lamas and Danielle Labotka
If you want to convert more prospects into life-long clients…
You need to know the answer to two questions: Why do people hire a financial advisor? Why do people fire their financial advisor?
They just might be the two most important questions for any advisory business.
Fortunately, Samantha Lamas and Danielle Labotka did the research to get the answer to those two questions. And, what they learned will forever transform the way advisors approach client acquisition and client retention.
Here’s what you’ll learn:
How to create digital content that makes an emotional connection
The connection between listening skills and higher client retention
The most commonly cited reasons for both hiring and firing an advisor
The most commonly listed emotional reasons driving hiring and firing decisions
The “Value Prop Makeover”: 3 steps to effectively communicate your emotional value
To sign up for Brendan’s monthly newsletter focused on the human side of advice → Click Here
Resources:
The featured partner for this episode is Knudge, an automated system to help clients actually follow through on their tasks and reach their financial goals
Connect with Brendan Frazier:
RFG Advisory
LinkedIn: Brendan Frazier
X:@jbrendanfrazier

Aug 30, 2023 • 1h 33min
93: The Psychology of Retirement Spending and Prioritizing Peace of Mind with Christine Benz
Christine Benz has been dispensing financial planning knowledge and impacting the lives of people around the world for decades.
She’s written hundreds of articles for Morningstar on practical financial planning advice. In fact, she’s one of the best out there. But there are 3 articles that stick out from the rest.
They deviated from her usual style laying out step-by-step technical knowledge and ventured into the field of psychology and emotions.
So, we talked with Christine about those three articles.
She explains the psychology of retirement spending, why peace of mind is the ultimate luxury good, and the biggest money mistake she’s ever made.
Here’s what you’ll learn:
Why peace of mind is her ultimate luxury good
The importance of celebrating financial milestones
The psychological advantage of prioritizing short-term goals
Using a “Retirement Policy Statement” to get retirees to spend money
The biggest money mistake she’s ever made (and the emotional reason for it)
To sign up for Brendan’s monthly newsletter focused on the human side of advice → Click Here
Resources:
The featured partner for this episode is Knudge, an automated system to help clients actually follow through on their tasks and reach their financial goals
Connect with Brendan Frazier:
RFG Advisory
LinkedIn: Brendan Frazier
X:@jbrendanfrazier

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Aug 16, 2023 • 1h 33min
92: Systems That Scale Human-To-Human Connection Throughout An Advisory Business with Libby Greiwe
Libby Greiwe, founder of The Efficient Advisor and a coach for financial advisors, shares insights on balancing efficiency with genuine human connection. She discusses her journey from a 'guru' to a 'sherpa,' emphasizing the importance of understanding client emotions. Libby elaborates on her 'Ideal Client Avatar' approach, enhancing communication, and shares strategies to make every client feel special. Through personal anecdotes, she highlights the art of listening and the power of storytelling as key elements in building trust and deepening relationships in the advisory business.

Aug 10, 2023 • 26min
91: The Email That Wins Clients And Their Trust
There’s an email you can send that actually:
1) Improves conversion ratios
2) Improves connection and receives responses like “You get me.”
In other words, it wins clients AND their trust. Thus, it’s the most important email you’ll ever send.
We discuss:
The psychology behind why these emails are so powerful
The key things to include when sending a recap email
Why advisors claim these emails are essential to converting prospects
To sign up for Brendan’s monthly newsletter focused on the human side of advice → Click Here
Resources:
The featured partner for this episode is Knudge, an automated system to help clients actually follow through on their tasks and reach their financial goals
Connect with Brendan Frazier:
RFG Advisory
LinkedIn: Brendan Frazier
X:@jbrendanfrazier


