
Love Life With Matthew Hussey
Modern dating doesn’t have to be confusing!
Join Matthew Hussey—New York Times bestselling author, world-renowned dating coach, and host of the #1 YouTube channel for relationship advice—for deep, funny, and brutally honest conversations on everything love, confidence, and relationships. He dives deep into helping people transform the three most important relationships we have in life: the relationship with others, with ourselves, and with life itself.
Every Wednesday, Matthew is joined by his cohosts: his wife and collaborator Audrey Hussey, who brings her signature warmth, wit, and insight; his brother Stephen Hussey, a New York Times bestselling author with a PhD in Philosophy; and Producer David, who adds his unique perspective and humor to the mix.
In weekly episodes, they share practical advice, hard-won wisdom, and strategies to navigate finding a lasting relationship. No matter your relationship status, the Love Life podcast will meet you where you are.
Latest episodes

Nov 3, 2021 • 52min
138: Jealousy, Relationship Sabotage, and the MOST Attractive Strategy for Dealing With Insecurities
Matt and Stephen sit down to talk about: - Why comparing yourself to your partner's ex's is such a losing game - How to escape the trap of comparison - The value vs. the danger of talking about your insecurities (and why many men struggle with this) - How to be attractive without needing to be perfect -- Join us on our virtual retreat on March 18th-20th! Go to MHVirtualRetreat.com and spend a magical 3 days with us transforming your confidence and relationships... (EARLY BIRD SPECIAL OFFER - book your spot before November 30th and get over 30% off the full price! Claim your ticket here) --- Follow Matt @thematthewhussey Follow Stephen @stephenhhussey

Oct 22, 2021 • 48min
137: Does THIS Count As Cheating? + What It Means To Be Loyal In A Relationship
Matt and Stephen get into the topic of LOYALTY in a relationship. We discuss: Is it okay for a guy you’re dating to like a models photo? Is it okay for a guy you’re dating to like an Ex’s Photo? What counts as micro-cheating? Do you have to be over someone before you can date? The importance of loyalty The difference between values and standards --- Follow Matt @thematthewhussey Follow Stephen @stephenhhussey --- Email us your thoughts at podcast@matthewhussey.com --- Don’t waste time & energy. Find love Faster: Download Your Free Guide to Learn the 3 Love Habits... → http://www.3LoveHabits.com

Oct 15, 2021 • 54min
136: Why Modern Men Become Simps (Failed Dating Strategy or Sexual Kink?)
Matt and Steve sit down to talk about why so many men are now accused of being "simps". We discuss: - What ACTUALLY makes a guy a "simp" - How we should feel about men who do it - What causes unhealthy fandom and hero worship --- Follow Matt @thematthewhussey Follow Stephen @stephenhhussey --- Email us your thoughts at podcast@matthewhussey.com --- Don’t waste time & energy. Find love Faster: Download Your Free Guide to Learn the 3 Love Habits... → http://www.3LoveHabits.com

Oct 6, 2021 • 44min
135: Confessions Of A Reluctant Ghoster (Have You Done It?)
Matt and Steve talk about how ghosting happens, and why we all can not only be victims of it, but also unknowing perpetrators... *SPOILER alert for The Sixth Sense (I mean, it's over 20 years old, but ya know...here's your warning). --- Follow Matt @thematthewhussey Follow Stephen @stephenhhussey --- Email us your thoughts at podcast@matthewhussey.com --- Don’t waste time & energy. Find love Faster: Download Your Free Guide to Learn the 3 Love Habits... → http://www.3LoveHabits.com

Sep 29, 2021 • 45min
134: What Trauma Does To Your Relationships + Healing Your Emotional Wounds
Matt and Steve sit down to talk: Where trauma and bad beliefs come from The effect of trauma on romantic relationships Getting over pain and changing emotional associations Boomer, Gen Z, Millenials + the failure of empathy --- Follow Matt @thematthewhussey Follow Stephen @stephenhhussey Email us your thoughts at podcast@matthewhussey.com --- Don’t waste time & energy. Find love Faster: Download Your Free Guide to Learn the 3 Love Habits... → http://www.3LoveHabits.com

Sep 17, 2021 • 24min
133: What If He Changes For Someone Else?
It's one thing to leave the wrong person, but some people worry: "What if he becomes the RIGHT person for someone else? What if he changes and fixes his flaws and I missed out on the "better" version of him? Matt and Steve talk about where this fear comes from and why it can be so dangerous to live worrying about someone's future potential. --- Follow Matt @thematthewhussey Follow Stephen @stephenhhussey --- If you haven't locked in your place for the next Virtual Retreat this September 24-26, then now is the time. Claiming your place this month will enter you into an exclusive drawing for the chance to receive one of three free tickets to the Virtual Retreat OR the grand prize of an exclusive 1:1 coaching session with me! Go to MHVirtualRetreat.com to secure your spot.

Sep 10, 2021 • 19min
132: What You Lose With "Backburner Relationships"
Some recent research claimed that over 50% of people in committed partnerships have a "backburner relationship". In this episode Matt and Steve talk about: - What defines a backburner relationship? - Why in 2021 has this grown in modern dating culture? - What is the cost of having a backburner relationship? --- Follow Matt @thematthewhussey Follow Stephen @stephenhhussey --- Email us your thoughts at podcast@matthewhussey.com --- If you haven't locked in your place for the next Virtual Retreat this September 24-26, then now is the time. Claiming your place this month will enter you into an exclusive drawing for the chance to receive one of three free tickets to the Virtual Retreat OR the grand prize of an exclusive 1:1 coaching session with me! Go to MHVirtualRetreat.com to secure your spot.

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Sep 5, 2021 • 12min
131: Don't Make This Common First-Date Mistake
Ever found yourself slipping into the therapist role with a guy when what you really want is to create deep attraction with him? Instead of being in a fun, flirtatious situation with someone who’s trying to get to know more about you, you find yourself sitting patiently while someone unloads all of their problems onto you. You’re not alone. But there is a way out. In this brand-new clip from a small live show, I show you how to escape the “therapist trap” with a guy so that you can keep building the attraction and tension that lead to a second date. Matthew x P.S. If you’d like the chance to ask me a live question—and join what is essentially a gym for your psychology, your emotions, and your confidence—consider this your personal invitation to sign up for a 14-day trial to my Love.Life Club at AskMH.com. I hope to see you there!

Aug 30, 2021 • 30min
130: What REALLY Gets You A Second Date...
Matt and Steve talk about the art of flirting and the REAL difference between chemistry and connection... --- Follow Matt @thematthewhussey Follow Stephen @stephenhhussey --- If you haven't locked in your place for the next Virtual Retreat this September 24-26, then now is the time. Claiming your place this month will enter you into an exclusive drawing for the chance to receive one of three free tickets to the Virtual Retreat OR the grand prize of an exclusive 1:1 coaching session with me! Go to MHVirtualRetreat.com to secure your spot.

Aug 20, 2021 • 57min
129: Matt's Challenge From Hell (And What He Learned...)
Matt did a big, scary, difficult challenge. It was humbling. It was brutal. And it taught him a lot about friendship, confidence and doing things that scare you... --- Follow Matt @thematthewhussey Follow Stephen @stephenhhussey --- If you haven't locked in your place for the next Virtual Retreat this September 24-26, then now is the time. Claiming your place this month will enter you into an exclusive drawing for the chance to receive one of three free tickets to the Virtual Retreat OR the grand prize of an exclusive 1:1 coaching session with me! Go to MHVirtualRetreat.com to secure your spot.