Angry At The Right Things

Codependents, this episode is for you! Let's dislodge the guilt that keeps us from cultivating healthy empathy for ourselves and others, once and for all.

Hatred is not something to judge, but rather, a beneficial emotion that gives vital insight. Learn how to harness hatred for good -- and rid yourself of it's toxicity, once and for all.

Loving our children requires much more than a sentiment, but learning to help them feel both held and free, which is not easy. Learn how to allow our children to differentiate successfully, while finding wholeness for ourselves.

Denial causes us to deflect our shame unto others, but true power comes from sharing power. Let's live in reality together, sharing with and celebrating those around us.

If we're honest, children are incredibly disappointing. But when we accept the inevitable disappointment that they won't make us feel better about ourselves and we make them feel seen by us, our kids become powerful - and delightful. 

This is an incredible interview on the Think Unbroken Podcast, with Michael Anthony. Michael and I both have participated in our own liberation from childhood trauma, which makes for a profound and inspiring conversation. 

The scientific name for what we call "keeping it all inside" is alexithymia. Studies show alexithymia can cause physical and mental illness. Here are some easy ways to undo alexithymia in your life, protecting your mind, body and soul.

Anger from our parents is necessary for our differentiation. The good news is we can heal ourselves without their apology. Here's how.

Do we relate to ourselves in a black-or-white, shame-based way, or do we seek self-understanding with the goal of fostering maturity and growth? Changing the way we see ourselves changes us. 

Practical examples of what we can do to keep ourselves from being infected by people with Borderline Personality Disorder. Knowledge is power, and even dragons have a soft underbelly.