
Divorce etc... hosted by the exEXPERTS (T.H. and Jessica)
T.H. and Jess are best friends who lived parallel lives - engaged a month apart, married a month apart, and after 13 yrs found out their husbands were cheating and traveling with their girlfriends as couples...for years!
Divorce etc... is a funny, uplifting, no-BS conversation with best friends who know how important friendship is during hard times. We've lived it, so we get it!
We ask the hard questions to lawyers, financial advisors, therapists, dating experts and anyone who can help you get through divorce. You don't know what you don't know, but we do!
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Latest episodes

Jun 19, 2023 • 27min
Parenting Apps for Divorced Parents | S3, Ep. 25
What do parenting apps do and how can they help divorced parents? And are there certain features you should be looking for if you want to use one, like GPS locator or the ability to upload photos and documents? In this episode we speak to Michael Daniels, Founder of the co-parenting app FAYR. Hear about what makes Fayr different than other apps out there, and why this might be the right choice for you. (Guest: Michael Daniels, Founder FAYR)
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Jun 11, 2023 • 29min
Divorced Dads Father's Day | S3, Ep. 24
Father's Day should be a happy day for dads, but when you're divorced, there are a lot of emotions that may come along with it. Plus, wrangling the kids and trying to set up the day can sometimes end up leading to disappointment. We've all been there! But there are some ways you divorced dads can set yourself up for success, and we get some of the best ideas and tips from parenting coach Jay Skibbens. This episode can help make your day the way you want it! (Guest: Jay Skibbens, Parent Coach)
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Jun 5, 2023 • 29min
Out of Court Options for Divorce | S3, Ep. 23
When you think of getting divorced, you may not actually realize how many options you have for the kind of divorce you might want. Back in the day, litigation was the norm, and sometimes mediation was an alternative. But today, due to the fact that so many couples - and most lawyers - want to avoid litigation, you have a lot of choices. And the great news is, there is an organization whose whole mission is to help divorcing couples find the best out of court option for them. In this episode we lay out each of those options, the differences, and the pros and cons so that you can decide which is the right choice for you. (Guest: Tracy Moore Grant, Founder Amicable Divorce Network/Family Law Attorney)
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May 29, 2023 • 48min
SPLIT UP - A Movie From Kids of Divorce | S3, Ep. 22
For everyone divorced with kids, talking to your children and trying to figure out how to approach the tough conversations are some of the hardest parts of the whole process. How to bring it up, what are the "right" things to say and what are the kids even thinking? As parents, we want to help our kids process without doing further damage or causing additional emotional stress. This in an inside conversation between the filmmakers behind the powerful documentary SPLIT, who have now produced the sequel, Split UP: The TEEN Years. This new film follows kids ages 16-22 and you hear from their own mouths how divorce has impacted them and their lives. This is a must-see for all parents of divorce. (Guests: Ellen Bruno, Award-Winning Documentary Maker & Producer/Director/Editor and Christina McGhee, Divorce Expert & Author of Parenting Apart.
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SPONSORED BY: Amicable Divorce Network. For professionals, go to www.amicabledivorcenetwork.com and for divorcing couples, go to www.divorceamicably.com.

May 22, 2023 • 27min
Concerns About Money During Divorce | S3, Ep. 21
Fears about money are one of the biggest concerns of divorce, and learning how to strategize for financial success can have an enormous impact on every part of your process. In this episode, we talk to a Certified Divorce Financial Advisor all about the best formula for successful negotiations and how to look at your own situation to determine whether or not you feel ok, and what changes you will want to make. (Guest: Rhonda Noordyk, CFDA and Founder, Women's Financial Wellness Center)
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SPONSORED BY: Amicable Divorce Network. For professionals, go to www.amicabledivorcenetwork.com and for divorcing couples, go to www.divorceamicably.com.

May 15, 2023 • 28min
Handling the Stress of Divorce | S3, Ep. 20
The stress of divorce takes a toll not only on your mind, but on your body. That's why it is so important to prioritize your your own health and wellness and make sure that doesn't fall to the bottom of your to-do list. Easier said than done, we know, but this episode sheds light on 12 lifestyle factors and how these different pieces need to fit together to be balanced in order to move on past stress, trauma and divorce. (Guest: Suzy Wood, Integrative Nutrition Health Coach and Founder, True Wellness Within)
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SPONSORED BY: Amicable Divorce Network. For professionals, go to www.amicabledivorcenetwork.com and for divorcing couples, go to www.divorceamicably.com.

May 8, 2023 • 26min
Grow the F*ck Up with Sarah Knight | S3, Ep. 19
Sometimes we have to just hear the straight truth, no matter how much it hurts. Why? Because being honest with ourselves, especially in a hard situation, is going to help us be prepared and get through it in the best way possible. But if you can get all of that with a few laughs along the way, even better. NY Times Bestselling Author Sarah Knight gives us an inside look at her newest book, how it relates to everything in life (including divorce!), and leaves us with some practical, non-nonsense and even funny tips for getting through whatever you're dealing with. (Guest: Sarah Knight, NYT Bestselling Author "Grown the F*ck Up and the No F*cks Given Guides)
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SPONSORED BY: Amicable Divorce Network. For professionals, go to www.amicabledivorcenetwork.com and for divorcing couples, go to www.divorceamicably.com.

May 1, 2023 • 24min
How to Recover From Divorce | S3, Ep. 18
Recovering from divorce can be a painful process, but it's important to know where to start and what steps to take to work through it. This episode with Divorce Recovery Coach Leah Marie gives you all the information you need to start - and end - with success. Hear how your recovery can lead you into a new path of opportunity! (Guest: Leah Marie, Divorce Recovery Coach - www.mindfullyready.com)
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SPONSORED BY: Amicable Divorce Network. For professionals, go to www.amicabledivorcenetwork.com and for divorcing couples, go to www.divorceamicably.com.

Apr 24, 2023 • 31min
Moving Forward Through the Divorce Process | S3, Ep. 17
You can get stuck in any phase of the divorce process - even deciding "should you or shouldn't you" is a monumental decision. And once you do choose the divorce path, moving forward through the process can be very tricky in many ways. There are some things you can control while you're going through it, and that's what you'll learn in this episode. We talk about owning your outcome, being a creator versus a victim and the LEAN Framework, and how you can apply it to your situation. Everyone can learn something from this podcast! (Guest: Jennifer Warren Medwin, FL Supreme Court Family Mediator & Divorce Coach)
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Apr 17, 2023 • 37min
Protecting Your Kids When Divorcing a Narcissist | S3, Ep. 16
It's hard to see our kids be disappointed, especially when it stems from their other parent letting them down. It's instinct to want to protect them from that hurt, which often comes in the form of covering for that other parent. It could be as simple as getting the birthday gift for the party they're invited to on your ex's weekend, or as big as making excuses when your ex doesn't show up when they're supposed to. But shielding them from the inevitable disappointment from a difficult person isn't always the best thing for your kids. Parenting expert Christina McGhee explains how to deal with this kind of situation in divorce, and what's actually the better way to handle things. (Guest: Christina McGhee, MSW, Parenting Expert, Author "Parenting Apart: How Separated and Divorced Parents Can Raise Happy and Secure Kids")
Email hello@exexperts.com if you would like to set up a private session with Jessica and T.H. to help with your process!
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SPONSORED BY: Style My Profile www.stylemyprofilenyc.com. Check out her offerings for styling your profile, dating coaching and her book!