Divorce etc... hosted by the exEXPERTS (T.H. and Jessica)

For anyone who's dealing with a high-conflict legal battle, it's important to know that the term "legal abuse" is a real thing. There is a time when all the back and forths, and briefs and motions can become part of a pattern that lawyers and judges recognize as legal abuse. The intention is to try and wear you down, both emotionally and financially, and it is not ok. It is extremely important not to give in just to "get it over with" because you could be making choices that will hurt you later. This episode breaks down when the line is crossed into legal abuse and what you can do to protect yourself. (Guests: Lisa Johnson and Chris Barry, Been There Got Out - www.beentheregotout.com) Follow us on Instagram and TikTok @exexperts. SPONSORED BY: Lost & Found Forensics, a company that can assist you in using information from your spouse's cellphone as evidence. For more information, go to http://www.lostandfoundforensics.com/

One of the hard truths about divorce is that if you have kids, you're not done with your ex once the divorce is final. You now have to transition into the next phase, which is coparenting together. For many couples, finding common ground and being able to coparent peacefully is as hard as getting through the divorce negotiations - and for some couples, coparenting ends up being years of additional arguing and toxicity. We spoke to lawyer and divorce coach Sabrina Cronin about the secret to making it a little easier. (Guest: Sabrina Cronin, Family Law Attorney) Email hello@exexperts.com or click here if you would like to set up a private session with Jessica and T.H. to help with your process! Follow us on Instagram and TikTok @exexperts. SPONSORED BY: Lost & Found Forensics, a company that can assist you in using information from your spouse's cellphone as evidence. For more information, go to http://www.lostandfoundforensics.com/

Talking to your kids about your divorce is one of the hardest parts for many parents. When do you tell them? What should you say? What shouldn't you say? What's the best way to handle their emotions - anger, sadness, fear? We talk to Grace Casper from Divorce Tips From Kids, who has suggested answers that are a great guide for any situation. Anyone who has kids should listen to this episode! (Guest: Grace Casper, Podcast Host and Author of Divorce Tips From Kids) Email hello@exexperts.com or click here if you would like to set up a private session with Jessica and T.H. to help with your process! Follow us on Instagram and TikTok @exexperts. SPONSORED BY: Lost & Found Forensics, a company that can assist you in using information from your spouse's cellphone as evidence. For more information, go to http://www.lostandfoundforensics.com/

Have you felt that your ex is trying to smear you during your divorce, whether it's to your kids, your friends or even to the lawyers and court? Dealing with a smear campaign is a highly emotional situation, but it happens far too often. In this episode, we speak to Matt Phifer all about this version of toxic abuse and how to handle it. This is a must-listen for anyone dealing with a high-conflict divorce. (Guest: Matt Phifer, Therapist, Trauma and Emotional Abuse Expert) Email hello@exexperts.com or click here if you would like to set up a private session with Jessica and T.H. to help with your process! Follow us on Instagram and TikTok @exexperts. SPONSORED BY: Lost & Found Forensics, a company that can assist you in using information from your spouse's cellphone as evidence. For more information, go to http://www.lostandfoundforensics.com/

Once you know you're getting divorced, you need to start watching what you say. Nowadays, so many things can be used against you, that you really want to be careful about your communications with everyone in your life. Your texts, your emails, even your social media posts - these are all things that you have to be aware of. And it's not just your messages to your ex...even communications you have with friends and family may end up hurting you. This episode with divorce lawyer Seth Nelson goes through all of the ways to protect yourself, and what can and can't be used in court. (Guest: Seth Nelson, Divorce Attorney and Podcast Host "How to Split a Toaster") Email hello@exexperts.com or click ⁠here⁠ if you would like to set up a private session with Jessica and T.H. to help with your process! Follow us on Instagram and TikTok @exexperts. SPONSORED BY: Lost & Found Forensics, a company that can assist you in using information from your spouse's cellphone as evidence. For more information, go to ⁠http://www.lostandfoundforensics.com/⁠

Feeling like you've lost your identity after getting divorced is so common because divorce often brings about feelings of "who am I?" now that you're no longer part of a married couple. From changing your name to going back into the corporate workforce, major changes are happening in many ways. Dr. Elizabeth Cohen - the Divorce Doctor - explains that there are ways to reset how you think so you can embrace the new you. This is must-listen for anyone going through divorce and everyone who has already gotten divorced! (Guest: Dr. Elizabeth Cohen, Ph.D., Author, aka The Divorce Doctor) Email hello@exexperts.com or click here if you would like to set up a private session with Jessica and T.H. to help with your process! Follow us on Instagram and TikTok @exexperts. SPONSORED BY: BPP Wealth Solutions, a female-founded financial planning firm. BPP Wealth helps build, protect and preserve wealth for generations. For more information, go to https://www.bppwealth.com/.

Money is a main concern in divorce, and there are many common pitfalls that occur that you can avoid if you know what they are. In this episode we speak to Sara Chevere, Financial Coach and Founder of Finance Babe, to learn what you need to know and how to prepare and protect yourself financially during your divorce. (Guest: Sara Chevere, Intuitive Financial Coach & Founder of Finance Babe) Email hello@exexperts.com or click here if you would like to set up a private session with Jessica and T.H. to help with your process! Follow us on Instagram and TikTok @exexperts. SPONSORED BY: BPP Wealth Solutions, a female-founded financial planning firm. BPP Wealth helps build, protect and preserve wealth for generations. For more information, go to https://www.bppwealth.com/.

Who doesn't want to become better at Advanced Adulting? In this episode, one of our signature male exEXPERTS, Bradley Richardson, gives us the lowdown on what exactly "Advanced Adulting" is and means, and why is essential for everyone - both men and women. The concept is based on life lessons and learning from mistakes we've made, and how to move forward productively and positively. As Bradley says, he's all about education and mentoring for grown-ass adults. This is a must listen! (Guest: Bradley Richardson, Author, Coach & Founder of Advanced Adulting) Email hello@exexperts.com or click here if you would like to set up a private session with Jessica and T.H. to help with your process! Follow us on Instagram and TikTok @exexperts. SPONSORED BY: BPP Wealth Solutions, a female-founded financial planning firm. BPP Wealth helps build, protect and preserve wealth for generations. For more information, go to https://www.bppwealth.com/.

When getting divorced, most people just don't know what they don't know. They also don't know what they need to know. In this episode, we speak to Family Law attorney Dennis Vetrano, who deals with a lot of high-conflict cases and tells it like it is. From when is the right time to start meeting with lawyers, to understanding that every time you're in court you are "on stage", so how you act (and even dress!) matters. (Guest: Dennis Vetrano, Family Attorney) Email hello@exexperts.com or click here if you would like to set up a private session with Jessica and T.H. to help with your process! Follow us on Instagram and TikTok @exexperts. SPONSORED BY: BPP Wealth Solutions, a female-founded financial planning firm. BPP Wealth helps build, protect and preserve wealth for generations. For more information, go to https://www.bppwealth.com/.

Divorce from a narcissist is one of the most challenging types of divorces a person can go through, and we know it's not always easy to talk about. Getting out of a toxic relationship that includes trauma and emotional abuse is extremely difficult, but with the right support, you can move on and find joy - and love! - again. In this episode we hear a first-hand account of divorcing and moving on from a narcissist, so if this is a situation you are or have faced, you are not alone! (Guest: Alyssa Dineen, Author & Dating Expert) Email hello@exexperts.com or click here if you would like to set up a private session with Jessica and T.H. to help with your process! Follow us on Instagram, YouTube, LinkedIn and TikTok @exEXPERTS.