Divorce etc... hosted by the exEXPERTS (T.H. and Jessica)

Are you equipped to fix things around the house on your own after divorce? Let's face it, men are often the ones that deal with home repairs, which means many women find themselves in a bind when they're living on their own post divorce. Toolbox Divas founder Timisha started her business after a breakup, and has made it her mission to help women learn the essential basics so they aren't helpless at home. In this episode, Timisha talks about the top 10 most important tools everyone must have and why. Trust us, you need to hear this! (Guest: Timisha Porcher, Toolbox Divas)

The goal in every divorce is to find yourself "Happy Even After", and Renee Bauer is both an exEXPERT as a divorce lawyer, as well as a REAL LIFE expert, having been divorced twice herself. Renee Bauer talks candidly about her own experiences, which include her own feelings of shame and why she didn't used to reveal her own situation to her clients. Hear firsthand about going through divorce as a divorce lawyer, and how Renee has turned her story into a way to help everyone else going through it! (Guest: Renee Bauer, Divorce Attorney, "Happy Even After" host) Follow us on IG @exexperts

Now that the holidays are over, how are you doing? So much focus is on how to get through the holidays while divorced, but not many people talk about what comes next. Coming down from the holiday high and lows can be challenging if you're divorced, but in this episode we bring back the Divorce Doctor for some really impactful advice and tips on how to get your year started in the best way possible for you, no matter where you are and what stage of divorce you're in. (Guest: Elizabeth Cohen, Ph.D., Therapist, aka The Divorce Doctor) Follow us on Instagram @exexperts

Let's talk about sex, baby! So many of us coming out of divorce have been in a major dry spell, and now it's time to think about getting back out there and enjoying yourself in every way! This is a time to learn how to get over any fears, embarrassment or shame and realize that sex is amazing and it should be. It can be hard to speak up about your sexual wants and desires, especially with a new partner, but sex therapist Carli Blau shares some great tips and is about as direct and forthcoming as can be. Hear how you can be more comfortable in bed, even if it's been a while! (Guest: Carli Blau, Sex Therapist/Psychotherapist) Follow us on Instagram @exexperts

Even in a no-fault state, there are specific situations in which "wasteful" spending by your ex can be equalized during the financial settlement. Some examples include infidelity and gambling, but there are certainly more. In this episode you'll learn why it's so important to understand what dissipation of assets means and exactly what it refers to, to ensure you're getting everything you're entitled to. (Guest: Lisa Zeiderman, Divorce Attorney) Follow us on Instagram @exexperts

Have you ever heard of discernment therapy? Neither had we, but it's not at all what you think. Unlike traditional marriage counseling, discernment therapy is actually for couples who aren't sure if they want to stay married - in fact, it's for couples where one person wants to save the marriage but the other one may not. The Marriage Place offers this specialized therapy and the concept of what it is and how it works is truly fascinating, not to mention a hugely valuable resource for so many couples that find themselves in this exact situation. (Guest: Kim Bowen, The Marriage Place) Follow us on Instagram @exexperts

Yes 2021 was another shit show of a year, but we've come a long way, baby! In this JUST US episode, Jess and T.H. go raw and uncensored. It  brings tears and laughter as we go deeper than ever. Just like you, we've had ups and downs, triumphs and defeats, and everything in between - and we're still here, stronger than ever! Join us in giving yourself a little grace to recognize where you are, and be proud of yourself! Follow us on Instagram @exexperts

Understanding the relationship between you and your divorce lawyer is a crucial part of the process, because if expectations aren't met (on either side), things can go badly. Boundaries, methods of communication, who works for you, the billing...these are all things you need to clarify at the very beginning. In this episode you'll hear the how to's and no do's of a client-attorney relationship. (Guest: Jennifer Armstrong, Family Law Attorney) Follow us on Instagram @exexperts

Najiyyah Brooks, founder of Brooks Media and host of Level Up Radio, and Tanisha Russell Day, VP of Brand Management at Brooks Media, dive into the stigma surrounding divorce. They discuss how the label of ‘divorced’ often overshadows personal identity. The duo shares personal stories about navigating love, loss, and societal expectations. They challenge the idea that divorce defines a person's worth, advocating for self-acceptance and the importance of reshaping narratives around divorce to promote empowerment and growth.

It's way too easy to get caught up in wanting to get back at your ex during divorce, even against your better judgement. And it's refreshing to hear a divorce lawyer say they would prefer their clients not fight over everything, and just focus on what's most important - the kids. Easier said than done, but this episode offers practical suggestions and ways to stay on track for the benefit of everyone...including yourself. (Guest: Evan Weinstein, Family Law Attorney) Follow us on Instagram @exexperts