Divorce etc... hosted by the exEXPERTS (T.H. and Jessica)

Getting divorced is hard enough, but if you have a child that has special needs and requires special services, that can make everything significantly harder. What if you and your ex don't agree on what's necessary? What if you're not even on the same page about what is going on with your child and whether they're even considered special needs? Working with a parent advocate can be one of the best decisions you make, and you must listen to this episode if you're looking for answers to understanding the definition of special needs, the difference between and IEP and 504 and who is eligible. (Guest: Rebecca Stern, Divorce & Family Mediator and Special Education Parent Advocate) Follow us on TikTok and Instagram @exexperts.

"Do I need a lawyer?" is a common question for many people when faced with the reality that they're getting divorced. There are common perceptions that you'll save a ton of money and a judge may even feel bad for you because you are the underdog, but if you don't get a lawyer, then you have to be prepared and understand the letter of the law. The harsh reality is that not having a lawyer may hurt you, especially if you have to go to court. This episode exposes the real truth on whether or not you should really do it alone. (Guest: Sandra Fava, Family Law Attorney) Follow us on TikTok and Instagram @exexperts.

Infidelity is far too common in many marriages, but it's all about how you own up to it and take responsibility that allows people to move on productively, and often find themselves in a better place than before. In this episode, Jessica speaks to divorce coach Cindy Stibbard, whose own personal experience with cheating - both her own and her ex husband's - led her to a successful practice helping others focus on family reorganization and navigating the divorce process in a better way. Cindy opens up about how extramarital affairs affected her self-worth and inner strength, and her insight will resonate deeply with anyone dealing with divorce. (Guest: Cindy Stibbard, Certified Divorce and Career Transition Coach) Follow us on TikTok and Instagram @exexperts. Go to athleticgreens.com/EMERGING for the Athletic Greens deal!

Erin Levine, founder of Hello Divorce, discusses the emergence of DIY divorce, the complexities of the process, and the benefits of accessible resources like mediation. The podcast covers the step-by-step process of online services, the mediator's role, and plans for expansion in 2022.

In every divorce, someone is moving out, and in many cases the family home is being sold. Even before you meet with lawyers, you should have a real estate professional value your home so you know what it's worth in your negotiations, and there are a number of other important things to know and do from the very beginning of your process. In this episode, Christie's International Real Estate Agent, Melissa Rubenstein,  takes you through the the top tips of preparing, listing, showing and selling a home, as well as what you need to know if you want to purchase something new. There are specific privacy issues and concerns when selling a home during divorce and we've got all the info you need to know! (Guest: Melissa Rubenstein, Real Estate Agent and former Real Estate Attorney) Follow us on TikTok and Instagram @exexperts. Go to athleticgreens.com/EMERGING for the Athletic Greens deal!

Every divorce is challenging, but if your ex is truly a narcissist, you will have a lot of extra stress on your plate. This powerful episode drills down on what exactly a narcissist is, how to tell if your spouse is actually a narcissist and the best tactics and strategies to navigate the process. You will have to handle your situation differently than many others, but this conversation with expert Nawal Houghton is all about getting through it in the best way. (Guest: Nawal Houghton, Lawyer & Divorce Coach) Follow us on TikTok and Instagram @exexperts. Go to athleticgreens.com/EMERGING for the Athletic Greens deal!

Jennifer Armstrong, a knowledgeable family law attorney from New Jersey, joins the hosts to untangle the complexities of spousal support. She explains the difference between alimony types and how they are negotiated in divorce cases. Listeners learn about key factors influencing alimony decisions and the impact of financial changes post-divorce. Armstrong emphasizes the importance of self-advocacy for those receiving support and shares practical tips for navigating payments and enforcement issues.

The cost of divorce can be extreme, especially if you and your soon-to-be-ex are in an acrimonious situation. Most lawyers charge a retainer fee up front, which can be hard to pay if you don't have access to money at the moment. In this episode, Jess and T.H. talk to attorney Nicole Noonan from New Chapter Capital all about the novel idea of divorce funding. This genius concept is a game-changer for people that will receive some money or assets at the end of the divorce, but are short on cash at the beginning to get the process started. Hear all about how divorce funding works and whether or not you could be eligible!  (Guest: Nicole Noonan, attorney & founder/CEO of New Chapter Capital) Follow us on TikTok and Instagram @exexperts.

The enormity of divorce can feel like you're climbing a mountain, and in the cases of T.H. and Daniel Herrold, one of the founders of Divorced Over Forty, they can actually make that comparison as they both climbed Mt. Kilimanjaro in the wake of their divorces! Daniel opens up in this episode and tells T.H. and Jessica his side of going through divorce, how he came to do the climb and how he almost didn't make it to the summit! Daniel gives a refreshing look at the male psyche when it comes to divorce and offers some valuable insight and advice for both men and women going through the process. You don't want to miss this conversation! (Guest: Daniel Herrold, Founder Divorced Over Forty, Writer) Follow us on Instagram and TikTok @exexperts. Go to athleticgreens.com/EMERGING for the Athletic Greens deal!

In this discussion, Rachel Sussman, a nationally recognized relationship expert and author of "The Breakup Bible," sheds light on how men uniquely navigate divorce recovery. She debunks the myth that men cope more easily, revealing their hidden struggles with shame and emotional isolation. The conversation emphasizes the importance of self-reflection and accountability in healing. Rachel also shares insights into the counseling challenges men face and the significance of respectful communication for the well-being of everyone involved.