Dateable: Your insider's look into modern dating and relationships

What happens when you reach a certain age and realized you haven't been prioritizing dating and relationships as much as maybe you would have liked? How do you "catch up" and get back on track? Join us as we chat about feeling behind in the love department – and what to do about it. We're discussing how to share your story with dates, the reasons past relationship experience ultimately doesn't matter, and why there's no better today than today to get out there (and how to not let fear of rejection get in your way).Got a dating question you need answered? Hit us up at hello@dateablepodcast.comFollow us @dateablepodcast, @juliekrafchick and @nonplatonic. Check out our website for more content about modern dating. Also listen to our other podcast Exit Interview w/ iHeart Podcasts available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, iHeartRadio, or wherever you get your podcasts.WE WROTE A BOOK! HOW TO BE DATEABLE (Simon & Schuster, Jan 2025) is available now: https://howtobedateable.com/ A big thank you to our sponsor Saily by NordVPN: "🌎 Get an exclusive 15% discount on your first Saily data plans! Use code DATEABLE at checkout. Download Saily app or go to to https://saily.com/dateable ⛵"Our Sponsors:* Quince: Go to https://quince.com/dateable for free shipping and 365 day returns. * Washington Red Raspberries: Check out https://redrazz.org to learn about Washington Red Raspberris and get recipes and more!Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dateable-your-insiders-look-into-modern-dating-and-relationships/donationsAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Is it possible to change your type? Do you like who you like? Join us as we dive into what it even means to have a type – and how it's helping or hurting your dating life. We discuss where your type comes from and how it's influenced, ways you can expand your type without necessarily going for your complete opposite, and why dating different types of people can help you determine what it is you truly need.Follow us @dateablepodcast, @juliekrafchick and @nonplatonic. Check out our website for more content. Also listen to our other podcast Exit Interview w/ iHeart Podcasts available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, iHeartRadio, or wherever you get your podcasts.Related Episodes:The Science of AttractionWhy You're Choosing The Wrong PartnersWhere are all the Dateable people? This episode is sponsored by:Quince: Get free shipping and 365 day returns at https://quince.com/dateableOsea Malibu: Get 10% off their skincare from the sea at https://oseamalibu.com and use the code DATEABLEBlueland Cleaning Supplies: Get 15% off your oder at https://blueland.com/DATEABLE310 Nutrition: Get 15% off, up to $100 off your first order using the code DATEABLE at https://310nutrition.com/WE WROTE A BOOK! HOW TO BE DATEABLE (Simon & Schuster, Jan 2025) is available now: https://howtobedateable.com/ A big thank you to our sponsor Saily by NordVPN: "🌎 Get an exclusive 15% discount on your first Saily data plans! Use code DATEABLE at checkout. Download Saily app or go to to https://saily.com/dateable ⛵"Our Sponsors:* Quince: Go to https://quince.com/dateable for free shipping and 365 day returns. * Washington Red Raspberries: Check out https://redrazz.org to learn about Washington Red Raspberris and get recipes and more!Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dateable-your-insiders-look-into-modern-dating-and-relationships/donationsAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

If they flaked, ghosted, or slow-faded away, do you give them another chance if they come back into your life? Join us this week as we chat about why – or why not –  someone may deserve a second chance. We're discussing what to look for in their words and actions, how you can hold your ground and share your needs, and why the early stages often reveal a lot – but not always everything. Got a dating question you need answered? Hit us up at hello@dateablepodcast.comFollow us @dateablepodcast, @juliekrafchick and @nonplatonic. Check out our website for more content about modern dating. Also listen to our other podcast Exit Interview w/ iHeart Podcasts available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, iHeartRadio, or wherever you get your podcasts.A big thank you to our ad partners:Blueland Cleaning Supplies: Get 15% off your oder at https://blueland.com/DATEABLEQuince: Get free shipping and 365 day returns at https://quince.com/dateableArmoire: Get 50% off your first month of your clothing rental membership, up to $125 off using the code DATEABLE at https://armoire.style/refer/dateable/Osea Malibu: Get 10% off their skincare from the sea at https://oseamalibu.com and use the code DATEABLEBadlands Ranch Dog Food: Learn more about how to improve your dog's health at badlandsfood.com/dateableDone: Turn ADHD into your strength with mental health care made easy: https://get.donefirst.com/podcastVIIA: Get 15% off + one free sample of their sleepy Dreams gummies. (21+) at https://viiahemp.com/ using the code DATEABLEDateable is part of the Frolic Podcast Network. You can find more outstanding podcasts to subscribe to at frolic.media/podcastsWE WROTE A BOOK! HOW TO BE DATEABLE (Simon & Schuster, Jan 2025) is available now: https://howtobedateable.com/ A big thank you to our sponsor Saily by NordVPN: "🌎 Get an exclusive 15% discount on your first Saily data plans! Use code DATEABLE at checkout. Download Saily app or go to to https://saily.com/dateable ⛵"Our Sponsors:* Quince: Go to https://quince.com/dateable for free shipping and 365 day returns. * Washington Red Raspberries: Check out https://redrazz.org to learn about Washington Red Raspberris and get recipes and more!Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dateable-your-insiders-look-into-modern-dating-and-relationships/donationsAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

We're back for another “Quickie” where we’ll share a single idea, theory, or revelation – in 10 minutes or less – that you can take back to your own love life. This week, Julie shares the one quality that's pivotal to look for when you're dating – a foundational trait that you need in a partner in order to have a happy and healthy relationship. Enjoy!Follow us @dateablepodcast, @juliekrafchick and @nonplatonic. Check out our website for more content. Also listen to our other podcast Exit Interview w/ iHeart Podcasts available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, iHeartRadio, or wherever you get your podcasts.This episode is sponsored by:Quince: Get free shipping and 365 day returns at https://quince.com/dateableOsea Malibu: Get 10% off their skincare from the sea at https://oseamalibu.com and use the code DATEABLEBlueland Cleaning Supplies: Get 15% off your oder at https://blueland.com/DATEABLEDateable is part of the Frolic Podcast Network. You can find more outstanding podcasts to subscribe to at frolic.media/podcastsWE WROTE A BOOK! HOW TO BE DATEABLE (Simon & Schuster, Jan 2025) is available now: https://howtobedateable.com/ A big thank you to our sponsor Saily by NordVPN: "🌎 Get an exclusive 15% discount on your first Saily data plans! Use code DATEABLE at checkout. Download Saily app or go to to https://saily.com/dateable ⛵"Our Sponsors:* Quince: Go to https://quince.com/dateable for free shipping and 365 day returns. * Washington Red Raspberries: Check out https://redrazz.org to learn about Washington Red Raspberris and get recipes and more!Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dateable-your-insiders-look-into-modern-dating-and-relationships/donationsAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

In today's fast-paced dating world where it's so easy to be distracted, we're diving into how to bring more focus into dating – whether you're diagnosed with ADHD or not. We're also bringing in an expert: Sussan Nwogwugwu, PMHNP to talk about ADHD's impact in dating and relationships. We're discussing the difference of having a short-attention span and ADHD, how you can understand yourself or your partner better on the ADHD spectrum, and strategies to stay more present in texting, dating apps, and our conversations.Follow us @dateablepodcast, @juliekrafchick and @nonplatonic. Check out our website for more content. Also listen to our other podcast Exit Interview w/ iHeart Podcasts available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, iHeartRadio, or wherever you get your podcasts.This episode is sponsored by:Quince: Get free shipping and 365 day returns at https://quince.com/dateableArmoire: Get 50% off your first month of your clothing rental membership, up to $125 off using the code DATEABLE at https://armoire.style/refer/dateable/Osea Malibu: Get 10% off their skincare from the sea at https://oseamalibu.com and use the code DATEABLEBadlands Ranch Dog Food: Learn more about how to improve your dog's health at badlandsfood.com/dateableBlueland Cleaning Supplies: Get 15% off your oder at https://blueland.com/DATEABLEDateable is part of the Frolic Podcast Network. You can find more outstanding podcasts to subscribe to at frolic.media/podcastsWE WROTE A BOOK! HOW TO BE DATEABLE (Simon & Schuster, Jan 2025) is available now: https://howtobedateable.com/ A big thank you to our sponsor Saily by NordVPN: "🌎 Get an exclusive 15% discount on your first Saily data plans! Use code DATEABLE at checkout. Download Saily app or go to to https://saily.com/dateable ⛵"Our Sponsors:* Quince: Go to https://quince.com/dateable for free shipping and 365 day returns. * Washington Red Raspberries: Check out https://redrazz.org to learn about Washington Red Raspberris and get recipes and more!Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dateable-your-insiders-look-into-modern-dating-and-relationships/donationsAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

A debate only this generation would have: should couples be able to check each other's phones freely or is each person entitled to their level of own level of privacy? We're digging into our thoughts as we discuss the motivations for needing to look at your partner's phone in the first place, the benefits and downfalls of giving one another access, and how you can actually discuss with one another what's behind the ask.Got a dating question you need answered? Hit us up at hello@dateablepodcast.comFollow us @dateablepodcast, @juliekrafchick and @nonplatonic. Check out our website for more content about modern dating. Also listen to our other podcast Exit Interview w/ iHeart Podcasts available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, iHeartRadio, or wherever you get your podcasts.This episode is sponsored by:Blueland Cleaning Supplies: Get 15% off your oder at https://blueland.com/DATEABLEArmoire: Get 50% off your first month of your clothing rental membership, up to $125 off using the code DATEABLE at https://armoire.style/refer/dateable/Osea Malibu: Get 10% off their skincare from the sea at https://oseamalibu.com and use the code DATEABLEDone: Turn ADHD into your strength with mental health care made easy: https://get.donefirst.com/podcastBadlands Ranch Dog Food: Learn more about how to improve your dog's health at badlandsfood.com/dateable310 Nutrition: Get 15% off, up to $100 off your first order using the code DATEABLE at https://310nutrition.com/BetterHelp: Get 10% off your first month of online therapy at betterhelp.com/dateable with the code DATEABLEDateable is part of the Frolic Podcast Network. You can find more outstanding podcasts to subscribe to at frolic.media/podcastsWE WROTE A BOOK! HOW TO BE DATEABLE (Simon & Schuster, Jan 2025) is available now: https://howtobedateable.com/ A big thank you to our sponsor Saily by NordVPN: "🌎 Get an exclusive 15% discount on your first Saily data plans! Use code DATEABLE at checkout. Download Saily app or go to to https://saily.com/dateable ⛵"Our Sponsors:* Quince: Go to https://quince.com/dateable for free shipping and 365 day returns. * Washington Red Raspberries: Check out https://redrazz.org to learn about Washington Red Raspberris and get recipes and more!Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dateable-your-insiders-look-into-modern-dating-and-relationships/donationsAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

We're back for another “Quickie” where every other week, we’ll share a single idea, theory, or revelation – in 10 minutes or less – that you can take back to your own love life. This week, Yue is sharing how with all the changes with the eclipse, now is the perfect time to take control and move out all the noise of what has been clouding your path before. Enjoy!Follow us @dateablepodcast, @juliekrafchick and @nonplatonic. Check out our website for more content. Also listen to our other podcast Exit Interview w/ iHeart Podcasts available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, iHeartRadio, or wherever you get your podcasts.This episode is sponsored by:Blueland Cleaning Supplies: Get 15% off your oder at https://blueland.com/DATEABLEDateable is part of the Frolic Podcast Network. You can find more outstanding podcasts to subscribe to at frolic.media/podcastsWE WROTE A BOOK! HOW TO BE DATEABLE (Simon & Schuster, Jan 2025) is available now: https://howtobedateable.com/ A big thank you to our sponsor Saily by NordVPN: "🌎 Get an exclusive 15% discount on your first Saily data plans! Use code DATEABLE at checkout. Download Saily app or go to to https://saily.com/dateable ⛵"Our Sponsors:* Quince: Go to https://quince.com/dateable for free shipping and 365 day returns. * Washington Red Raspberries: Check out https://redrazz.org to learn about Washington Red Raspberris and get recipes and more!Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dateable-your-insiders-look-into-modern-dating-and-relationships/donationsAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Are there universal signals of digital body language? What does your DBL say about you and the way you date? We're chatting with licensed marriage and family therapist Moe Ari about the virtual cues we send in our online communication that are crucial to dating in today's digital world. We're discussing why understanding DBL can help you while dating, how to avoid overanalyzing/ misinterpreting communication, and ways you can strengthen your DBL with anyone you date.Follow Moe @loveoutproud and learn more about his work: https://theemoeari.com/Follow us @dateablepodcast, @juliekrafchick and @nonplatonic. Check out our website for more content. Also listen to our other podcast Exit Interview w/ iHeart Podcasts available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, iHeartRadio, or wherever you get your podcasts.Related Episodes:What's Your Communication StyleLost in Translation This episode is sponsored by:BetterHelp: Get 10% off your first month of online therapy at betterhelp.com/dateable with the code DATEABLEBlueland Cleaning Supplies: Get 15% off your oder at https://blueland.com/DATEABLEArmoire: Get 50% off your first month of your clothing rental membership, up to $125 off using the code DATEABLE at https://armoire.style/refer/dateable/Osea Malibu: Get 10% off their skincare from the sea at https://oseamalibu.com and use the code DATEABLEDone: Turn ADHD into your strength with mental health care made easy: https://get.donefirst.com/podcastBadlands Ranch Dog Food: Learn more about how to improve your dog's health at badlandsfood.com/dateable310 Nutrition: Get 15% off, up to $100 off your first order using the code DATEABLE at https://310nutrition.com/Dateable is part of the Frolic Podcast Network. You can find more outstanding podcasts to subscribe to at frolic.media/podcastsWE WROTE A BOOK! HOW TO BE DATEABLE (Simon & Schuster, Jan 2025) is available now: https://howtobedateable.com/ A big thank you to our sponsor Saily by NordVPN: "🌎 Get an exclusive 15% discount on your first Saily data plans! Use code DATEABLE at checkout. Download Saily app or go to to https://saily.com/dateable ⛵"Our Sponsors:* Quince: Go to https://quince.com/dateable for free shipping and 365 day returns. * Washington Red Raspberries: Check out https://redrazz.org to learn about Washington Red Raspberris and get recipes and more!Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dateable-your-insiders-look-into-modern-dating-and-relationships/donationsAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Nothing is worse than having judgemental friends or family who pick apart every last person you date. In this week's brunch talk, we're discussing how to deal when the people closest to you think the person you're dating isn't "good enough." We're discuss where this type of feedback may come from, why it's important to know what's useful information versus superficial reasons that should be tuned out, and how you can talk your friends and family in a way that asserts your point of view – and stands up for the person you're dating.Got a dating question you need answered? Hit us up at hello@dateablepodcast.comFollow us @dateablepodcast, @juliekrafchick and @nonplatonic. Check out our website for more content about modern dating. Also listen to our other podcast Exit Interview w/ iHeart Podcasts available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, iHeartRadio, or wherever you get your podcasts.This episode is sponsored by:Armoire: Get 50% off your first month of your clothing rental membership, up to $125 off using the code DATEABLE at https://armoire.style/refer/dateable/Osea Malibu: Get 10% off their skincare from the sea at https://oseamalibu.com and use the code DATEABLEDone: Turn ADHD into your strength with mental health care made easy: https://get.donefirst.com/podcastBadlands Ranch Dog Food: Learn more about how to improve your dog's health at badlandsfood.com/dateableFlure Dating App: Try the app Made for Pleasure: https://flure.comDateable is part of the Frolic Podcast Network. You can find more outstanding podcasts to subscribe to at frolic.media/podcastsWE WROTE A BOOK! HOW TO BE DATEABLE (Simon & Schuster, Jan 2025) is available now: https://howtobedateable.com/ A big thank you to our sponsor Saily by NordVPN: "🌎 Get an exclusive 15% discount on your first Saily data plans! Use code DATEABLE at checkout. Download Saily app or go to to https://saily.com/dateable ⛵"Our Sponsors:* Quince: Go to https://quince.com/dateable for free shipping and 365 day returns. * Washington Red Raspberries: Check out https://redrazz.org to learn about Washington Red Raspberris and get recipes and more!Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dateable-your-insiders-look-into-modern-dating-and-relationships/donationsAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Do successful partnerships need more than love? We're told that two people meet, fall in love, and come together as one....but is this model deeply flawed? We're chatting with Dr. Sara Nasserzadeh about her new model for love that she believes is more sustainable for a lifetime together. We're discussing the differences between emergent and submergent partnerships, the 6 ingredients for lasting love, and how you can start thinking about designing your love life, even if you're single. Follow Dr. Sara @dr.saranasserzadeh and learn more about her work at https://www.sara-nasserzadeh.com/. And buy the book 'Love by Design: 6 Ingredients to Build a Lifetime of Love' wherever books are sold Join our Finding Your Person Program! https://www.findingyourperson.com/ Follow us @dateablepodcast, @juliekrafchick and @nonplatonic. Check out our website for more content. Also listen to our other podcast Exit Interview w/ iHeart Podcasts available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, iHeartRadio, or wherever you get your podcasts.Related Episodes:Love Is Not Enough w/ Mark MansonMarriage 101 w/ Dr. Alexandra SolomonWhy We Love w/ Dr. Anna MachinThis episode is sponsored by:Armoire: Get 50% off your first month of your clothing rental membership, up to $125 off using the code DATEABLE at https://armoire.style/refer/dateable/Osea Malibu: Get 10% off their skincare from the sea at https://oseamalibu.com and use the code DATEABLEDone: Turn ADHD into your strength with mental health care made easy: https://get.donefirst.com/podcastBadlands Ranch Dog Food: Learn more about how to improve your dog's health at badlandsfood.com/dateableFlure Dating App: Try the app Made for Pleasure: https://flure.comDateable is part of the Frolic Podcast Network. You can find more outstanding podcasts to subscribe to at frolic.media/podcastsWE WROTE A BOOK! HOW TO BE DATEABLE (Simon & Schuster, Jan 2025) is available now: https://howtobedateable.com/ A big thank you to our sponsor Saily by NordVPN: "🌎 Get an exclusive 15% discount on your first Saily data plans! Use code DATEABLE at checkout. Download Saily app or go to to https://saily.com/dateable ⛵"Our Sponsors:* Quince: Go to https://quince.com/dateable for free shipping and 365 day returns. * Washington Red Raspberries: Check out https://redrazz.org to learn about Washington Red Raspberris and get recipes and more!Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dateable-your-insiders-look-into-modern-dating-and-relationships/donationsAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy