
Calmly Coping
Calmly Coping is the go-to podcast for high-achieving professionals who look like they have it all together—but inside, they’re overthinking, self-doubting, and feeling the weight of constant pressure.
I’m Tati Garcia, a licensed therapist and coach specializing in high-functioning anxiety. I help ambitious professionals break free from the cycle of overworking, overthinking, and never feeling good enough, so you can cultivate confidence, balance, and peace—without sacrificing success.
If you struggle with:
✔ Overanalyzing everything and second-guessing yourself
✔ Feeling stuck in busyness but unsure how to slow down
✔ Putting immense pressure on yourself to always do more
✔ Trouble relaxing, switching off, or setting boundaries
✔ Self-doubt, imposter syndrome, and fear of failure
Then you’re in the right place.
Each bite-sized, evidence-based episode is designed to help you manage anxiety, improve focus and performance, communicate more confidently, and build the inner calm you crave.
New episodes every other week. Hit follow and start breaking free from the anxiety-driven cycle today.
Latest episodes

Jun 12, 2024 • 17min
Morning Routine to Reduce Anxiety & Overwhelm
Your morning can set the tone for the rest of your day. And when you’re feeling anxious and overwhelmed with life, it can be challenging to make time for a morning routine that helps you care for yourself and feel calm, productive, and present. But it doesn’t have to be that way. Here are my top tips to help you craft an ideal morning routine that fits YOUR life and schedule so you can increase calm and clarity while reducing anxiety and overwhelm, especially when you’re somebody who wants to do it all. In this episode, you will learn: My top tips to create a morning routine that helps reduce both anxiety and overwhelm How to feed your mind intentionally in the morning to reduce overwhelm Practical tips to create YOUR ideal morning routine, no matter how busy you are Mentioned in episode: Positive Affirmations for Calm, Relaxation, and Confidence: https://www.becalmwithtati.com/positive-affirmations/ Why Your Need For Control Is Actually A Consequence Of Anxiety: https://www.becalmwithtati.com/control-and-anxiety/ Create A Calming Daily Routine For High-Functioning Anxiety: https://www.becalmwithtati.com/routine-for-high-functioning-anxiety/ ++++++++ Calmly Coping is a self-improvement podcast for high achievers who struggle with high-functioning anxiety to help you feel more calm, balanced, and confident from within. ++++++++ LEARN MORE ABOUT THE CALM & AMBITIOUS MEMBERSHIP: https://www.calmandambitious.com/ (Use code PODCAST for $15 off your first month/year!) SUBMIT A MESSAGE, QUESTION, COMMENT OR SUGGESTION TO THE PODCAST: https://calmlycoping.com/message Want more? WORK WITH ME: My mission is to help you decrease your anxiety, declutter your mind, and say hello to a life of calm and balance. Learn more about my coaching, therapy, and course offerings here: https://becalmwithtati.com/work-with-me JOIN THE CALMLY COPING GROUP: The free supportive community for high-achievers with high-functioning anxiety. Join Today: https://www.facebook.com/groups/CalmlyCoping TAKE THE FREE HIGH-FUNCTIONING ANXIETY QUIZ: http://hfaquiz.com MY FAVORITE TOOLS: Mindfulness Meditation App*: https://mindfulnesscom-partner-program.pxf.io/x97kyd Todoist To-Do List App*: https://get.todoist.io/8e7o0ay8n081 SAY HI ON SOCIAL: Website: https://becalmwithtati.com/ Instagram: https://instagram.com/tatianaglpc LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/tatianaglpc/ Pinterest: https://pinterest.com/tatianaglpc INTRO/OUTRO MUSIC: Rescue Me (Instrumental) by Aussens@iter (c) copyright 2018 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/tobias_weber/57990 Ft: Copperhead DISCLAIMER All content here is for informational purposes only. This content does not replace the professional judgment of your own mental health provider. Please consult a licensed mental health professional for all individual questions and issues. *Links included in these show notes may be affiliate links. This means that I may earn a small commission for purchases made using these links (at no additional cost to you). All products that I share are products I use, love, and recommend.

Jun 5, 2024 • 15min
I Meditated 15 Minutes a Day for 30 Days: Here’s What Happened
I have been meditating for the past 10 years on and off, and it is one of the things that has massively reduced my anxiety and improved my relationship with myself. But, for the past few months or so, I have fallen out of the habit of meditation. Because of that, I created a challenge for myself: meditate for at least 15 minutes for 30 days straight. In this episode, I’ll be sharing my journey, what I learned, and the challenges along the way, in addition to practical tips to help you reap the benefits of meditation in your own life. In this episode, you will learn: 10+ direct benefits I noticed from meditating consistently The challenges I experienced, and the uncomfortable experiences I faced through meditation Practical tips to start your own meditation journey so you can be more present in your life ++++++++ Calmly Coping is a self-improvement podcast for high achievers who struggle with high-functioning anxiety to help you feel more calm, balanced, and confident from within. ++++++++ TRY THE MINDFULNESS.COM APP:* https://calmlycoping.com/mindfulness SUBMIT A MESSAGE, QUESTION, COMMENT OR SUGGESTION TO THE PODCAST: https://calmlycoping.com/message Want more? WORK WITH ME: My mission is to help you decrease your anxiety, declutter your mind, and say hello to a life of calm and balance. Learn more about my coaching, therapy, and course offerings here: https://becalmwithtati.com/work-with-me JOIN THE CALMLY COPING GROUP: The free supportive community for high-achievers with high-functioning anxiety. Join Today: https://www.facebook.com/groups/CalmlyCoping TAKE THE FREE HIGH-FUNCTIONING ANXIETY QUIZ: http://hfaquiz.com MY FAVORITE TOOLS: Mindfulness Meditation App*: https://mindfulnesscom-partner-program.pxf.io/x97kyd Todoist To-Do List App*: https://get.todoist.io/8e7o0ay8n081 SAY HI ON SOCIAL: Website: https://becalmwithtati.com/ Instagram: https://instagram.com/tatianaglpc LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/tatianaglpc/ Pinterest: https://pinterest.com/tatianaglpc INTRO/OUTRO MUSIC: Rescue Me (Instrumental) by Aussens@iter (c) copyright 2018 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/tobias_weber/57990 Ft: Copperhead DISCLAIMER All content here is for informational purposes only. This content does not replace the professional judgment of your own mental health provider. Please consult a licensed mental health professional for all individual questions and issues. *Links included in these show notes may be affiliate links. This means that I may earn a small commission for purchases made using these links (at no additional cost to you). All products that I share are products I use, love, and recommend.

May 29, 2024 • 13min
How to Deal with Difficult Coworkers
Exploring how to deal with difficult coworkers, this podcast provides actionable steps, mindset shifts, and emotional wellness practices. Strategies for handling conflicts, setting boundaries, and managing stress effectively are discussed. Learn to navigate challenging interactions with empathy, kindness, and emotional wellness for a harmonious work environment.

May 22, 2024 • 8min
Transform From Overwhelmed to Calm and Happy
It’s possible to transform from feeling overwhelmed with work and never having time to relax or for your personal life (including hobbies, relationships, etc.) to feeling calmer from within and having more time and energy for the things and people you love most. And it doesn’t require quitting your job or making huge external changes. These changes can occur from the inside out, and today I’ll share a case study of a student of mine who made this exact transformation, and how they did it. In this episode, you will learn: The step-by-step process to go from feeling overwhelmed with work to feeling calm, balanced, and confident How my student went through this process The positive impacts of taking time for self-improvement and inside-out transformation ++++++++ Calmly Coping is a self-improvement podcast for high achievers who struggle with high-functioning anxiety to help you feel more calm, balanced, and confident from within. ++++++++ ENROLL IN CALM, BALANCED, & CONFIDENT: https://www.becalmwithtati.com/calm-balanced-confident/ SUBMIT A MESSAGE, QUESTION, COMMENT OR SUGGESTION TO THE PODCAST: https://calmlycoping.com/message Want more? WORK WITH ME: My mission is to help you decrease your anxiety, declutter your mind, and say hello to a life of calm and balance. Learn more about my coaching, therapy, and course offerings here: https://becalmwithtati.com/work-with-me JOIN THE CALMLY COPING GROUP: The free supportive community for high-achievers with high-functioning anxiety. Join Today: https://www.facebook.com/groups/CalmlyCoping TAKE THE FREE HIGH-FUNCTIONING ANXIETY QUIZ: http://hfaquiz.com MY FAVORITE TOOLS: Mindfulness Meditation App*: https://mindfulnesscom-partner-program.pxf.io/x97kyd Todoist To-Do List App*: https://get.todoist.io/8e7o0ay8n081 SAY HI ON SOCIAL: Website: https://becalmwithtati.com/ Instagram: https://instagram.com/tatianaglpc LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/tatianaglpc/ Pinterest: https://pinterest.com/tatianaglpc INTRO/OUTRO MUSIC: Rescue Me (Instrumental) by Aussens@iter (c) copyright 2018 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/tobias_weber/57990 Ft: Copperhead DISCLAIMER All content here is for informational purposes only. This content does not replace the professional judgment of your own mental health provider. Please consult a licensed mental health professional for all individual questions and issues. *Links included in these show notes may be affiliate links. This means that I may earn a small commission for purchases made using these links (at no additional cost to you). All products that I share are products I use, love, and recommend.

May 15, 2024 • 14min
The Truth Behind Why You’re Overwhelmed
Are you feeling inundated with to-do list tasks, responsibilities, and an incessantly busy schedule? It might feel like you never have time for yourself, and when you do have time, your mind is endlessly swirling with worries, overwhelming emotions, and more. It is possible to get a break from the incessant overwhelm you feel, and in this episode where going to explore the truth behind WHY you’re overwhelmed so you can begin your journey toward calm and clarity. In this episode, you will learn: Why we are feeling overwhelmed more than ever (even though things have become easier in many ways) The cycle of overwhelm and how to get out of it 3 steps to get to the root of your overwhelm and let it go ++++++++ Calmly Coping is a self-improvement podcast for high achievers who struggle with high-functioning anxiety to help you feel more calm, balanced, and confident from within. ++++++++ WATCH THE FREE TRAINING: ACHIEVE A CALM MIND, BALANCED LIFE, AND UNSHAKABLE CONFIDENCE IN 90 DAYS: FOR HIGH-ACHIEVING PROFESSIONALS: https://calmlycoping.com/workshop SUBMIT A MESSAGE, QUESTION, COMMENT OR SUGGESTION TO THE PODCAST: https://calmlycoping.com/message Want more? WORK WITH ME: My mission is to help you decrease your anxiety, declutter your mind, and say hello to a life of calm and balance. Learn more about my coaching, therapy, and course offerings here: https://becalmwithtati.com/work-with-me JOIN THE CALMLY COPING GROUP: The free supportive community for high-achievers with high-functioning anxiety. Join Today: https://www.facebook.com/groups/CalmlyCoping TAKE THE FREE HIGH-FUNCTIONING ANXIETY QUIZ: http://hfaquiz.com MY FAVORITE TOOLS: Mindfulness Meditation App*: https://mindfulnesscom-partner-program.pxf.io/x97kyd Todoist To-Do List App*: https://get.todoist.io/8e7o0ay8n081 SAY HI ON SOCIAL: Website: https://becalmwithtati.com/ Instagram: https://instagram.com/tatianaglpc LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/tatianaglpc/ Pinterest: https://pinterest.com/tatianaglpc INTRO/OUTRO MUSIC: Rescue Me (Instrumental) by Aussens@iter (c) copyright 2018 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/tobias_weber/57990 Ft: Copperhead DISCLAIMER All content here is for informational purposes only. This content does not replace the professional judgment of your own mental health provider. Please consult a licensed mental health professional for all individual questions and issues. *Links included in these show notes may be affiliate links. This means that I may earn a small commission for purchases made using these links (at no additional cost to you). All products that I share are products I use, love, and recommend.

May 8, 2024 • 16min
How to Relax (Without Feeling Like You’re Dropping the Ball)
Explore the struggle of finding balance between relaxation and productivity, tackling societal pressures and guilt around taking breaks. Learn practical strategies for enhancing creativity through relaxation and prioritizing self-care without guilt. Discover the importance of setting boundaries and enjoying downtime guilt-free for rejuvenation.

May 1, 2024 • 14min
Stop Being So Hard On Yourself
STOP being so hard on yourself. I know that you think that being hard on yourself is helping you to get things done and is what you need to do in order to accomplish things. However, it's oftentimes the opposite of that. And even if you recognize that being hard on yourself isn't helping you, it can really be hard to get out of that pattern. In this episode, I share more about the reasons underlying being hard on yourself along with what you can do about it. So today I'm going to talk about what happens, why you've become so hard on yourself and what you can do about it. In this episode, you will learn: Why you’re so hard on yourself The negative consequences of being hard on yourself (and what to do about it) How you can transform your relationship with yourself to be kinder, more compassionate, and supportive— without dropping the ball ++++++++ Calmly Coping is a self-improvement podcast for high achievers who struggle with high-functioning anxiety to help you feel more calm, balanced, and confident from within. ++++++++ WATCH THE FREE TRAINING: HOW TO CREATE WORK-LIFE BALANCE AND FEEL CALMER AS A HIGH-ACHIEVING PROFESSIONAL: https://calmlycoping.com/workshop SUBMIT A MESSAGE, QUESTION, COMMENT OR SUGGESTION TO THE PODCAST: https://calmlycoping.com/message Want more? WORK WITH ME: My mission is to help you decrease your anxiety, declutter your mind, and say hello to a life of calm and balance. Learn more about my coaching, therapy, and course offerings here: https://becalmwithtati.com/work-with-me JOIN THE CALMLY COPING GROUP: The free supportive community for high-achievers with high-functioning anxiety. Join Today: https://www.facebook.com/groups/CalmlyCoping TAKE THE FREE HIGH-FUNCTIONING ANXIETY QUIZ: http://hfaquiz.com MY FAVORITE TOOLS: Mindfulness Meditation App*: https://mindfulnesscom-partner-program.pxf.io/x97kyd Todoist To-Do List App*: https://get.todoist.io/8e7o0ay8n081 SAY HI ON SOCIAL: Website: https://becalmwithtati.com/ Instagram: https://instagram.com/tatianaglpc LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/tatianaglpc/ Pinterest: https://pinterest.com/tatianaglpc INTRO/OUTRO MUSIC: Rescue Me (Instrumental) by Aussens@iter (c) copyright 2018 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/tobias_weber/57990 Ft: Copperhead DISCLAIMER All content here is for informational purposes only. This content does not replace the professional judgment of your own mental health provider. Please consult a licensed mental health professional for all individual questions and issues. *Links included in these show notes may be affiliate links. This means that I may earn a small commission for purchases made using these links (at no additional cost to you). All products that I share are products I use, love, and recommend.

Apr 24, 2024 • 21min
How to Handle Anxiety When Managing Employees
Managing employees can be both rewarding and difficult; it can be difficult to set expectations, manage team performance, and make tough decisions under pressure, all while managing your own workload and responsibilities. This can lead to heightened anxiety and stress as a leader. In today’s episode, we're focusing on how to navigate these challenges with practical strategies. From recognizing your triggers to building resilience, we'll explore managing anxiety while maintaining effective leadership. In this episode, you will learn: The unique challenges of managing employees and how that can trigger anxiety Actionable strategies to decrease anxiety as a leader How to implement an effective and positive management style ++++++++ Calmly Coping is a self-improvement podcast for high achievers who struggle with high-functioning anxiety to help you feel more calm, balanced, and confident from within. ++++++++ WATCH THE FREE TRAINING: HOW TO CREATE WORK-LIFE BALANCE AND FEEL CALMER AS A HIGH-ACHIEVING PROFESSIONAL: https://calmlycoping.com/workshop SUBMIT A MESSAGE, QUESTION, COMMENT OR SUGGESTION TO THE PODCAST: https://calmlycoping.com/message Want more? WORK WITH ME: My mission is to help you decrease your anxiety, declutter your mind, and say hello to a life of calm and balance. Learn more about my coaching, therapy, and course offerings here: https://becalmwithtati.com/work-with-me JOIN THE CALMLY COPING GROUP: The free supportive community for high-achievers with high-functioning anxiety. Join Today: https://www.facebook.com/groups/CalmlyCoping TAKE THE FREE HIGH-FUNCTIONING ANXIETY QUIZ: http://hfaquiz.com MY FAVORITE TOOLS: Mindfulness Meditation App*: https://mindfulnesscom-partner-program.pxf.io/x97kyd Todoist To-Do List App*: https://get.todoist.io/8e7o0ay8n081 SAY HI ON SOCIAL: Website: https://becalmwithtati.com/ Instagram: https://instagram.com/tatianaglpc LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/tatianaglpc/ Pinterest: https://pinterest.com/tatianaglpc INTRO/OUTRO MUSIC: Rescue Me (Instrumental) by Aussens@iter (c) copyright 2018 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/tobias_weber/57990 Ft: Copperhead DISCLAIMER All content here is for informational purposes only. This content does not replace the professional judgment of your own mental health provider. Please consult a licensed mental health professional for all individual questions and issues. *Links included in these show notes may be affiliate links. This means that I may earn a small commission for purchases made using these links (at no additional cost to you). All products that I share are products I use, love, and recommend.

Apr 17, 2024 • 16min
Overcoming the Fear of Failure
Feeling like the fear of failure is constantly whispering in your ear, telling you you're not good enough or that you're bound to fail? This fear can lead to anxiety, procrastination, and a desire to push yourself too hard or self-sabotage when taking steps towards your goals. In today’s episode, we're diving into this fear that holds us back, and I'm here to share some comforting words and practical steps to help you kick that fear to the curb. Let's dive into this together and find our calm in the face of failure. In this episode, you will learn: What the fear of failure is, and what drives it How the fear of failure impacts high-achievers 3 tips to help you overcome the fear of failure and build inner confidence ++++++++ Calmly Coping is a self-improvement podcast for high achievers who struggle with high-functioning anxiety to help you feel more calm, balanced, and confident from within. ++++++++ SUBMIT A MESSAGE, QUESTION, COMMENT OR SUGGESTION TO THE PODCAST: https://calmlycoping.com/message Want more? WORK WITH ME: My mission is to help you decrease your anxiety, declutter your mind, and say hello to a life of calm and balance. Learn more about my coaching, therapy, and course offerings here: https://becalmwithtati.com/work-with-me JOIN THE CALMLY COPING GROUP: The free supportive community for high-achievers with high-functioning anxiety. Join Today: https://www.facebook.com/groups/CalmlyCoping TAKE THE FREE HIGH-FUNCTIONING ANXIETY QUIZ: http://hfaquiz.com MY FAVORITE TOOLS: Mindfulness Meditation App*: https://mindfulnesscom-partner-program.pxf.io/x97kyd Todoist To-Do List App*: https://get.todoist.io/8e7o0ay8n081 SAY HI ON SOCIAL: Website: https://becalmwithtati.com/ Instagram: https://instagram.com/tatianaglpc LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/tatianaglpc/ Pinterest: https://pinterest.com/tatianaglpc INTRO/OUTRO MUSIC: Rescue Me (Instrumental) by Aussens@iter (c) copyright 2018 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/tobias_weber/57990 Ft: Copperhead DISCLAIMER All content here is for informational purposes only. This content does not replace the professional judgment of your own mental health provider. Please consult a licensed mental health professional for all individual questions and issues. *Links included in these show notes may be affiliate links. This means that I may earn a small commission for purchases made using these links (at no additional cost to you). All products that I share are products I use, love, and recommend.

Apr 3, 2024 • 11min
5-Minute Trick to Calm Anxious Thoughts
Do you ever find yourself caught in a whirlwind of worst-case scenario thoughts that seem to spiral out of control, especially when you're trying to focus or relax? It's like your mind is speeding on a track of worries, doubts, and what-ifs, making it hard to catch your breath or find peace. If this sounds familiar, you're not alone, and today's episode is just for you. We're going to explore a simple yet powerful technique that can bring a sense of calm to your thoughts in just five minutes. Whether you're at work, home, or anywhere in between, this trick is your secret weapon against the chaos of anxiety. In this episode, you will learn: How to find the middle ground between anxiety-filled thoughts and avoidance/toxic positivity My simple 5-minute trick to calm your anxious thoughts and give you a sense of control The underlying secret to coping with anxiety ++++++++ Calmly Coping is a self-improvement podcast for high achievers who struggle with high-functioning anxiety to help you feel more calm, balanced, and confident from within. ++++++++ DOWNLOAD THE CALM ANXIOUS THOUGHTS SPREADSHEET: http://calmlycoping.com/thoughts LEARN MORE ABOUT THE CALM & AMBITIOUS MEMBERSHIP: https://www.calmandambitious.com/ Want more? WORK WITH ME: My mission is to help you decrease your anxiety, declutter your mind, and say hello to a life of calm and balance. Learn more about my coaching, therapy, and course offerings here: https://becalmwithtati.com/work-with-me JOIN THE CALMLY COPING GROUP: The free supportive community for high-achievers with high-functioning anxiety. Join Today: https://www.facebook.com/groups/CalmlyCoping TAKE THE FREE HIGH-FUNCTIONING ANXIETY QUIZ: http://hfaquiz.com MY FAVORITE TOOLS: Mindfulness Meditation App*: https://mindfulnesscom-partner-program.pxf.io/x97kyd Todoist To-Do List App*: https://get.todoist.io/8e7o0ay8n081 SAY HI ON SOCIAL: Website: https://becalmwithtati.com/ Instagram: https://instagram.com/tatianaglpc LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/tatianaglpc/ Pinterest: https://pinterest.com/tatianaglpc INTRO/OUTRO MUSIC: Rescue Me (Instrumental) by Aussens@iter (c) copyright 2018 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/tobias_weber/57990 Ft: Copperhead DISCLAIMER All content here is for informational purposes only. This content does not replace the professional judgment of your own mental health provider. Please consult a licensed mental health professional for all individual questions and issues. *Links included in these show notes may be affiliate links. This means that I may earn a small commission for purchases made using these links (at no additional cost to you). All products that I share are products I use, love, and recommend.