The New Age Sage Podcast

In this episode, I’m diving into one of the most misunderstood truths about love: neediness isn’t weakness — it’s misdirected truth.For most of my life, I thought having needs made me unlovable. So I hid them, twisted them, performed around them. But every time I chased validation, pulled away to get closer, or fished for love in subtle ways... I wasn’t being needy. I was being unseen — mostly by myself.This episode is a raw exploration of what happens when we stop apologizing for our emotional needs and start owning them without shame. I unpack how unspoken needs become manipulation, how childhood wounds shape adult relationships, and why expressing what you really want is the most courageous thing you can do in love.If you’ve ever felt too much for wanting closeness — or not enough when you need space — this conversation will show you the path to intimacy that actually heals.———————Please like, comment, and subscribe if this episode resonates with you. I'd love to hear your thoughts in the comments below!

In this episode, I’m pulling back the curtain on one of the most seductive lies in the spiritual and dating space: the idea that you need to “be more feminine” or “more masculine” to attract real love.I used to believe it too. I studied the books, practiced the polarity scripts, tried to become the perfect masculine man. But the more I performed, the emptier I felt. Until I realized: the real reason it wasn’t working wasn’t because I wasn’t doing it right. It’s because I wasn’t being me.This episode is a raw, unfiltered reflection on how sexual polarity has become another spiritual costume. I share the truth I’ve lived into: that love doesn’t come when we master roles — it comes when we drop them.If you’ve ever felt like you had to become someone else to be loved... this episode will bring you home to yourself.———————Please like, comment, and subscribe if this episode resonates with you. I'd love to hear your thoughts in the comments below!

In this episode, I go deeper than I ever have. I finally uncovered the root cause behind why we keep attracting the same partners and repeating the same pain, no matter how much trauma work or therapy we do. It's not just about childhood wounds or inner child stories.It's about the illusion of identity itself. I share how I broke free from the ego, what it means to become pure awareness, and how realizing "I am nobody" changed everything in love, in life, and in how I see the world.If you’re tired of chasing healing but still attracting chaos, this is the truth you’ve been waiting for.———————00:00 - Intro01:01 - Why therapy awareness alone doesn’t heal you03:34 - The energetic pattern behind failed relationships06:49 - The ego is the character you believe is real09:32 - Consciousness is the blank screen behind the story12:19 - You are not real, only awareness is13:52 - The ego creates your karma16:00 - Escaping the matrix means realizing you don’t exist18:37 - Karma dies when you realize there’s no you21:04 - What it means to become God22:20 - Silence is louder than thoughts23:38 - Becoming divine changes how you treat others25:14 - Psychedelics show the ego is not real26:56 - Why depression is just a story28:25 - The ego can’t survive in the present moment30:02 - Burn karma by staying in the now33:07 - Even sparring is a mirror of unity35:34 - Why empathy is telepathy36:43 - Give grace a chance38:35 - The ego is the devil, awareness is the light40:49 - You are God, when you stop adding stories46:14 - Final thoughts———————Please like, comment, and subscribe if this episode resonates with you. I'd love to hear your thoughts in the comments below!Lucas Salame: www.instagram.com/lucas__salame/ | https://www.new-age-sage.com

In this episode, I break down why I believe the highest form of love requires sobriety.I explore how alcohol and drugs don’t just numb pain, they block us from healing the trauma that keeps us separate from love.I share my own journey through addiction, the illusions it fed, and why real love only became possible when I stopped running from myself.This is a deep, controversial, and honest reflection on what it means to be fully available for love, with nothing to hide behind.———————00:00 - Intro01:01 - Why the highest love demands sobriety03:26 - Alcohol as the silent killer of relationships05:13 - What love really is: unity, not a feeling07:16 - Mental stories that separate us from love08:38 - My abandonment trauma & anxious thinking12:22 - Karma is just recycled thinking13:52 - How to find peace from the mind15:13 - Addiction is spiritual avoidance16:23 - My years of drug-fueled identity20:48 - What makes a man truly safe in love24:38 - Suppressed trauma becomes abuse27:29 - You can’t unify while numbing30:29 - Why alcohol is a portal for darkness33:17 - Spiritual possession & blackout behavior36:22 - Our culture is possessed too37:40 - The illusion of “harmless” weed40:03 - If you take Adderall, you're a crackhead42:06 - Psychedelics won't get you to heaven46:58 - Why sober couples grow faster56:36 - Final thoughts———————Please like, comment, and subscribe if this episode resonates with you. I'd love to hear your thoughts in the comments below!Lucas Salame: www.instagram.com/lucas__salame/ | https://www.new-age-sage.com

In this episode, I share what I’ve learned since entering deep partnership with my soulmate. I no longer believe love is just a feeling, it’s a consciousness. A force that unifies.I explore how conflict, judgment, and the need to be right create separation, and why real love lives in our willingness to understand rather than control.This is the most honest I’ve ever been about what it means to truly love and be loved. It’s also the first time I’ve had to face how often my own mind gets in the way of the love I say I want.———————00:00 - Intro01:19 - I found the love I always dreamed of03:33 - Love is not a feeling, it’s a consciousness06:04 - Why arguing means separation, not love08:14 - What is the consciousness of love?10:10 - Right and wrong are the enemy of unity11:41 - Feelings are facts: perception vs truth13:02 - The true test is how fast you repair15:00 - The golf cart fight in Hawaii19:15 - Conscious space versus separation23:48 - Unify before the next argument begins25:50 - The heart accepts, the mind fixes30:36 - The mind invents problems out of peace32:11 - Surrendering the mind’s addiction to control34:17 - You can’t change your partner34:40 - Judgment separates, understanding unites37:18 - What is vampire consciousness?40:14 - Fearful thoughts are the vampire’s invitation43:23 - Cast out darkness with devotion to love48:57 - The heart loves, the mind suffers50:59 - Final thoughts———————Please like, comment, and subscribe if this episode resonates with you. I'd love to hear your thoughts in the comments below!Lucas Salame: www.instagram.com/lucas__salame/ | https://www.new-age-sage.com 

Have you been told to “stop looking for love and it’ll find you”?In this episode of The New Age Sage, I tear apart one of the most misleading pieces of dating advice out there — and show you the truth about what it really takes to call in the highest form of love. From clearing out low-frequency habits to detoxing your friend circle and healing unconscious patterns, I break down the spiritual and practical work required to attract a partner who actually matches your vision.If you’re done waiting around and ready to become the version of yourself your dream partner is already searching for, this episode is your wake-up call.———————00:00 - Intro03:08 - Becoming the frequency of your highest love06:07 - You can’t manifest without action08:19 - Your North Star and the law of frequency12:42 - Decluttering to attract the right partner14:20 - How your friends affect your frequency21:22 - Health and wellness as a love frequency25:56 - Alcohol, the demonic, and spiritual hijacking32:21 - Three realizations before meeting your soulmate33:38 - Going back to an ex resets your healing37:43 - Sex as an energy exchange and energetic possession43:32 - Say no to anyone who doesn’t match your dream partner45:33 - You must become the person you want to attract49:05 - How real self-worth is built52:05 - Final thoughts———————Please like, comment, and subscribe if this episode resonates with you. I'd love to hear your thoughts in the comments below!Lucas Salame: www.instagram.com/lucas__salame/ | https://www.new-age-sage.com 

Are you calling it love… but deep down, you know you’re settling?In this episode of The New Age Sage, I break down the unconscious fears, wounds, and conditioning that keep powerful women stuck in relationships that drain their light. From the terror of being alone to the belief that “he’s good enough,” these hidden patterns convince you to stay — even when your soul knows it’s time to go.Whether you’re in a long-term relationship, a situationship, or just questioning your standards… this episode will help you get radically honest with yourself, recognize the truth of your dynamic, and finally choose a love that matches your power.———————00:00 - Intro01:02 - Why women settle for less than they deserve03:10 - Cozy complacency versus true love06:38 - What settling actually means08:10 - Being with someone who dims your light10:34 - When one partner grows and the other stays the same14:42 - The trap of loyalty to the past version of someone19:01 - Enough is enough: stop justifying mediocre love22:10 - Why settling is never worth it23:51 - My grandmother’s brave story of leaving after 55 years28:15 - Leaving can transform your entire life30:23 - Settling means saying no to your highest love32:15 - My partner found me because she refused to settle33:07 - How to find the courage to leave35:21 - You are strong enough to be alone38:48 - Society’s guilt trap around divorce and breakups41:04 - He gave up on you first43:23 - In love, you attract what you are44:08 - Don’t settle for a love you wouldn’t want for your kids45:19 - Final thoughts———————Please like, comment, and subscribe if this episode resonates with you. I'd love to hear your thoughts in the comments below!Lucas Salame: www.instagram.com/lucas__salame/ | https://www.new-age-sage.com 

Are you wearing rose-colored glasses that are distorting your ability to see people clearly?In this episode of The New Age Sage, I uncover the hidden traumas and attachment wounds that keep you blind to red flags, addicted to chaos, and stuck in cycles of love that drain your soul. Whether it's anxious attachment, fear of being alone, or the belief you can fix someone, these unconscious patterns shape who you attract and what you tolerate.If you’re tired of mistaking red flags for connection and calling it love, this episode will show you how to take the glasses off, see with truth, and finally choose relationships rooted in wholeness.———————00:00 - Intro00:40 - The terror of being alone06:07 - Brokenness and the belief in a missing piece12:43 - My anxious attachment20:02 - Narcissists and love bombing26:08 - Visualizing the cost of chasing the wrong person30:21 - Romantic trauma is the final boss33:36 - Being a fixer is a red flag in disguise37:00 - Avoidant terror of intimacy43:04 - Being addicted to changing someone50:01 - Women who believe they can't provide54:35 - Final thoughts———————Please like, comment, and subscribe if this episode resonates with you. I'd love to hear your thoughts in the comments below!Lucas Salame: www.instagram.com/lucas__salame/ | https://www.new-age-sage.com

Some women shine. Until love asks them to shrink.In this episode, I sit down with Madelyn Moon to explore why powerful, radiant women often lose themselves in relationships. We break down the subtle ways the feminine shape-shifts to feel safe, wanted, and loved, even when no one asks her to.We talk about what happens when you start hiding your “too much,” the danger of choosing partners who can’t hold your fullness, and how to reclaim the parts of you that got buried to keep the peace.We get into primal safety, embodied expression, jealousy, rage, softness, and why the feminine isn’t meant to be polite. It’s meant to be free.If you’ve ever felt like you had to tone yourself down to be loved, this episode is your reminder. The right love doesn’t want less of you. It wants all of you.———————00:00 - Intro01:21 - Why women lose their light in relationships07:31 - Navigating need, anger and the fear of being unlovable15:10 - How control and disembodiment show up in women25:48 - Reclaiming feminine energy through shadow and jealousy31:30 - Masculine grounding versus feminine chaos38:51 - Submissiveness, intuition and working together43:14 - Wiggly men, nervous systems and sexual aftercare50:09 - How women change after sex and what needs to be clear57:08 - Is polarity too rigid or just misunderstood?1:02:50 - How a man can handle a woman’s bitchy side1:05:23 - Revealing core wounds with elegance1:09:28 - The hot versus unhot expression of need1:13:45 - What healthy feminine vulnerability looks like1:20:17 - From fear to devotion: the impact of masculine leadership1:29:30 - Being met emotionally versus being managed1:36:05 - What makes a woman feel deeply chosen1:39:00 - Final thoughts———————Please like, comment, and subscribe if this episode resonates with you. I'd love to hear your thoughts in the comments below!Lucas Salame: www.instagram.com/lucas__salame/ | https://www.new-age-sage.com

In this week’s episode, we're shaking things up with a raw, unfiltered Q&A session on dating and relationships. Instead of my usual deep dives into philosophy and collective consciousness, I put out a call on Instagram for your most pressing relationship questions. From navigating dating apps and spotting a quality man to understanding the psychology behind attraction, infidelity, and emotional availability, I tackle it all with realness and depth.Whether you’re single, dating, or in a relationship, this episode is packed with truths that will challenge your perspective and help you step into deeper self-awareness and intentionality in love.———————00:00 - Intro02:23 - How do I find a quality man on dating apps?13:16 - Who pays on the first date and why it matters?17:04 - What are the ups and downs of dating with no intention of relationship?20:58 - Can a relationship be repaired after one was unfaithful?25:26 - How do I find someone with a similar level of emotional intelligence as me?28:45 - How do you stop thinking about your ex?34:51 - How long should a woman wait to sleep with a man she likes?39:39 - Why do people say "it's not you, it's me" and end the relationship?43:24 - What is your take on homosexuality?48:09 - How do I spot a good man instantly and how I know he's in his healthy masculine?52:10 - How do I attract an emotionally available masculine man?54:37 - What do you do when your spiritual guidance and intuition is different from what analytical mind coaches advise?58:59 - Final thoughts———————Please like, comment, and subscribe if this episode resonates with you. I'd love to hear your thoughts in the comments below!Lucas Salame: www.instagram.com/lucas__salame/ | https://www.new-age-sage.com