The New Age Sage Podcast

What makes a man commit? In this solo episode, I’m breaking down the uncomfortable truths about modern dating dynamics and why men are often hesitant to take the leap. Spoiler: it’s not just about them—it’s about you too.I dive deep into what high-quality men look for in a partner, why leadership doesn’t mean control, and how vulnerability is the ultimate feminine power. From understanding the importance of communication to embodying confidence without sacrificing connection, this episode is packed with insights to help you attract and keep the partner you desire.If you’ve ever felt stuck in your dating life and wondered how to create the kind of relationship you truly want, this episode will give you the clarity and tools to move forward.———————00:00 - Intro02:15 - The male obsession with freedom and status06:42 - What good men actually look for in a woman11:04 - How vulnerability is the ultimate feminine power15:36 - Why communication matters more than you think20:12 - The difference between leadership and control in relationships26:08 - How modern dating dynamics undermine connection31:22 - The role of health and discipline in attracting commitment36:17 - Confidence, boundaries, and their impact on relationships41:04 - Feminine energy and its role in the family unit46:33 - How ambition affects modern relationships52:49 - Why self-awareness is the key to lasting love1:00:18 - Closing thoughts———————Please like, comment, and subscribe if this episode resonates with you. I'd love to hear your thoughts in the comments below!Lucas Salame: www.instagram.com/lucas__salame/ | https://www.new-age-sage.com

In this powerful episode of The New Age Sage, I welcome back my soul brother Alex Wolfe, one of our most popular guests and a true master of plant medicine and personal transformation. Alex dives deep into modern men's challenges in love and relationships, revealing why so many are disconnected from their true essence and stuck in cycles of ego-driven behavior. Alex shares his journey of awakening, from chasing superficial success and seduction to discovering the transformative power of mushrooms and right-brain creativity. We unpack how society’s conditioning traps men in left-brain thinking, the danger of outsourcing love, and the importance of becoming the “One” for yourself before attracting a partner who matches your energy. ——————— 00:00 - Intro: Reflecting the divine in relationships 01:18 - Alex Wolfe returns: From plant medicine to the divine masculine 03:48 - Artificial intelligence vs. organic intelligence 05:30 - Breaking free from left-brain limitations 08:06 - The masculine urge to outsource emotions 10:35 - From chasing love to becoming the source of love 12:14 - The lesson of dating a celebrity dream crush 17:03 - How to differentiate divine gifts from ego-driven temptations 20:29 - Facing pain: The key to unlocking growth 24:44 - Why heartbreak is the ultimate teacher 29:33 - Healing self-limiting beliefs in love and life 34:07 - The complexity of human relationships 38:07 - Overcoming the need for immediate gratification 42:52 - What women should know about “the game” 47:19 - The shift from manipulation to spiritual alignment 51:08 - Building an internal kingdom of integrity 56:29 - Staying humble amidst success ——————— Please like, comment, and subscribe if this episode resonates with you. I'd love to hear your thoughts in the comments below!Lucas Salame: www.instagram.com/lucas__salame/ | https://www.new-age-sage.com

Polyamory—modern enlightenment or just another excuse to avoid real commitment? In this solo episode of The New Age Sage, I’m diving headfirst into one of today's most controversial relationship topics.I’m breaking down the arguments for polyamory, from the claim that monogamy is just a “social construct” to the idea that love is all about freedom. Then, I’m tearing them apart, showing why sacrifice, devotion, and depth are what actually make love thrive—not chasing every fleeting desire.If you’ve ever wondered what open relationships are really doing to intimacy, masculinity, and even society, this episode will challenge everything you think you know about connection and commitment.———————Please like, comment, and subscribe if this episode resonates with you. I'd love to hear your thoughts in the comments below!Lucas Salame: www.instagram.com/lucas__salame/ | https://www.new-age-sage.com

Hey everyone! Welcome back to another episode of The New Age Sage Podcast. In this episode, I’m joined by the incredible Julie Ryan—a powerhouse who’s redefined what it means to blend the pragmatic with the mystical. From inventing surgical devices to becoming a medical intuitive and psychic medium, Julie’s journey is nothing short of mind-blowing. We’re unpacking big questions: Are the major events in our lives predestined? How do free will and fear shape our experience here? And what does it really mean to connect with spirit? Julie shares her tools for navigating fear (hint: the two-minute rule is a game-changer), her take on karmic cycles, and how to harness divine guidance to unlock the next step on your path. This episode is for anyone who’s ever felt stuck, questioned their purpose, or wondered if there’s a deeper design to the chaos of life. Julie’s wisdom will challenge you to look beyond the limits of the rational mind and embrace a perspective that’s as expansive as the universe itself. ——————— 00:00 - Intro 02:05 - Julie’s Journey: From Entrepreneur to Psychic Medium 05:30 - The Mechanics of Spirit Frequencies 08:45 - How to Communicate with Angels and Loved Ones 14:20 - Breaking Down Psychic Myths: It’s Not a Superpower 20:10 - Practical Tools for Tuning Into Spirit 26:55 - Using Dreams to Access Guidance and Healing 33:40 - Transforming Grief Through Connection 40:15 - Angelic Guidance and Free Will 45:30 - How Spirit Helps Us Navigate Fear and Doubt 50:22 - Final Thoughts on Living a Spiritually Guided Life ——————— Please like, comment, and subscribe if this episode resonates with you. I'd love to hear your thoughts in the comments below! Lucas Salame: www.instagram.com/lucas__salame/ | https://www.new-age-sage.com

Why do so many women sabotage relationships just when things are going great? In this episode, I’m breaking down the truth about self-sabotage. It’s not a mistake—it’s a subconscious test, a way for the feminine to uncover if a man can truly handle her in all her wildness and depth. Using Jungian psychology, I’ll explain why these patterns aren’t random. They’re a way of finding safety, of asking: Can he hold space for all of me, or will he fold when things get real? If you’ve ever felt misunderstood or chaotic in dating—or if you’re a man wondering why she suddenly “went crazy”—this episode will give you the clarity you didn’t know you needed. ——————— 00:00 - Intro 02:01 - Why women self-sabotage in early-stage relationships 04:30 - The archetype of the self in Jungian psychology 08:15 - Understanding the divine wisdom in self-sabotage 12:00 - Why women test their partners (unconsciously and consciously) 16:45 - Mythology and rom-coms: Lessons in the feminine journey 20:39 - How men can hold space for a woman’s full expression 25:12 - The shadow feminine vs. the healed feminine 30:15 - Practical tips for conscious communication in dating 36:00 - For men: How to handle chaos without losing your center 42:05 - Building trust and emotional safety in relationships 48:00 - Why self-sabotage is ultimately about self-trust ——————— Please like, comment, and subscribe if this episode resonates with you. I'd love to hear your thoughts in the comments below! Lucas Salame: www.instagram.com/lucas__salame/ | https://www.new-age-sage.com

Welcome back to The New Age Sage! In this episode, we’re diving into the truth about finding your dream man—and why it all starts with you. If you’ve ever felt frustrated about attracting the wrong partners or wondered why your dream relationship feels out of reach, this episode will challenge you to look inward and take control of your love life. This isn’t about shaming or blaming—it’s about empowering you to transform your singlehood into a time of growth and self-discovery. When you become the partner you’re seeking, you’ll align with someone who matches your highest frequency. ——————— 00:00 - Intro 01:22 - The law of attraction in relationships 03:48 - Why singlehood is the ultimate preparation 06:15 - How past wounds shape your current partnerships 10:00 - Cultivating self-love to attract authentic love 15:45 - Traits of a dream man—and how to reflect them 20:50 - Why "playing games" backfires in love 28:05 - Respect, integrity, and setting standards 35:12 - Balancing masculine and feminine energies in yourself 40:18 - How to embrace your shine without fear 46:30 - The importance of self-awareness in relationships 50:45 - Conquering self-sabotage and becoming the one ——————— Please like, comment, and subscribe if this episode resonates with you. I'd love to hear your thoughts in the comments below! Lucas Salame: www.instagram.com/lucas__salame/ | https://www.new-age-sage.com

Welcome back to The New Age Sage! In this solo episode, I’m diving deep into the world of Gnosticism—one of the most misunderstood and complex spiritual doctrines. I’ll take you through my personal journey exploring Gnostic ideas, unpacking its core beliefs about a hidden supreme God, a deceptive creator, and our existence in a lesser reality. Gnosticism challenges the idea of a benevolent world, suggesting instead that we’re trapped in a realm dominated by suffering and illusion. If you’ve ever wondered about the darker aspects of spirituality, felt disillusioned by traditional religions, or been curious about alternative spiritual paths, this episode is for you. I’m not just here to tell you what Gnosticism is—I’m here to challenge you to think about your own beliefs and confront the uncomfortable aspects of existence that we often avoid. ——————— [00:00] Intro [01:44] Exploring Gnostic Beliefs [03:20] Inverted Consciousness and Material Reality [07:22] Suffering as a Core Experience [12:18] Reincarnation & Spiritual Lessons [15:20] The Simulation Argument [20:19] Ego, Heart, and Loving Awareness [24:21] What Gnosticism Gets Right [28:26] Forgetting and Remembering [31:07] The Hero’s Journey in Spirituality [34:12] Alchemizing Darkness into Light [40:12] The Trap of Resentment in Gnosticism [45:34] Conclusion: Loving Awareness as the Ultimate Goal ——————— Please like, comment, and subscribe if this episode resonates with you. I'd love to hear your thoughts in the comments below! Lucas Salame: www.instagram.com/lucas__salame/ | https://www.new-age-sage.com

In this powerful episode of The New Age Sage, Thor Aarsand gets real about the state of modern men and why most are completely out of touch with their own raw, primal power. Thor breaks down how society has stripped men of their masculinity, keeping them stuck in a pathetic loop of mediocrity and distraction. We dive into topics like awakening real spiritual power, breaking free from the matrix, and why most people are too brainwashed to realize they’re living a lie. If you're tired of the same old BS and ready to reclaim your true power, this episode is for you. ——————— [00:00] Intro [01:20] Thor's Mission and Background [02:40] Transformation from Clean-Shaven to Viking [04:00] Breaking Down and Building Up [05:25] The Ego and Early Business Challenges [07:00] Unhealthy Motivations and the Path to Healing [09:00] Spiritual Teachings on Unity vs. Ego Separation [12:00] Social Media as a Tool for Shadow Work [15:00] The Role of Spirit in Navigating Challenges [18:00] Choosing Your Wounds and Lessons [20:30] Confidence: Ego vs. Divine [23:00] Spiritual Confidence and Moving Beyond the Ego [25:50] Defining the Matrix and Breaking Free [30:00] Self-Limiting Beliefs and Transcendence [33:00] The Power of Authentic Expression [36:00] The Duality of Earth: Heaven and Hell on the Same Plane [40:00] Navigating Spiritual Darkness [46:00] Insights on Demonic Agendas in Spiritual Spaces [52:00] Responsibility in Spiritual Leadership ——————— Thor Aarsand: Thor is a New Earth Leader and Viking from Norway. He's got almost a decade of experience building personal brands on social media, and speaks his truth no matter how controversial or bold, at almost 300k followers. His a kid of God on a mission to change the world. Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lifebythor/ ——————— Please like, comment, and subscribe if this episode resonates with you. I'd love to hear your thoughts in the comments below! Lucas Salame: www.instagram.com/lucas__salame/ | https://www.new-age-sage.com

In this solo episode of The New Age Sage, I dive into the mind-bending concept of living in a simulation. What does it really mean when people say we live in "the matrix"? I share my personal experience of glimpsing beyond the illusion and explore how our reality may be more of a construct than we realize. Together, we’ll break down what “the simulation” truly is, how it shapes our lives, and, most importantly, practical steps you can take to escape the limiting beliefs and structures that keep you trapped. If you've ever felt like there’s more to reality than meets the eye, this episode is for you. Tune in to awaken your understanding of the matrix and learn how to reclaim your power in a world that isn’t quite what it seems ——————— [00:00] Introduction: Perception and Reality in the Matrix [00:22] Personal Journey with the Simulation Theory [01:11] Psychedelic Experiences and Meeting My Mother’s Spirit [02:16] The Circular Program Disk and Life Timelines [03:26] Philosophical Insight: Destiny and Desire [05:03] Binary Code in Perception: Seeing Reality as Digital Information [07:40] The Education System: Foundation of the Matrix [10:57] Brainwashing and Authority Figures [13:22] Family Trauma as a Matrix Layer [15:02] The Matrix in Higher Education and Authority Obedience [18:10] Media and Pharmaceutical Manipulation [21:01] Questioning Reality and Self-Awareness [25:17] Matrix Agents and Social Conditioning [32:09] Emotional Triggers and Ideological Entrapment [35:08] The Scientific Establishment and Fear Conditioning [40:49] Breaking Free: Lessons from The Matrix [43:01] The Chosen Path: Questioning Your Perceptions [48:11] The Quantum View: Reality as Observed Phenomenon [52:11] Reincarnation and Life Programming [57:41] Embracing Life as a Low-Stakes Game [1:00:14] Conclusion: Awakening to Perception Control and Reality Creation ——————— Please like, comment, and subscribe if this episode resonates with you. I'd love to hear your thoughts in the comments below!

In this episode of The New Age Sage, we dive deep into the truth about dating, relationships, and what women are truly looking for. Joined by men’s work coach Wayne Barkus, we uncover the reasons why traditional dating games often backfire, why “nice guys” and “red pill” approaches fail, and what makes feminine qualities attractive to women today. Wayne shares valuable insights on moving beyond stereotypes and “polarity” theories, offering a practical blueprint for creating authentic, lasting relationships. If you're tired of the games and want a genuine connection, this episode provides the tools to navigate dating with confidence, integrity, and a deeper understanding of what it takes to find and keep the partner of your dreams. ——————— Wayne Barkus: Wayne Barkus is a men’s work coach and relationship expert dedicated to helping men build authentic, fulfilling connections by breaking away from traditional dating “games” and rigid gender roles. Through his unique approach, Wayne encourages men to embrace emotional intelligence, self-awareness, and genuine respect in relationships. He challenges outdated beliefs about masculinity and femininity, guiding his clients toward meaningful partnerships rooted in mutual respect, empathy, and shared values. Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/asacredking/ ——————— 00:00 - Introduction: Navigating Modern Relationships 02:10 - Expectations vs. Reality in Dating Today 08:20 - Why "Good Guy" Traits Aren't Always Enough 15:35 - Understanding Masculine and Feminine Energies in Love 23:10 - Breaking Down Society's Views on Submission and Dominance 30:20 - Overcoming the Ego's Influence in Romantic Connections 38:40 - The Spiritual Side of Intimate Relationships 45:50 - Embracing Vulnerability as a Strength 52:10 - Navigating Disappointments and Growth in Love 59:25 - The Importance of Self-Awareness in Attracting a Partner 1:07:35 - Finding Balance Between Independence and Connection 1:15:45 - Recognizing and Healing Relationship Traumas 1:23:50 - Creating a Lasting Connection Through Openness 1:31:00 - The Dance of Masculine and Feminine Energies 1:39:15 - What True Commitment Means in Modern Dating 1:47:40 - Final Thoughts and Takeaways ——————— Please like, comment, and subscribe if this episode resonates with you. I'd love to hear your thoughts in the comments below! Lucas Salame: www.instagram.com/lucas__salame/ | https://www.new-age-sage.com