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The New Age Sage Podcast

#102 - Why You Keep Ignoring Red Flags In Relationships (Fix THIS!)

Apr 2, 2025
55:45

Are you wearing rose-colored glasses that are distorting your ability to see people clearly?


In this episode of The New Age Sage, I uncover the hidden traumas and attachment wounds that keep you blind to red flags, addicted to chaos, and stuck in cycles of love that drain your soul. Whether it's anxious attachment, fear of being alone, or the belief you can fix someone, these unconscious patterns shape who you attract and what you tolerate.


If you’re tired of mistaking red flags for connection and calling it love, this episode will show you how to take the glasses off, see with truth, and finally choose relationships rooted in wholeness.


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00:00 - Intro

00:40 - The terror of being alone

06:07 - Brokenness and the belief in a missing piece

12:43 - My anxious attachment

20:02 - Narcissists and love bombing

26:08 - Visualizing the cost of chasing the wrong person

30:21 - Romantic trauma is the final boss

33:36 - Being a fixer is a red flag in disguise

37:00 - Avoidant terror of intimacy

43:04 - Being addicted to changing someone

50:01 - Women who believe they can't provide

54:35 - Final thoughts


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Lucas Salame: www.instagram.com/lucas__salame/ | https://www.new-age-sage.com

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