Optimal Relationships Daily - Dating, Marriage and Parenting

Optimal Living Daily | Greg Audino
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Mar 5, 2025 • 10min

2508: Let Others Voluntarily Evolve by Shana Olmstead on Love, Trust and Personal Growth

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com.Episode 2508:Letting go of the need to change others is an act of love, trust, and personal growth. Shana Olmstead explores how embracing each person's unique journey, without frustration or expectation, leads to deeper relationships and greater peace. Instead of pushing change, she suggests sending positive energy and faith in their evolution, allowing transformation to unfold naturally.Read along with the original article(s) here: https://shanaolmstead.com/2019/05/28/let-others-voluntarily-evolve/Quotes to ponder:"Love is not trying to change someone. Love is not trying to figure out their motivations or analyze their actions. Love is not wishing someone was different than how they are right now.""No one can make someone else evolve. Until the person is ready themselves, there is nothing someone can do or say that can make another person change their consciousness.""Think of someone you think needs help. Instead of sending the energetic message of fear and worry, send them messages of love, wholeness, and perfection." Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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Mar 4, 2025 • 11min

2507: I’m in a Relationship With a Great Guy Who Just Won’t Change - What Should I Do? by Evan Marc Katz

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com.Episode 2507:A loving, thoughtful partner can still have frustrating flaws like chronic indecision. Evan Marc Katz explores whether people truly change, especially when their behavior suggests otherwise. If a man is always "getting ready" but never taking action, is it a fixable habit or an unshakable trait? This candid response challenges the idea of waiting for transformation and asks whether love alone is enough.Read along with the original article(s) here: https://www.evanmarckatz.com/blog/communication/im-in-a-relationship-with-a-great-guy-who-just-wont-change-what-should-i-doQuotes to ponder:“A person who is always ‘getting ready’ will never stop ‘getting ready.’”“This doesn’t negate his many good qualities but it’s within his power to do something different, and his paralysis is just a mechanism that justifies his laziness.” Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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Mar 3, 2025 • 8min

2506: Understanding Your Emotional Command Systems by Stacy Hubbard of Gottman How to Foster Deeper Connection

Dive into the fascinating world of emotional command systems and their impact on relationships. Learn how neurological pathways formed in childhood affect your actions and connections. Discover the seven emotional drives that shape behaviors and how recognizing them can lead to deeper understanding between partners. The discussion encourages couples to balance their emotional needs for greater harmony, ultimately helping them navigate conflicts and foster stronger bonds.
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Mar 2, 2025 • 9min

2505: Stop Zoning Out In Your Relationships and Start Being Present - Truly Present by Lisa Merlo-Booth

Explore the crucial role of being truly present in relationships. Discover how emotional disconnection can silently erode intimacy and trust. Learn practical strategies for active listening and intentional engagement. Small changes, like daily check-ins and affectionate gestures, can significantly strengthen bonds. Understand the importance of prioritizing meaningful interactions over distractions to enhance emotional intimacy. Being physically present isn't enough; genuine connection requires effort and intention.
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Mar 2, 2025 • 9min

2504: It’s Ok to Be Happy with a Quiet Life by Brian Gardner of No Sidebar on How to Find Your Purpose

Brian Gardner, author of "It's Okay to Be Happy with a Quiet Life," discusses the merits of intentional living in today's fast-paced world. He advocates for embracing simplicity and reducing distractions to achieve inner peace and fulfillment. The conversation highlights how prioritizing presence and meaning over busyness can enrich our lives. Gardner emphasizes that a quiet life is about making space for what truly matters, transforming stillness into a powerful act of joy and purpose.
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Mar 1, 2025 • 9min

2503: Pregnant With Number Two (How Things Seem Different) by Shawna Scafe of Simple Advice for Expectant Mothers

Explore the humorous yet honest reflections on experiencing a second pregnancy. Discover how previous insights transform the emotional and physical journey, making it feel less daunting. The discussion dives into the challenges of managing body image and the anxieties of parenting two young children. Balancing feelings of love and financial concerns, the speaker encourages embracing support and celebrating the unique adventure that accompanies bringing a second child into the family.
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Feb 28, 2025 • 10min

2502: [Part 2] How to Raise Resilient Kids by Jen of This Time of Mine on Advice for Parents

This discussion dives into how parents can raise resilient kids through practical techniques. Teaching problem-solving skills and praising effort over results are key strategies. It emphasizes the importance of modeling resilience and validating children's emotions. By engaging in hands-on learning experiences, parents can boost their children's confidence and independence. The conversation also highlights the vital role of emotional intelligence in navigating life's challenges.
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Feb 27, 2025 • 10min

2501: [Part 1] How to Raise Resilient Kids by Jen of This Time of Mine on Parenting Advice

Explore the delicate balance between encouraging independence and providing support for kids. Learn about two parenting styles: 'curlers,' who overprotect, and 'observers,' who take a hands-off approach. Discover eight research-backed strategies to foster resilience in children. Understand how learning from mistakes plays a crucial role in building their confidence and problem-solving abilities. A stable, supportive relationship with caregivers is highlighted as a key factor in developing resilience.
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Feb 26, 2025 • 9min

2500: Why You Shouldn’t Ask “Are You Going To Have Kids” by Alysha Jeney of Modern Love Counseling

The question of parenthood often stirs deeper emotions than expected. Cultural pressures can weigh heavily on those contemplating having kids. Personal experiences, like infertility or choosing a child-free life, shape responses to this seemingly innocent inquiry. Instead of asking if someone plans to have children, it's better to explore more open-ended topics that encourage connection without pressure. Sensitivity is key in understanding diverse family definitions and personal journeys.
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Feb 25, 2025 • 10min

2499: A Dark Side of Blended Families: The Role of Ex-Partners by Dr. Jennifer Jill Harman of Luvze

Explore the emotional toll of parental alienation and the challenges blended families face due to ex-partners. Personal experiences reveal the hurdles of hostility and the importance of effective support systems. Strategies for establishing healthy boundaries are discussed, emphasizing children's well-being amidst complex family dynamics. This deep dive contrasts real-life issues with media portrayals, highlighting the need for resilience in navigating turbulent waters.

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