Wear This Not That

Nolan dives right into his most recent sales trip, where he found some adorable stuff, including the fashion item that he is most addicted to lately. Also, did anyone else make a New Year's Resolution to be more financially responsible? We divulge how that's going for Nolan. Later, we chat about the phenomenal outfits of Couture Week. Tune in as Nolan reveals how Valentino brought him to tears (it's only the second time he's cried at a fashion show), and we breakdown our favorite looks from Couture Week. Lastly, we explain why Chanel was simply BORING this year and how they committed the ULTIMATE fashion crime. In This Episode: [03:00] All about our most recent sales trip. [06:50] There are all sorts of addictions out there, Nolan has a coat addiction. [12:30] The moment that really changed how Nolan looks at shopping. [21:00] All of Valentino is stunning – we breakdown our favorite looks. [25:00] Nolan explains that couture is not about the clothes; it’s all about the relationships. [28:30] We have a few more couture things to talk about – Chanel was simply terrible, and they committed the ULTIMATE fashion crime. [35:35] Another fashion crime – why are people literally wearing sleeping bags and calling it fashion?!  Key Takeaways: Shopping is a vulnerable experience; it’s a very intimate thing. If you don't feel a hundred percent confident when you try something on, it takes a lot of vulnerability to show someone what you look like. If you ever get tired on a shopping trip, you need a glass of champagne at lunch – it will lift you up for the rest of your day shopping. Shopping is a marathon, not a sprint. Take your time, and don’t be afraid to take a break. Couture is about relationships; it’s not necessarily about the clothes. Links Mentioned: Colorful snowsuits and sleeping-bag coats: https://www.nytimes.com/2021/01/19/style/wearable-sleeping-bags-snowsuits.html?campaign_id=40&emc=edit_tz_20210122&instance_id=26310&nl=open-thread&regi_id=80305386&segment_id=50038&te=1&user_id=f213c109dccf1a006f6c26470573862f   Valentino: https://www.vogue.com/fashion-shows/spring-2021-couture/valentino   Chanel: https://www.vogue.com/fashion-shows/spring-2021-couture/chanel   Fendi: https://www.vogue.com/fashion-shows/spring-2021-couture/fendi   Quotes: “I'm going to be in the poor house. Let's be honest; I don't care because I'm going to be well-dressed.” -N.M “You should be able to reach for the stars fashionably.” - H.K.

We are STOKED to be joined by Allison Daroie of Paridaez in Boston. At Paridaez, every piece of clothing changes into multiple different styles so women can seamlessly transition from any potential setting. For someone who didn’t know anything about fashion and garment construction, Allison was able to do enough research and learn from mentors to start her thriving company. Tune in as she gives loads of FREE advice about starting a fashion company. It was an incredibly inspiring conversation; we hope you enjoy it! In This Episode: [03:30] All about Allison Daroie and Paridaez.  [07:20] How Allison was able to execute her vision for Paridaez.   [12:40] Allison dives into how she figured out which fabrics to use for her clothing line.   [20:00] How Covid-19 has affected Paridaez.   [29:10] All about the Paridaez masks.  [35:30] The future for Allison Daroie and Paridaez.  Key Takeaways: When starting a business, do the research and find mentors who you can continuously learn from.  If you don't have the vocabulary, it's very challenging to communicate what you even want; when entering the fashion industry, do your research and learn the vocabulary first.  When starting a business, first sit down and write down your values. Then, make sure you don’t deviate from those values.  Starting a brand is a lot harder than you think it is – things won’t just come together. Instead, you have to make a lot of mistakes.    Bio:  Allison Daroie is the CEO/Founder and designer of Paridaez. As a former lawyer and yoga instructor, she was inspired to create Paridaez after trying to get ready one day. She had a conservative meeting to attend, but planned to go to a yoga class afterward and then meet friends for drinks. She couldn’t show up to the meeting looking like a bag lady and didn’t have time to run home and change.    Allison realized if she had clothes that transitioned into looks appropriate for any environment, she wouldn’t miss out on doing the things she really wanted to do. She taught herself to design, learned the production process, and then bootstrapped the company to get up and running. Shortly after opening the Paridaez shop, Allison was voted Best Clothing Designer by Boston Magazine and the Paridaez shop won Best New Addition from Improper Bostonian. Links Mentioned: Website: https://paridaez.com/ (use code “HOLLYK”) Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/paridaez/

We are hitting the fashion game hard today because the idiot potato from the white house is gone, and guess what that means? Inauguration week! It's the dawn of a new day, and who doesn't love inauguration fashion? We dive deep into what everyone was wearing for inauguration week. Spoiler: there were a lot of winners and not a lot of losers this year. Plus, we take a walk down memory lane and talk about Melania Trump's fashion (crimes). Tune in as we breakdown which designers are a must-have for closets after getting loads of inspiration from the inauguration. We also discuss the GAME CHANGER designers that the lovely first lady was debuting (who she has now sky rocketed their careers), GAGA in Schiaparelli, Katy Perry in Thom Browne and Madame Vice President Kamala Harris in Christopher John Rogers. In This Episode: [02:15] The winning and losing looks of Melania Trump.   [04:50] Why choosing American emerging designers for inauguration looks matters.  [07:40] Inauguration fashion breakdown: starting with the beginning of the week.  [12:55] We freaking love Michelle Obama; we review her fabulous outfit.  [16:10] Fashion is not frivolous. We discuss  Dr. Jill Biden’s cream flower embroidered custom Gabriela Hearst coat. TO DIE FOR. [21:30] How the inauguration can completely change the trajectory of a designer’s career.  [29:00] Overall, no one was terribly dressed (except Melania Trump – her dress was just SO TRAGIC).  Key Takeaways: Everybody wants to be a little edgy; however, you have to go very classic at the inauguration itself. No reasonable person would believe anything Tucker Carlson says.  Purple represents unity because it shows how red and blue can come together.  Sergio Hudson will make his way into your closet at some point soon – watch out! Links Mentioned: First Lady Style Photos Jill Biden’s Hidden Message Lady Gaga Style Photos Katy Perry Style Photos Jennifer Lopez Style Photos Vice President Kamala Harris's Stepchildren Call Her "Momala"  Quotes: “The only thing I like about Melania Trump, seriously, I can't find one damn thing to like about that awful woman, except for the blue Ralph Lauren suit that she wore to the last inauguration.”  “Sergio Hudson will find its way into your wardrobe at some point, because who doesn't want a Michelle Obama jacket?”

Description: Today, we are delighted to be joined by hip-hop celebrity stylist Kris Shelby. Kris dives deep into his story and explains how a chance meeting with Tyler Perry changed his entire life trajectory. Plus, Kris reveals the number one song that boosted his career and set the tone for his fashion journey. Later, we talk all about how well streetwear mixes with luxury designers. We are all ready for these new up and coming designers who can seamlessly integrate these two worlds! Tune in as we talk about the importance of staying with your niche, branding, and Kris's future in the fashion industry and styling world. In This Episode: [02:40] All about Kris Shelby. [08:10] How Kris started his fashion career.  [12:30] When Kris met Tyler Perry, his life has never been the same.   [18:25] The famous artists that made Kris big. He reveals the number one song that jumpstarted his career.  [27:15] Kris gives his thoughts on streetwear mixed with luxury designers.  [35:30] Which fashion crimes that Kris cannot unsee.  [40:45] The future for Kris Shelby.          Key Takeaways: Good people are rare. When you find a good friend, don’t let them go!  In the hip-hop world, it's all about gaining trust. Once you have earned these artists’ trust, they tell everybody about you. Once you find your niche for your career, stay in that niche; don’t try and do too much or too many things at once.  People are open to new designers more than ever; we need new upcoming designers ready to take over the game.  Bio:  Kris continues to develop and express his artistic inspiration and true eye for fashion. His relocation from New Orleans in 2005 post hurricane Katrina emphasized his desire for a change of pace and catapulted his fashion career in the “dirty south”. Within a year after permanently relocating to Atlanta, he met Tyler Perry and was asked to begin wardrobing at Tyler Perry Studios, where he began to consistently meet individuals like TI, Cam’ron and Jeezy with whom he began styling shortly after. With a unique personal style and aesthetic, Kris has built his client base by working with celebrities such as the Migos, styling the 'Bad and Bougie' music video and is currently working with the artist behind Think It's a Game Record Label, YFN Lucci, Young Jeezy, SB Skooly,  Adkunle Gold in addition to many others. 

If you haven't figured it out already, this episode is all about perfume and cologne. Nolan has a freaky superpower where he can walk by someone and know exactly which one they are wearing. Some are so strong and memorable that you just never forget them. We talk about which ones we love, we hate and which ones to avoid. We discuss how much is too much and if it's unprofessional to wear fragrance at work. Plus, Nolan reveals the biggest mistake(s) you can make when it comes to fragrance. You’re welcome. In This Episode: [01:45] We give our hot takes on fragrance  [04:40] Is it unprofessional to wear fragrance at work?  [06:00] How much is too much fragrance?   [09:40] The biggest mistake you can make when it comes to your fragrance   [13:40] Did you know that fragrance goes bad?! [16:50] How long your fragrance should last   [26:00] The best brands for fragrance  Key Takeaways: Some people consider fragrance unprofessional at work. Be careful how much you are putting on so you don’t kill people when you walk in.  Don’t spray the fragrance and walk through it; that’s a waste and sticks to your clothes, not your skin.  Eau de Toilette is a light fragrance; if you like something stronger, then try Eau de Parfum. Extrait de Parfum is the strongest concentration of fragrance that you can purchase.  Links Mentioned: Chanel NO5: https://www.chanel.com/us/fragrance/n5-marion-cotillard/ Tom Ford OUD Wood: https://www.tomford.com/oud-wood/T1-OUD-WOOD.html Le Labo: https://www.lelabofragrances.com Santal 33: https://www.lelabofragrances.com/santal-33.html Baccarat Rouge 540: https://www.franciskurkdjian.com Dior Perfume: https://www.dior.com/en_us/fragrance Juliette has a gun: https://us.juliettehasagun.com Tom Ford Soleil Blanc: https://www.sephora.com/product/soleil-blanc-P406526 Jo Malone: https://www.jomalone.com

The details behind our visit to About Time at The Met Museum is the dish for the week. IT IS THE fashion exhibit that you DON'T want to miss-it sells out as soon as the museum opens which um, unfortunately, we learned the hard way.  It explores the symbiotic relationship between fashion and time. As you step into the time warp of the first room you are schooled on the relationship between the evolution of style and how it relates to designs in today's market. The vibe is eerie yet chic, strange yet dark, understated yet educational. The pieces from designers such as Alaïa, Alexander McQueen and Donna Karan are important to understanding fashion and garment history. On the shopping schedule; Holly got some crystal embellished monogrammed fingerless gloves; because; who doesn't need those? They keep your hands slightly warm but leave your fingers free to conduct business and taking pics on your phone which of course, is more important than actually keeping your hands from freezing. If you go to the LES (Lower East Side), if you love or hate sweets; you HAVE to go to the Clinton St. Bakery for the pancakes. If you don't, we will just go eat there again and take pics to make you wish you did. Tune in as we talk about how Nolan missed out on the perfect coat, the importance of a chic fragrance, and why we love the new iPhone. Time Stamp  [ 1:30 ] Nolan is back in NYC [ 6:05 ] Holly finally found fingerless gloves [ 7:55 ] The most fantastic pancakes you will ever have [ 10:10 ] Our trip to UNIQLO [ 14:25 ] Why all chic people have a fragrance [ 17:05 ] The new iPhone has an amazing camera Resources About Time UNIQLO Tom Ford Lipsticks

Jennifer Hazzard; now a professional life coach and strategist has had a loooong fashion history.  Nolan met Jennifer during Fashion Week '18 and little did she know, he was out to make her his new fashion bestie. We find out how her stellar connections from the hospitality industry led her to a career in fashion public relations. Jennifer reveals her stories on people, places and things that she couldn't "make up" if she tried. She spills the tea on all that went down on a typical Tuesday night at the Soho House and beyond.......no celeb left unturned.  Plus, Jennifer gives the scoop on the worst fashion crimes that have taken place during her career and most importantly, we reminisce about our fave fashion shows that we oh so miss! When is fashion week coming back?!?  We can't take it.  We get her take on the future of NYFW. You won't want to miss it! Time Stamp  [ 1:50 ] About Jennifer Hazzard and how Nolan picked her up [ 14:50 ] Why the hospitality industry isn’t sustainable   [ 20:20 ] Fashion crime reports from Soho House  [ 37:30 ] We reminisce about our most favorite fashion shows   Resources jennifer@jenniferhazzard.com Website: jenniferhazzard.com About Jennifer Hazzard Jennifer Hazzard is a professional life coach and strategist who works with individuals and groups to help them maximize their strengths and reach their full potential. Jennifer leads a variety of coaching and NLP (neuro-linguistic programming) workshops where she provides tools to increase confidence, motivation and achieve goals. She worked on leadership coaching with executives and groups. She also works with people one on one to help them find balance in their lives, improve their relationships, work more effectively, clarify and obtain their goals and be the best version of themselves.  Jennifer’s decades of working in the fashion and hospitality industries have led to her acquiring an arsenal of skills that have helped people get on their desired life path. She strives to guide and lead others to their truth and freedom through self-discovery, emotional awareness and mindset development.​ Determined to help as many people bridge the gap between their unconscious and conscious mind, she became certified in Life coaching, Motivational Coaching, Social and Emotional Intelligence Coaching and also earned a certification in Advanced NLP Communication from the Society of NLP with Richard Bandler. In addition to being a certified Life Coach, Jennifer recently became a certified Transcendental Meditation teacher. She also is currently studying Ontological Coaching with Accomplishment Coaching to become certified with the International Coaching Federation. She has received priceless information and knowledge that she willingly shares with others in hopes of bettering their lives.  Raised in Orange County, Ca and currently living in New York City, Jennifer is said to have the relaxed approach to life mixed with the go-get’ um energy of her beloved city.  When Jennifer isn’t coaching, she can be found meditating in Central Park, hitting up a Pilates or yoga class, strolling the city with her dog, whipping something up in the kitchen, trying the newest face mask or creating playlists on Spotify! She also spends a lot of her time volunteering with NY Cares and working with children and the elderly.  Quotes “Working sixteen hours a day making chump change will kill anybody’s soul.” -Jennifer Hazzard "I love an 80’s bush." -Jennifer Hazzard

Soneca Guadara is the creator of Style by Soneca, Lifestyle Blogger, Fashion Stylist, proud Latina and mom to four kids. Soneca speaks about how crazy her life is right now.  Soneca is currently working with her personal clients about what to wear during the holidays. The most significant request Soneca gets is for people who want to get glam for their local dinners and zoom parties.  For holiday shopping, she advises if you have to go to the mall, it's better early in the week, right when they open or later at night. So many stores have closed down..... it's depressing AF. Plus, inventory is sucking too. In 2020, we are relying on online shopping more than ever. Tune in as we have a debate about ugly Christmas sweaters, reveal our most fabulous holiday outfits and we explain how to tastefully wear plaid.  Time Stamp  [ 1:45 ] About Soneca Guadara and her busy life.  [ 6:30 ] Soneca’s current projects     [ 10:30 ] Why are people decorating so early?!  [ 13:30 ] The ugly Christmas sweater debate  [ 20:15 ] When do you even wear an ugly Christmas sweater?   [ 23:30 ] Our most fabulous holiday outfits  [ 28:00 ] Shout out to all the drunk uncles out there    Quotes “I need to get an ornament that says quarantine or something." -Soneca Guadara "I feel so much better about myself, my mood, and my confidence when I'm dressed up." -Nolan Meader Resources Quarantine Definition Ugly Christmas Sweater   Don We Now Our Gay Apparel   Drinking Game Ugly Christmas Sweater   Gift Topper Cardigan Sweater Soneca’s Website Soneca’s Email About Soneca Guadara Meet Soneca Guadara, creator of Style by Soneca. Lifestyle Blogger, Fashion Stylist, proud Latina and mom to four kids. From Miami to the burbs of New Jersey (Yes, you can say she is a Real Housewife of New Jersey). This fabulous fashionista not only has a keen eye for fashion but she has an amazing taste for interior decor and fashionable entertaining. Soneca is a certified Fashion Stylist from NYC's world renowned Fashion Institute of Technology, has worked backstage at various fashion shows for NYFW, has her own fashion column for BCthemagazine, is an on-air fashion and lifestyle expert on Unimas for Viernes y Mas, stays current working with various photographers and stylists where her work has been published in magazines not mention working with clients helping them with their fashion needs.  Soneca's blog is all about how she likes to mix styles and price points to make a statement, she can wear something from Target and Hermes all in the same look. Wearing designer clothing from head to toe is not necessary. As Soneca says, "It's all about looking good in your clothing and most importantly, feeling fabulous!"  

The holidays are here and boy are we are good at telling you what to buy!! In this episode, we talk about how to avoid those awful presents from your family who keeps guessing what to buy for you and missing the mark. Do them a solid and tell your family to please stop buying clothes for you. Instead, give them a list of things that you love on a silver platter so they make no mistakes.  Everyone loves a candle...who doesn't love a candle? The candle business is taking the world buy storm and can cost up to $85 a pop; get that for someone you care about. Someone you care about less could use a candle in the $25-$40 range; still a great gift. Room diffusers are also a fabulous choice that will make the house smell amazing, plus they can last up to eight months if you get the good ones. Another thing you should stay away from this holiday season is buying makeup for someone unless you personally know them like, really well. It’s so challenging to pick the right product unless you know exactly what shades and undertones the person likes. Do yourself a favor and avoid make-up unless you know what product lines they frequent. We school you on what kinds of gifts you CAN give someone you don’t know or someone you are giving a gift to for the first time. What products you should stay away from buying? Don't worry; we got you covered on that.  Tune in as we talk about the perfect holiday gifts for your loved ones and those you don't love, but still have to buy a gift for. Because let's be honest, we know know better than you. Learn more about our Holly-Day and Nolan gift guide where we discuss super cute phone cases, cardholders, and the world's most expensive hairdryer. Time Stamp  [ 5:30 ] Everyone loves a good candle  [ 10:15 ] Why Holly hates spending money on perfume  [ 15:50 ] Don’t risk buying makeup for people  [ 17:45 ] Get a beautiful personalized gift from The Daily Edited [ 25:30 ] Think about a high-quality hairdryer  [ 27:50 ] The must-have bags this holiday season [ 35:05 ] Alcohol is a great gift  Resources About Time Jo Malone Tom Ford CharlotteTilbury Sephora The Daily Edited Tory Burch Fragrance set- you get like 8 choices Lime basil mandarin candle - best candle ever, great for a party The only lipstick to buy for someone - it looks good on everyone TDE customizable card holder  - budget friendly, so practical TDE phone case - cutest thing ever Great expensive looking bag, customizable Best Hairdryer

Powered by artificial intelligence, Entrupy is the only technology-based, authentication solution on the market to provide trust to buyers and sellers of luxury handbags. Devin Battersby joins the show to talk about how it works and why it’s so crucial for the fashion industry.  Using Entrupy’s technology, you can get a result within sixty seconds about whether or not the product is authentic. As an advocate for authentic goods, Devin says that the counterfeit industry is a money-laundering front for criminal organizations.  If you are looking for high-quality counterfeit goods, they are out there. People can get good quality leather from anywhere; however, the bag is made with fake hardware. It can be challenging to tell with the naked eye whether or not your bag is authentic. Tune in as Devin speaks about the difference between counterfeit and fake goods, advice for buying luxury items, and what Devin is currently looking out for.    Time Stamp  [ 1:25 ] About Devin Battersby and Entrupy [ 5:30 ] Why counterfeit goods are hurting the fashion industry   [ 10:10 ] The most commonly faked goods   [ 14:45 ] Devin’s favorite bag   [ 17:00 ] The difference between counterfeit and fake goods   [ 23:20 ] Selling on Poshmark  [ 29:15 ] Advice for buying luxury items [ 33:20 ] What Devin is currently looking out for  Quotes “Counterfeit items are not good for the environment.” -Devin Battersby  “I am so petrified of selling breakables on the internet.” -Devin Battersby  Resources Entrupy RecycledRehab RecycledRehab on Instagram RecycledRehab on Poshmark   About Devin Battersby Devin Battersby has over 10 years’ experience in resale and has managed numerous multimillion-dollar luxury consignment shops. She has a bachelor’s degree from the Fashion Institute of Technology and is currently the support operations manager for a handbag authentication company called Entrupy which uses machine learning and artificial technology to authenticate luxury goods. On the side, she also manages her brand RecycledRehab which can currently be shopped through Instagram, Poshmark, Depop, eBay, and her website recycledrehab.com.