

the matcha diaries
cara and leo
Welcome to the matcha diaries - our spoken diary on how to survive your twenties (semi) sane.
Each week we'll be discussing different topics that are close to our hearts. From finding self-love, navigating relationships, to all things mental health.
So pour yourself a matcha and hang out with us as we get deep and motivate each other to be the best versions of ourselves. ☕
Each week we'll be discussing different topics that are close to our hearts. From finding self-love, navigating relationships, to all things mental health.
So pour yourself a matcha and hang out with us as we get deep and motivate each other to be the best versions of ourselves. ☕
Episodes
Mentioned books

Feb 5, 2025 • 41min
curated authenticity: can you ever REALLY be yourself online?
warning: this basically was a facetime call that you joined in on - we absolutely went on a ramble on this one!
is it even possible to be authentic on online, or does everything end up curated by default? we feel so authentic on the podcast, but when it comes to posting our lives online, capturing that same raw authenticity feels 1000 time harder!
join us as we chat through the pressure of perfection, the 'performative' nature of social media, and navigating the balance between 'real' and 'curated'.
lowkey ironic but...stay in the loop by following us on Instagram, TikTok, or subscribing on YouTube! ☕ Book lovers, don’t miss out on our BOOK CLUB—this month’s read is the one and only ONYX STORM by Rebecca Yarros.
Not on socials? Email us at thematchadiariespod@gmail.com to chat or for advertising opportunities.

Jan 29, 2025 • 56min
soft girl habits 101
join us in this very cosy morning record where we’re chatting all about habits—the ones we’ve mastered, the ones we’re still working on, and the ones we’d love to establish this year. From simple routines like morning coffee rituals and daily reading streaks to tackling flat-cleaning consistency, we’re reflecting on what works and what doesn’t. If you’re looking for inspiration to refine your own habits, this cosy conversation is for youto stay up to date on our lives, contribute to future episodes and share any of your thoughts - pls do Follow us on instagram, tiktok or subscribe to us on youtube here! ☕Thinking of joining our BOOK CLUB? We’d love to have you! Check it out here!for advertising opportunities, or you don't have any social media and want to chat, please email us at: thematchadiariespod@gmail.com

Jan 22, 2025 • 43min
the trap of chasing the “perfect” routine
be honest... have you imagined yourself waking up at 6 am, journalling, running 10k and somehow also reading every day in 2025?? we listen and we don't judge because we're lowkey (highkey) right there with you! in this episode (after our usual catch up which ends about 19 mins in) we dive into our thoughts on setting routines for the new year, including the questions:- can you set fitness related goals without them being toxic? - what to do when your new routines flop? - what’s more important: discipline, motivation or giving yourself grace?? to stay up to date on our lives, contribute to future episodes and share any of your thoughts - pls do follow us on instagram, tiktok or subscribe to us on youtube here! ☕ also, if you want to join our BOOK CLUB... you can join us here. current book of the month is ‘the ‘wedding people by alison espach).if you don't have any social media and want to chat (or for advertising opportunities), please email us at: thematchadiariespod@gmail.com

Jan 15, 2025 • 1h
life & pop culture catch up: it ends in court
we’re back with a life and pop culture catch-up you didn’t know you needed.
this week, leo shares all about her LA adventures—including a moment driving through skid row that led us to unpack the Luigi Mangione court case! we also slightly dive into the juicy battle of Justin and Blake - stars of the It Ends With Us movie.
Let us know if you like these pop culture style episodes!!
Stay in the loop by following us on Instagram, TikTok, or subscribing on YouTube! ☕ Book lovers, don’t miss out on our BOOK CLUB—this month’s read is The Wedding People by Alison Espach, and we’re obsessed.
Not on socials? Email us at thematchadiariespod@gmail.com to chat or for advertising opportunities.

Jan 8, 2025 • 1h 6min
it's 2025 rebrand time !!!
new year - (not really) new & improved cara & leo !! 🌟
catch up & set our goals/intentions for 2025 with us in this episode. see journal prompts we answer (for you to follow along & answer with us) below. <3
what is your 'word of the year'?
what are three ways you will push yourself out of your comfort zone in 2025?
what do you want to do more of in 2025?
what do you want to do less of in 2025?
What are 3 things you want to accomplish in 2025 (can be small/big)?
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to stay up to date on our lives, contribute to future episodes and share any of your thoughts - pls do follow us on instagram, tiktok or subscribe to us on youtube here! ☕ also, if you want to join our BOOK CLUB... you can join us here current book of the month is 'the wedding people' by alison espach).
if you don't have any social media and want to chat (or for advertising opportunities), please email us at: thematchadiariespod@gmail.com

Jan 1, 2025 • 1h 23min
everything we’ve (all) learnt in 2024
✨ Skip to 01:08 to hear all of your amazing voice notes! ✨
if you’ve been with us for a while (aka more than a year—hey, loyal listeners 💌), you already know how our end-of-year episodes go. this is officially our fourth year doing this tradition (WHAT how is that even possible?!), and it’s always one of our favourite moments of the year.
as always, we’re answering our yearly journal prompts and, most importantly, featuring your reflections on what you’ve learned this year. this episode includes some familiar voices, heartfelt moments, and even a surprise musical reflection from one of you! thank you from the bottom of our hearts to everyone who’s listened, supported, and contributed voice notes this year. you make this so special.
want to reflect along with us? Here are the prompts we answered:
🌟 If the energy of your past year could be summed up in one word, what would it be?
🌟 What were your big wins this year?
🌟 What were your small wins this year?
🌟 What were your challenges this year, and what did you learn from them?
🌟 What are 3 things you learned this year?
🌟 What do you want to leave behind as you step into 2025?
HAPPY NEW YEAR, everyone! 🥂
to stay up to date on our lives, contribute to future episodes and share any of your thoughts - pls do Follow us on instagram, tiktok or subscribe to us on youtube here! ☕
Thinking of joining our BOOK CLUB? We’d love to have you! Check it out here!
for advertising opportunities, or you don't have any social media and want to chat, please email us at: thematchadiariespod@gmail.com

Dec 30, 2024 • 58min
i read 68 books this year & these are the ones you should read
SEND US YOUR 2024 VOICENOTES ('what's one thing you learnt this year') at: thematchadiariespod@gmail.com
skip to 20:14 if you want to skip all the feelings chatter and jump straight to the book reviews 🤝
goodreads account (let's be friends tehe <3): https://www.goodreads.com/user/show/124147943-leo
all books mentioned - see below:
seven year slip by ashley poston
emily wilde’s encyclopaedia of faeries (1&2) by heather fawcett
the kindred’s curse series by penn cole
heartless hunter by kristen ciccarelli
a little life by hanya yanagihara
my brilliant friend series - elena ferrante
bright, young women by jessica knoll
jane eyre by charlotte bronte
the maidens by alex michaelides
the housemaid by freida mcfadden
the southern book club’s guide to slaying vampires by grady hendrix
save me series by mona kasten
beach read & funny story by emily henry
the bridge kingdom by danielle l. jensen
shadows of the tenebris court by clare sager
the very secret society of irregular witches by sangu mandanna
divine rivals by rebecca ross
house of flame and shadow - sarah j maas
secret history - donna tartt
an academy for liars - alexis henderson
ninth house - leigh bardugo
piranesi by susannah clarke
to stay up to date on our lives, contribute to future episodes and share any of your thoughts - pls do follow us on instagram, tiktok or subscribe to us on youtube here! ☕ also, if you want to join our BOOK CLUB... you can join us here.

Dec 21, 2024 • 27min
cozy season confessions: holiday joys and jitters
today we’re diving into the real, cozy, yet chaotic side of the holidays.
from nostalgic moments and festive traditions to the stress of gift-giving and family tensions, the holiday season brings a mix of joy and jitters.
I’ll be sharing some of my own experiences, including chaotic gift-giving and unexpected family changes this year. plus, we’ll hear some of your holiday highs and lows, and explore ways to find peace amidst the holiday chaos.
grab a cozy drink and let’s chat about it all—the joy, the stress, and everything in between.
to stay up to date on our lives, contribute to future episodes and share any of your thoughts - pls do follow us on instagram, tiktok or subscribe to us on youtube here! ☕ also, if you want to join our BOOK CLUB... you can join us here current book of the month is 'an academy for liars' by alexis henderson).
if you don't have any social media and want to chat (or for advertising opportunities), please email us at: thematchadiariespod@gmail.com

Dec 12, 2024 • 41min
in the clurb, we all overwhelmed
feeling #stressednotblessed? but want to feel #blessednotstressed this festive season?? SAME HERE - let's turn that frown upside down together in this episode.
WE'VE GOT THIS GUYS!!!! <333
to stay up to date on our lives, contribute to future episodes and share any of your thoughts - pls do follow us on instagram, tiktok or subscribe to us on youtube here! ☕ also, if you want to join our BOOK CLUB... you can join us here current book of the month is 'an academy for liars' by alexis henderson).
if you don't have any social media and want to chat (or for advertising opportunities), please email us at: thematchadiariespod@gmail.com

Dec 6, 2024 • 40min
unedited weekend recap & entering ur late-20s crisis
WE WERE IN PERSON TOGETHER FOR THIS EPISODE BIG WOOOOP. less of a big woop is unfortunately that cara is super quiet in this episode coz of some mic issues we had (downsides of only using one mic) so pls forgive us & we hope it doesn't disrupt the listening experience TOO much.
if you came to the book club event we love and appreciate you forever and ever! it was genuinely so special and so much fun. <333
to stay up to date on our lives, contribute to future episodes and share any of your thoughts - pls do follow us on instagram, tiktok or subscribe to us on youtube here! ☕ also, if you want to join our BOOK CLUB... you can join us here current book of the month is 'an academy for liars' by alexis henderson).
if you don't have any social media and want to chat (or for advertising opportunities), please email us at: thematchadiariespod@gmail.com


