Orgasmic Enlightenment with Kim Anami

Kim Anami
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Apr 15, 2022 • 11min

50 Shades of Anami: BDSM 101

Many people have misconceptions about what BDSM really is. For anyone who doesn’t know, BDSM stands for: BondageDisciplineDominationSubmissionSadismMasochismEven me, before I learned about what it was, and how deep it could be, thought: “oh, whips and chains!”. And, like with anything, there are superficial versions of it, and there are deeper, sacred and sophisticated versions of it. Just like how I teach about sex. i would say that the most “junk food” version of sex is to jerk off to porn, racing to the finish line of the goal of just having an orgasm for stress relief or to you put yourself to sleep. The gourmet sex version, that I teach, is about having sexual experiences that take you to heights of ecstasy and bliss, give you orgasms that last for hours, and through that you are transformed. You become a better, more self-realized of yourself. It’s the same in BDSM. The deepest themes for me in my BDSM exploration have been playing with surrender and control, and with archetypal feminine and masculine energies. The hottest sexual chemistry and couples who can’t keep their hands off each other, generally have exaggerated feminine and masculine energies at play. In today’s episode: Using conscious BDSM to generate explosive chemistry in your relationship Why 50 Shades of Grey was a worldwide hit. Hint: these are primal energies we are all turned on by and crave Amplifying the divine masculine and feminine through conscious and sensual BDSMHow BDSM is a fantastic tool for shadow work Sexy demo examples of some classic BDSM moves  Signup for the Coming Together for Couples salon: https://kimanami.com/coming-together-couples-salon/
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Apr 10, 2022 • 1h 3min

F*ck Them Until You Change Them

The transformative power of sex is explored as a pathway to personal growth and authentic intimacy. Listeners learn how meaningful sexual experiences can rejuvenate and heal relationships. The podcast delves into challenges during menopause and the importance of communication and emotional healing within partnerships. Techniques like yoni and lingam massage are discussed, showcasing how embracing sexual energy can catalyze profound life changes. Personal stories highlight the connection between self-acceptance and intimacy, encouraging a deeper understanding of oneself.
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Apr 8, 2022 • 33min

How to Give a Blissful Yoni Massage: 15 Steps and Techniques

In a loving, passionate, dedicated yoni massage, we are aiming to awaken, activate and bring deep, life-changing pleasure to the vagina and a woman’s overall sexual being.Over the decades of doing my work, as a holistic sex and relationship coach, the thing I hear over and over from women is how numb their vaginas are. One of the biggest tools I recommend for de-numbing and re-pleasuring the vagina is the jade yoni egg. By building strength, sentience and articulation in the vagina, increasing circulation and oxygen flow, ALL things flow better: from lubrication to hormone transport to orgasms. The other practice I recommend is yoni massage. With focused, loving attention, we can transform a numb vagina into a multi-orgasmic and highly aroused one. In today’s episode: Benefits of yoni massage, including increased libido, lubrication and vaginal orgasms 15 techniques for a blissful, life-changing yoni massage Our epic flower mandala yoni All star interview with Tania sharing how she initially had pain in her vagina, and through yoni massage that gave way to numbness, and then pleasure.  You'll find my fully guided yoni massage routine in the Coming Together for Couples Salon. This is my 10-week signature online program for couples where we cover everything from squirting techniques in my entire Orgasmapedia, male stamina and marathon sex, communication skills and Tantric and Taoist practices. Click here to sign up now. 
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Apr 1, 2022 • 26min

How to Give an Ecstatic Penis Massage

The purpose of lingam massage is to awaken the true power of your man’s cock.We want him to own and inhabit it, amplifying his capacity for pleasure.And yours.Then he can penetrate you with it, bringing both of you to ecstasy and obliterating you to smithereens, with an awakened and self-actualized cock.Lingam massage can be totally transformational for your partner and your relationship.
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Mar 24, 2022 • 41min

9 Steps to Be a Squirting Master

Squirting is celebrated as a profound experience, steeped in historical significance. Learn why it's deemed an essential life skill for women, and discover five intriguing facts about it. The discussion delves into emotional connections and the transformative power of intimacy. Hear personal anecdotes of empowerment, trust, and vulnerability in relationships. Explore the invigorating sensations for women and the energetic dynamics involved. Ultimately, find encouragement to embrace one's sexuality and navigate the journey towards deeper connections.
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Mar 18, 2022 • 9min

Energy Sex in the Wild

Energy orgasms are orgasms that take place without and kind of touch whatsoever. You know the spiritual axiom that “thoughts are things.”  Well, here we see that in action. Orgasms are things too and we can have them whenever and wherever we want! 
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Mar 11, 2022 • 13min

9 Unusual Foreplay Techniques for Epic Sex and Orgasms

How long can you make it last? How good can you take it? What’s it like to live in a perpetual state of bliss? Slowing down and prolonging your foreplay not only primes you for marathon sex and the deeper orgasmic experiences, but afterward you feel even higher, ecstatic, transformed and like you’ve been reborn. You are tapping into the rejuvenating, enlivening power of your sexual energy. The more you treat foreplay like its own sex act and endgame, the deeper your sexual experiences will be. There are stories in ancient Tantric texts about the ultimate battle for lovers: To make the other come first. Your job is to tantalize, tease and stimulate your partner so they live in an ongoing state of arousal. Yes, this is possible. In this episode, we'll discuss how: 
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Feb 18, 2022 • 22min

Conscious Celibacy

Celibacy gets a bad rap because people don’t do it very well. I would never counsel someone to just “give up sex” without any intention behind it. Or, without learning how to channel their sexual energy. That would be “unconscious celibacy”. Doing it consciously is deciding to contain yourself for a while, to put an invisible “not available” sign on your forehead, and direct your energy inward. This could be for any number of reasons, such as: to recover and heal after a breakup to take stock and try and change patterns and behaviours in relationships before starting a new one Up-levelling parts of your life before your next relationship, so that you are in a better place to welcome someone into your space and lifeI often talk having had some of my most well-fucked periods of my life, when I was single. If you know anything about my work, the way I define “well-f**ked” isn’t just about “having lots of sex”. It’s having lots of gourmet, conscious, life-changing sex and channeling your sexual, pro-creative energy out into the world as a manifesting power to birth and shape your reality. So how do we do this? Show notes and product links here: https://kimanami.com/conscious-celibacy/
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Feb 3, 2022 • 1h 32min

Everyone Is Creative: Just Ask Your Vagina!

This is the ultimate creative power of the universe and it flows through  you.Instead of tuning into this ad riding this wave, most people are totally disconnected from and have disowned this power.All of my work is about helping you get it back.“Unexpressed creativity is not benign. It metastasizes”~ Brene Brown I say the same thing about your sexual energy: whatever you aren’t expressing and owning, inverts back on you and creates all kinds of stagnation and blockage in your life.In today’s episode:Are creatives born or made?The fastest way to achieve creative geniusThe connection between the deeper vaginal orgasms and being divinely inspiredSex and self-actualization#poweredbyvagina is the mantra I live by. How I create my own life–via my vaginaThree techniques to activate your creative and orgasmic brilliancePlus, we have THREE Well-F**ked All Stars today sharing on how they have fuelled their creative projects and lives.With their orgasms and vaginas.My legendary Vaginal Kung Fu Salon is now open for registration until tomorrow—Friday February 4th at midnight PST.In this 8-week online salon, I've compiled the best of my 30 years of sexual and vaginal experience (!) to take you over the edge into a lifetime of bliss. We cover everything talked about in today’s episode, from yoni massage to how to use the jade yoni egg, to activating your feminine energy as the receiver in your life—all of which bring you into your creative genius.You'll learn:How to have a toned, orgasmic and ecstatic vagina;How to channel your sexual energy into creative powerStep-by-step instructions for your vaginal weight lifting practice, thereby putting yourself in the running for the Guinness Record for world’s strongest vagina;My guided routine for giving yourself, or having your partner give you, a healing and activating yoni massage.How to give your man a hand job. With your vagina.Come and get it.After tomorrow, it's gone until 2023!
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Jan 27, 2022 • 51min

5 Reasons Why You Aren't Having Vaginal Orgasms

While the clitoris is good for a laugh or a warmup, if you really want to harness the power of your sexual energy, you need to go deeper.A few inches deeper.These deeper, vaginal orgasms are like the Loch Ness Monsters of sexuality. They are mysterious and subject to much skepticism and known only to some.The reason why they elude many people, and especially laboratory analysis (though they’ve been sighted in some labs; mainly French, and not English), is because they involve far more than just technique.In fact, I’d say that technique is less than 10% of what will take you there.In this episode we cover the other 90%. We also talk to Well-F**ked All Star Robin, who is a 44-year-old from our Well-F**ked Hall of Fame. She’s taken my salons for women and emerged out the other side a radiant, lubricating, ejaculating, vaginal orgasming-on-the-regular, sexual powerhouse. My legendary Vaginal Kung Fu Salon is open for registration! www.kungfuvagina.com Having a Kung Fu Vagina is every woman’s birthright and within her natural abilities.  With the right tools! This is what is possible for every single vagina, on the daily: Multiple, vaginal and ejaculating orgasms Insane, life-changing pleasure A vagina that is so responsive that it gets wet just from hearing your lover’s voice. Produces a tsunami of wetness A ravenous libido Gives your lover a vaginal handjob with your sensational articulation skills. Aka "voodoo pussy". Shoots ping pong balls. This is the normal, healthy baseline for every vagina. Zero urinary incontinence. Some women reverse this in a week. Iron-clad pelvic floor strength that maintains your internal organs. Yep. You were meant to keep them. In short: Ecstasy and power on tap. Courtesy of your Kung Fu Vagina. Come and get it: www.kungfuvagina.com 

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