50 Shades of Anami: BDSM 101

Many people have misconceptions about what BDSM really is. 

For anyone who doesn’t know, BDSM stands for: 

• Bondage
• Discipline
• Domination
• Submission
• Sadism
• Masochism

Even me, before I learned about what it was, and how deep it could be, thought: “oh, whips and chains!”.

And, like with anything, there are superficial versions of it, and there are deeper, sacred and sophisticated versions of it.

Just like how I teach about sex.

i would say that the most “junk food” version of sex is to jerk off to porn, racing to the finish line of the goal of just having an orgasm for stress relief or to you put yourself to sleep.

The gourmet sex version, that I teach, is about having sexual experiences that take you to heights of ecstasy and bliss, give you orgasms that last for hours, and through that you are transformed. 

You become a better, more self-realized of yourself. 

It’s the same in BDSM. 

The deepest themes for me in my BDSM exploration have been playing with surrender and control, and with archetypal feminine and masculine energies. 

The hottest sexual chemistry and couples who can’t keep their hands off each other, generally have exaggerated feminine and masculine energies at play. 

In today’s episode: 

• Using conscious BDSM to generate explosive chemistry in your relationship 
• Why 50 Shades of Grey was a worldwide hit. Hint: these are primal energies we are all turned on by and crave 
• Amplifying the divine masculine and feminine through conscious and sensual BDSM
• How BDSM is a fantastic tool for shadow work 
• Sexy demo examples of some classic BDSM moves  

Signup for the Coming Together for Couples salon: 
https://kimanami.com/coming-together-couples-salon/