Orgasmic Enlightenment with Kim Anami

Kim Anami
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Nov 7, 2025 • 18min

Should Love Feel Safe?

On the heels of my last podcast, talking about intense chemistry and whether it’s a green or red flag, today I’m talking about the idea that relationships ought to be “SAFE”. I hear this word tossed around A LOT now. Everyone's talking about nervous system resetting and how SAFETY is the holy grail we all ought to apparently be looking for. I don’t think it’s safety we’re after. It’s something else entirely. 
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Oct 24, 2025 • 14min

Is Chemistry a Red Flag?

Is heart-fluttering chemistry necessary or is it "toxic"?Lately, I’ve heard some people say that chemistry is DANGEROUS! TOXIC! Run away! Red flag! Ridiculous. Tell me you’ve never had life-changing sex before without telling me. Chemistry is the reaction. The friction, the spark. You need it in order to create any kind of growth.“Meh” isn’t chemistry and “meh” isn’t going to change your life.In today’s episode: What is chemistry? Why it’s essential in every important relationship in your life  When chemistry actually can be a red flag Intensity and passion vs. “calm” in relationship Safety and risk in relationship: no risk, no reward? The ideal conditions for relationship alchemy “But we’re such good buddies! We make such good partners!” Yeah, but are you fucking each other? Ever?The root causes of reproductive issues 
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Oct 7, 2025 • 20min

Why I've Never Dated

I’ve never dated anyone. Never been on a dating site. My experiences in the early stages of romance and relationships have always been intense, wild and unmistakable. I’ve seen something reposted a few times lately, an idea that people seem to be in awe of, that’s been the story of my life: “What’s crazy is that real lovers don’t even do talking stages. All it takes is one good date and suddenly y’all are together every day after that.” Yeah. This is how it’s always been for me. I EXPECT big love, big feeling, a whole-hearted, whole-vagina, whole-soul response to someone. Nothing less. Why would I waste my time on anything BUT that? In this episode:  Since I don’t “date” here’s what I do insteadThe morass of modern dating and my advice on how to navigate it Humans vs. superhumansJen Okazaki weighs in (iykyk) When you know you know People who marry for every other reason other than deep passion and what they look like 5, 10, 15 years down the road—I would know because I see them all the time Recognizing soul mates—or at least the people who hold vital learning for you here and now Shakespearean-Romantic-poet-epic-saga-love and nothing less Courage and boldness in love Death by a thousand cuts of cowardice 
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Sep 12, 2025 • 1h 25min

Be a Man with a Plan

Dive into the importance of being decisive and taking the lead in relationships. Explore how mastering your sexual energy can transform your connection with partners, including techniques for achieving orgasms without ejaculation. Understand the dynamics of attraction and playful testing in romance. Discover the transformative power of self-love and personal growth on emotional wellbeing. Plus, learn how vulnerability and confidence can enhance intimacy, leading to deeper connections and a more purposeful life.
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Sep 5, 2025 • 58min

"My Dick Grew So Big!"

Dive into a transformative journey exploring masculinity and sexuality through personal stories of trauma and healing. Discover how reconnecting with sexual energy can rejuvenate intimacy and emotional well-being. Intimacy becomes a powerful exchange that fosters trust and physical changes in relationships. Learn about embodying masculine energy, where posture and confidence play vital roles. The conversation emphasizes radical responsibility and personal power, encouraging listeners to embrace their true selves while committing to their growth.
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Aug 29, 2025 • 28min

9 Qualities of a Modern Alpha Male

This engaging discussion redefines what it means to be an alpha male in today's world. Key traits such as compassion, vulnerability, and emotional accountability are explored. The importance of fulfilling a partner's sexual needs is emphasized, highlighting how this enhances connection. Integrity and humility are championed as essential for personal growth and healthier relationships. The conversation also introduces an online program focusing on mastering sexual energy, helping men boost their confidence and vitality in all aspects of life.
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Aug 22, 2025 • 51min

Softcock to Supercock

Forgettable to formidable—how a once underwhelming 🍆 became a bedroom and life force majeure.**The cock is the ultimate barometer of the man. When a man is fully occupying his masculine power and his sexual self, we see this reflected in her erection: Strong. Unwavering. Solid. Rising to its full potential. Bursting at the seams. When a man is shying away from his true nature and strength, we also see this in a cock that limp, lifeless, un-occupied, soft and weak. Like begets like. Strong, sexually aware man = strong, sexually sentient cock. In this episode:Four essential qualities of SupercockWell-F**ked All Star Ben’s journey from Softcock to Supercock Religious upbringing and shame The only acceptable answer is “fuck yes” Is your cock small? Sex week in Puerto Rico and sex on a jetski Occupying your cock Cock worship: “She cannot get enough of my cock” Growing cock. Organically. Orgasms without ejaculation“We can f**k for a couple hours now”Communication during sex Anami Alchemia Sex Nectars and Crystal Elixirs for breakthroughsWhat to do when a woman is in her masculine If you’re ready to become a legendary Supercock slayer in all areas of your life, check out my Sexual Mastery for Men Salon!In my 8-week online program for men, you'll learn:Orgasms without ejaculation: every man canHow to last longer in bed and have complete controlHow to use your sexual energy as a power source, increasing your vitality, confidence and cash flowOrganically grown cock: boost your length, girth and strengthOrgasmapedia: the guide to all female orgasmsOwning your dominant, divine and dark masculine energyEverything you need to dickmatize your woman and dominate in your life!Are you a Supercock? Take the quiz to find outhttps://kimanami.com/stamina
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Aug 15, 2025 • 16min

10 Steps to Sexual Mastery for Men

Unlock the keys to becoming a well-f**ked man with essential skills for sexual mastery. Explore techniques for lasting longer and achieving orgasms without ejaculation. Discover ways to boost your size and strength through innovative methods. Dive into the fascinating world of female orgasms and learn to embody your masculine energy. Each tip is aimed at enhancing intimacy and emotional connection, making every experience both fulfilling and transformative.
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Jul 11, 2025 • 16min

Wealthy and Well-F**ked

Dive into the transformative power of sexual energy as a key to unlocking personal abundance. Explore how embracing authenticity can lead to wealth and prosperity. Discover actionable steps for deeper intimacy, including techniques for enhanced orgasms and the role of sexual empowerment in manifesting your desires. The journey from struggle to success is illustrated through a compelling personal narrative. Learn how to balance boldness and sexuality in branding and recognize the universe's role in your financial growth.
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Jul 4, 2025 • 1h 2min

Honesty: the New Lube

Discover the secrets to natural female lubrication and why all women can self-lubricate at any age. Learn how emotional connection enhances physical intimacy, making honest communication crucial in relationships. Explore the practice of Yoni gazing for self-acceptance and body positivity, while embracing self-exploration through pleasure. Delve into personal growth and the role of minimal clothing in body intimacy. Plus, unlock the keys to deeper orgasms and use sexual energy to fuel creativity.

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