
Sex Stories
How do we connect? What makes a mutually satisfying relationship? What are other people into?
These are real human stories. Guests share details of their personal lives and/or work to add emotional context to the confusing experience of attempting to relate to other human beings. The goal? To learn from and more deeply understand one another through exchanges of personal wisdom and experience.
The focus is always connection and intimacy in our modern world: relationships, dating, friendship, cultural “norms” and taboos. Conversations explore vulnerability, shame, desire, pleasure, celebration, creative bucket lists, fantasy play spaces, irresistible invitations and so much more. Listen and share to co-create the story-based, connection-first sex ed we never got—but will all definitely benefit from. Let's co-create the new horizon of personal education, together. Let's learn from each other & spread ripples of love.
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Created and hosted by Wyoh Lee | wyohlee.com
Edited and produced by Jason Defillippo |
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Latest episodes

Jul 9, 2024 • 35min
Daisy Chain Happy Place: Zachary Zane’s Update
Zach returns! He shares about swinger vacations, bi takeovers, polyamorous experiences and a newfound appreciation for partnered bisexual swinging. 00:00 Clandestine bisexual encounters, swinger events, and adult sex camp.06:21 Why open relationships are a better fit for him than poly.09:23 Tips for playing at sex parties: levels of kinkiness, cultures of communication, body language, and how to approach.13:14 Daisy chains!!!19:16 Bisexual swinger events: what to expect, goals, and finding welcoming community.23:14 Cultivating intimacy, navigating jealousy, and sex with love vs hot stranger sex.28:22 Tantra explorations: eye gazing, vulnerability, and connecting with others through “unique universal” experiences.32:08 Why self-forgiveness is what we need more of and exciting kinky queer shit. 📈 STATS | 33 bisexual cis male, he/him pronouns, polyamorous, author of Boyslut: A Memoir and Manifesto, into: swinging, sex tourism, sex parties, kink, tantra, non-monogamy 🔗 ZACH LINKS | zacharyzane.com / @zacharyzane_ Zach's episode from September 2023 | Will You Do My Husband?
🔥 PARTNERS | Make your world a sexier place—get a discount & support the pod!SDC: A place for swingers to connectFIRMTECH: Performance-enhancing cock rings | Use the code LOVER for 15% offBEDUCATED: Learn how to have great sexBUTTER WELLNESS: Prioritizing prostate pleasure | Use the code LOVER for 20% off ⚡️ WORK WITH WYOH | Explore (y)our creativity: wyohlee.com/linksOne-on-one photoshoots, content creation, writing retreats & creative support 🤩 PATREON | Wy’s exclusive updates, stories & the community discord: patreon.com/wyohlee 💸 PLAY | Tickle Wy’s moneykink: 🪭onlyfans.com/wyohlee 🐈⬛sextpanther.com/wyoh 🎙️ BE A GUEST, SHARE A STORY, ASK A QUESTION | Leave a voice memo at sexstoriespodcast.com 🙌 SHARE SEX STORIES🌈 Explore (y)our curiosity.🤑 Offer irresistible invitations.💦 Spread ripples of love.

Jul 2, 2024 • 1h 29min
269 | Primal Giantess Brat Destroyer: Eden Evil’s Sex Stories
Eden shares her Dominant journey as a self-described Freak Bitch, nasty leatherdyke, monstrous sadist and professional. 00:00 Eliminating shame via kink.05:51 Knowing when and what to share in vanilla spaces.11:12 Playing with gender and supporting masculinity via submission in her ProDomme work.16:10 Taking care of herself for physical topping scenes, creative face-sitting, and primal dominance.20:25 Learning ones boundaries and the difference between being needed and needy.24:08 Tips on how to work with a ProDomme: session requests, scene negotiations, and bratty behavior do’s and don’ts.29:59 A love for foot fetishists and foot nights.34:33 How Eden fucks with her feet, an extreme trample slut, and an ultimate foot fucking fantasy.38:50 Juicy pussy details, face-sitting protection, and ethical, clear negotiation.43:03 Sensory superpowers of her ADD and stamina.46:12 Leatherdyke discoveries and finding queer community.50:07 An early experience of loving roughness, riding dick and slapping faces.54:51 Discovering her Dominant parts and gaining hard skills as a ProDomme.1:01:44 Solo pleasure, noticing energy levels, appreciating sensory overload, hands vs vibrators, and daily personal cum challenges.1:07:16 Leaving deep bruising and marks, and current favorite tools: hands, canes, and short steel baseball bats.1:12:00 Bootblacking as a gateway to leather love.1:14:24 Erotic bucket list: bondage ocean scene, gymnastic tools for trampling, primal outdoor play, and more needles.1:18:49 The harms of puritan culture and why sex work legalization and protection will help us all.1:20:21 Self-love practices to start today and her dream dungeon. 📈 STATS | 31 queer pro Domme, she/her pronouns, non-monogamous, leatherdyke, Los Angeles-based, into: kink, sadism, connective healing, intimacy, bootblacking, BDSM 🔗 EDEN LINKS | @call_me_eden_evil / @Im_Eden_Evil_ / call_me_eden_evil@proton.me
🔥 PARTNERS | Make your world a sexier place—get a discount & support the pod!SDC: A place for swingers to connectFIRMTECH: Performance-enhancing cock rings | Use the code LOVER for 15% offBEDUCATED: Learn how to have great sexBUTTER WELLNESS: Prioritizing prostate pleasure | Use the code LOVER for 20% off ⚡️ WORK WITH WYOH | Explore (y)our creativity: wyohlee.com/linksOne-on-one photoshoots, content creation, writing retreats & creative support 🤩 PATREON | Wy’s exclusive updates, stories & the community discord: patreon.com/wyohlee 💸 PLAY | Tickle Wy’s moneykink: 🪭onlyfans.com/wyohlee 🐈⬛sextpanther.com/wyoh 🎙️ BE A GUEST, SHARE A STORY, ASK A QUESTION | Leave a voice memo at sexstoriespodcast.com 🙌 SHARE SEX STORIES🌈 Explore (y)our curiosity.🤑 Offer irresistible invitations.💦 Spread ripples of love.

Jun 25, 2024 • 59min
Deep Casual Intimacy: Scott’s Update
Scott returns! His poly and BDSM experiences have led him to explore deeper levels of self-care and connection in a new chapter of academia. 00:00 Unexpected depth of a kitchen table poly relationship and handling reintegration after deployments.08:32 Applying BDSM scene negotiation techniques for comfort, cuddling, and receiving care as a Dom.16:34 The importance of desire, self-advocacy, asking for what you need, and investing time in exploring receptive anal. 26:29 How discovering himself while having multiple long-term partnerships led to a transition—blowing up his relationship *on purpose.*32:17 Experiencing casual dating for the first time in adulthood: dating apps vs. meeting people irl, plus wanting to curate romantic experiences for prospective partners.39:43 How self-care and discovering personal needs goes hand-in-hand with nurturing others.42:02 How kinksters are better at communication, everyone is kinky, and a dating experiment.50:11 Exploring poly desires, deep casual intimacy, and changing needs. 📈 STATS | 36 bisexual cis dude, he/him pronouns, polyamorous, Gentleman Dom, works in emergency medicine overseas, Pacific Northwest-based Scott's episode from March 2022 | Disaster Zone Dominant
🔥 PARTNERS | Make your world a sexier place—get a discount & support the pod!SDC: A place for swingers to connectFIRMTECH: Performance-enhancing cock rings | Use the code LOVER for 15% offBEDUCATED: Learn how to have great sexBUTTER WELLNESS: Prioritizing prostate pleasure | Use the code LOVER for 20% off ⚡️ WORK WITH WYOH | Explore (y)our creativity: wyohlee.com/linksOne-on-one photoshoots, content creation, writing retreats & creative support 🤩 PATREON | Wy’s exclusive updates, stories & the community discord: patreon.com/wyohlee 💸 PLAY | Tickle Wy’s moneykink: 🪭onlyfans.com/wyohlee 🐈⬛sextpanther.com/wyoh 🎙️ BE A GUEST, SHARE A STORY, ASK A QUESTION | Leave a voice memo at sexstoriespodcast.com 🙌 SHARE SEX STORIES🌈 Explore (y)our curiosity.🤑 Offer irresistible invitations.💦 Spread ripples of love.

Jun 18, 2024 • 56min
268 | Hard-On Helper TechRing: Dr. Elliot Justin & FirmTech
Dr. Elliot Justin comes on to share details of his underwearable invention that measures nocturnal erections—and is improving sex lives and overall health in huge ways. 00:00 Dr. Elliot Justin shares about how his medical school interest in aphrodisiacs led to creating an erection tracking cock ring.03:10 A pivotal horse riding accident led to creating a pacemaker for sexual health and led to an ejaculation instigation experiment.05:46 How wearable tech that tracks erections can provide life-saving medical info10:04 The revolutionary design of the TechRing, materials, and its vibrating companion16:39 How cock rings reduce anxiety around staying hard or coming too fast and help men and their partners have better sex20:33 Wearing the TechRing overnight, sizing and how it causes harder and longer orgasms26:27 Tips for finding bliss in urethral stimulation and pressure on the shaft and a discussion of pleasure devices for men29:35 Gathering data with your TechRing, how people have gameified it at a gay bachelor party weekend, and the issues with the sexual supplement industry32:46 How rings are more effective than pills and create an opportunity for deeper bonding, intimacy, and longer play.37:42 Enhancers vs aids: why cock rings are awesome tools39:53 How to use the data? with the FirmTech app.41:56 What porn and online shopping have in common, the health benefits of having daily sex and the shocking lack of sex ed for medical professionals.46:46 Urologists’ shame-o-meters and how to boost male confidence.49:45 The future: internal wearables for clit owners52:56 How transforming our approaches to healthcare could offer people a lifetime of lovemaking. 📈 STATS | 71 cis male, he/him pronouns, monogamous, married 36 years, physician, sexologist, orgasm advocate, horse rider, founder CEO of FirmTech, from Montana 🔗 LINKS | Use the code LOVER to get a discount, boost your sex life, track your health & support this pod here: myfirmtech.com/sexstories
🔥 PARTNERS | Make your world a sexier place—get a discount & support the pod!SDC: A place for swingers to connectFIRMTECH: Performance-enhancing cock rings | Use the code LOVER for 15% offBEDUCATED: Learn how to have great sexBUTTER WELLNESS: Prioritizing prostate pleasure | Use the code LOVER for 20% off ⚡️ WORK WITH WYOH | Explore (y)our creativity: wyohlee.com/linksOne-on-one photoshoots, content creation, writing retreats & creative support 🤩 PATREON | Wy’s exclusive updates, stories & the community discord: patreon.com/wyohlee 💸 PLAY | Tickle Wy’s moneykink: 🪭onlyfans.com/wyohlee 🐈⬛sextpanther.com/wyoh 🎙️ BE A GUEST, SHARE A STORY, ASK A QUESTION | Leave a voice memo at sexstoriespodcast.com 🙌 SHARE SEX STORIES🌈 Explore (y)our curiosity.🤑 Offer irresistible invitations.💦 Spread ripples of love.

Jun 11, 2024 • 1h 5min
Navigating Jealousy & Noticing Needs: Leah’s Update
Leah returns to share her latest polyamorous explorations! 00:00 She is DONE with shame and excited for period sex!06:31 How do I get a girlfriend? Leah is willing to fill in as a service Top and desires a femme Top, is exploring steering clear of men on dating apps, she and Wyoh commiserate on the experience of being straight-trained (comphet) bi girls.15:40 Going from open to polyamorous: past dating baggage plus the realities of time, priorities, and relationship hierarchies.21:47 Best dating question: “what’s bad about you in a relationship?” Reassurance is normal, building trust, and lessons learned from being a “chill girl” in hookup culture.29:18 Practicing easy come easy go vibes in a new romantic partnership, noticing her own needs during sex, figuring out in real time with her partners what her body wants, and Wyoh offers scripts for how to communicate in the moment.45:07 Learning how to navigate jealousy in polyamory, the importance of asking for what you want and allowing people to show up, plus the pitfalls of anticipating reactions.57:36 Rethinking having kids, dreams of poly community, detached dating defense mechanisms, leaning into comfort and trust as turn-ons. 📈 STATS | 30s queer woman, she/her pronouns, non-monogamous, married 11 years, screenwriter 🔗 LEAH LINKS | @newtononmonogamy / @leahfolta Leah's episode from April 2019 | The Woman Who Asks You OutLeah’s episode from May 2023 | We’re Open and Queer
🔥 PARTNERS | Make your world a sexier place—get a discount & support the pod!SDC: A place for swingers to connectFIRMTECH: Performance-enhancing cock rings | Use the code LOVER for 15% offBEDUCATED: Learn how to have great sexBUTTER WELLNESS: Prioritizing prostate pleasure | Use the code LOVER for 20% off ⚡️ WORK WITH WYOH | Explore (y)our creativity: wyohlee.com/linksOne-on-one photoshoots, content creation, writing retreats & creative support 🤩 PATREON | Wy’s exclusive updates, stories & the community discord: patreon.com/wyohlee 💸 PLAY | Tickle Wy’s moneykink: 🪭onlyfans.com/wyohlee 🐈⬛sextpanther.com/wyoh 🎙️ BE A GUEST, SHARE A STORY, ASK A QUESTION | Leave a voice memo at sexstoriespodcast.com 🙌 SHARE SEX STORIES🌈 Explore (y)our curiosity.🤑 Offer irresistible invitations.💦 Spread ripples of love.

Jun 4, 2024 • 1h 12min
267 | Orgy Dome Daddy: Lazlo’s Sex Stories
Lazlo (cis w m in a 19 year mono relationship) shares how he went from rockstar to porn lawyer and group Daddy of Orgy Dome, a staple of Burning Man for 20+ years run by and then there’s only LOVE. He talks Orgy Dome details & stories—health and safety practices and the many lines of defense to keep people safe while playing, what to expect once inside, choosing what to do first: Just for Us, Open to More, the Exhibitionist Bed & more, stopping straight guys pretending to be gay from getting in, a woman showing up with three guys on leashes, and first time tips for Burning Man. Lazlo is a sexual facilitator, he shares about filming underwater porn, filming in a firehouse with a pornstar and a fireman, immobilizing partners who want it with his bondage skills, how becoming a rope top is the same as learning to play the guitar, pros and cons of dating pornstars, being fetishized for being older, and gives free legal tips for porn creators. 🔗 LAZLO LINKS | instagram / twitter / fetlife
🔥 PARTNERS | Make your world a sexier place—get a discount & support the pod!SDC: A place for swingers to connectFIRMTECH: Performance-enhancing cock rings | Use the code LOVER for 15% offBEDUCATED: Learn how to have great sexBUTTER WELLNESS: Prioritizing prostate pleasure | Use the code LOVER for 20% off ⚡️ WORK WITH WYOH | Explore (y)our creativity: wyohlee.com/linksOne-on-one photoshoots, content creation, writing retreats & creative support 🤩 PATREON | Wy’s exclusive updates, stories & the community discord: patreon.com/wyohlee 💸 PLAY | Tickle Wy’s moneykink: 🪭onlyfans.com/wyohlee 🐈⬛sextpanther.com/wyoh 🎙️ BE A GUEST, SHARE A STORY, ASK A QUESTION | Leave a voice memo at sexstoriespodcast.com 🙌 SHARE SEX STORIES🌈 Explore (y)our curiosity.🤑 Offer irresistible invitations.💦 Spread ripples of love.

May 28, 2024 • 55min
Squirting MILF Era: Billy Procida’s Update
Billy returns to celebrate ten years of the Manwhore Podcast! 00:00 Can Billy help Wyoh be mean? And will they ever fuck? WHEN?05:11 More sex!!! New enjoyment of intimacy, connecting with people irl, rebuilding sexual confidence—and a hot MILF divorcée.12:48 A hot surprise during a recent happy ending massage + the mind-game of getting hard and soft (and hard again).17:58 Why he loves swallowing lady cum, solo and partnered squirting details, tips and best positions.24:56 Naked comedy updates, Billy’s take on how Wyoh scared a hot lover who was fingering her away with a request for edging, and different perspectives on loving dudes.31:37 Billy’s thoughts on love + an exciting new connection.37:12 CELEBRATING TEN YEARS of the Manwhore Podcast, reflections of a gangbang magnet, improv tips, and is Wyoh actually an alien???44:43 Details of Billy’s Oral Sex Auditions and how that inspired Wyoh’s masturbation meditation shares.50:34 Future comedy with AND without clothes, a cross-country connection, Billy’s new era of sex and dating coaching. 📈 STATS | Heterosexual cis male, he/him pronouns, stand-up comedian, host of The Manwhore Podcast, based in New York City 🔗 BILLY LINKS | the manwhore podcast / @billyisprocida / @thebillyprocida / @callmebilly Billy's episode from May 2019 | Naked ComedyBilly's episode from May 2023 | Beginner’s Guide to Play Parties
🔥 PARTNERS | Make your world a sexier place—get a discount & support the pod!SDC: A place for swingers to connectFIRMTECH: Performance-enhancing cock rings | Use the code LOVER for 15% offBEDUCATED: Learn how to have great sexBUTTER WELLNESS: Prioritizing prostate pleasure | Use the code LOVER for 20% off ⚡️ WORK WITH WYOH | Explore (y)our creativity: wyohlee.com/linksOne-on-one photoshoots, content creation, writing retreats & creative support 🤩 PATREON | Wy’s exclusive updates, stories & the community discord: patreon.com/wyohlee 💸 PLAY | Tickle Wy’s moneykink: 🪭onlyfans.com/wyohlee 🐈⬛sextpanther.com/wyoh 🎙️ BE A GUEST, SHARE A STORY, ASK A QUESTION | Leave a voice memo at sexstoriespodcast.com 🙌 SHARE SEX STORIES🌈 Explore (y)our curiosity.🤑 Offer irresistible invitations.💦 Spread ripples of love.

May 21, 2024 • 1h 5min
266 | Expert Orgasmanaut: Susan Bratton’s Sex Stories
Susan (62 poly pansexual cis w f married 30 years) shares how her quest for ruthless sexual self-expression has led to her helping first herself and now others find and thoroughly enjoy limitless pleasure. She talks about discovering conscious sexual community, unlocking great sex in her own marriage, the extreme fun of having both a husband and a boyfriend, STI testing practices in fluid-bonded groups of play friends and developing an at-home testing kit, how exactly to position oneself in a foursome with three men, maxing out botox levels and why she loves her body more than ever before. She also shares different categories of cumming, out of this world orgasms, how to be the best orgasmic ecstatic birth partner to a pregnant girlfriend, surefire techniques for escalating arousal, and what it means to be an “Orgasmanaut.” 🔗 LINKS | Grow your sex life & support this pod through Susan’s offerings: ➡️ The Steamy Sex Ed Video Collection➡️ Expand Her Orgasm Tonight➡️ Flow Stamina Booster
🔥 PARTNERS | Make your world a sexier place—get a discount & support the pod!SDC: A place for swingers to connectFIRMTECH: Performance-enhancing cock rings | Use the code LOVER for 15% offBEDUCATED: Learn how to have great sexBUTTER WELLNESS: Prioritizing prostate pleasure | Use the code LOVER for 20% off ⚡️ WORK WITH WYOH | Explore (y)our creativity: wyohlee.com/linksOne-on-one photoshoots, content creation, writing retreats & creative support 🤩 PATREON | Wy’s exclusive updates, stories & the community discord: patreon.com/wyohlee 💸 PLAY | Tickle Wy’s moneykink: 🪭onlyfans.com/wyohlee 🐈⬛sextpanther.com/wyoh 🎙️ BE A GUEST, SHARE A STORY, ASK A QUESTION | Leave a voice memo at sexstoriespodcast.com 🙌 SHARE SEX STORIES🌈 Explore (y)our curiosity.🤑 Offer irresistible invitations.💦 Spread ripples of love.

May 14, 2024 • 1h 21min
265 | Vulvas & Vacation Sex: Lindsay Wynn & Momotaro Apotheca
Lindsay (35 bi / pansexual w cis f currently monogamous) is the founder and CEO of Momotaro Apotheca, a next-level vulvovaginal care line, and comes on to share how being a boudoir photographer changed her life, what she loves about lingerie, and the one place you should NEVER have intercourse (and why). She talks about connecting with partners through sarcasm, creating a safe environment for exploration through nude and boudoir photography for both herself and clients, smashing internalized homophobia, how to talk to a partner about vaginal smell concerns, taking directions from lovers in yummy ways, breaking down the taboo of scissoring, being the best at giving head, what makes riding her partners so fun, and the secret to submission—plus she gives details about a first time experience that kicked off her anal explorations and a love for vacation sex. 🔗 LINDSAY LINKS | momotaroapotheca.com / @lovemomotaro / @lindsaywynn
🔥 PARTNERS | Make your world a sexier place—get a discount & support the pod!SDC: A place for swingers to connectFIRMTECH: Performance-enhancing cock rings | Use the code LOVER for 15% offBEDUCATED: Learn how to have great sexBUTTER WELLNESS: Prioritizing prostate pleasure | Use the code LOVER for 20% off ⚡️ WORK WITH WYOH | Explore (y)our creativity: wyohlee.com/linksOne-on-one photoshoots, content creation, writing retreats & creative support 🤩 PATREON | Wy’s exclusive updates, stories & the community discord: patreon.com/wyohlee 💸 PLAY | Tickle Wy’s moneykink: 🪭onlyfans.com/wyohlee 🐈⬛sextpanther.com/wyoh 🎙️ BE A GUEST, SHARE A STORY, ASK A QUESTION | Leave a voice memo at sexstoriespodcast.com 🙌 SHARE SEX STORIES🌈 Explore (y)our curiosity.🤑 Offer irresistible invitations.💦 Spread ripples of love.

May 10, 2024 • 55min
Friendship, Disappointment & Spicy Noods: A Just Noodling Experiment
How does Kimberly stay calm when Wyoh loses her shit? Join Wyoh and Kimberly for literal and figurative noodle slurping, podcast sadlibrarions, discussions of disappointment, love stories, and answering live questions from instagram about how to open up and share ourselves as we wonder out loud together on topics of gaming, art, collage, spicy fantasy reads—and very spicy ramen noodles!
🔥 PARTNERS | Make your world a sexier place—get a discount & support the pod!SDC: A place for swingers to connectFIRMTECH: Performance-enhancing cock rings | Use the code LOVER for 15% offBEDUCATED: Learn how to have great sexBUTTER WELLNESS: Prioritizing prostate pleasure | Use the code LOVER for 20% off ⚡️ WORK WITH WYOH | Explore (y)our creativity: wyohlee.com/linksOne-on-one photoshoots, content creation, writing retreats & creative support 🤩 PATREON | Wy’s exclusive updates, stories & the community discord: patreon.com/wyohlee 💸 PLAY | Tickle Wy’s moneykink: 🪭onlyfans.com/wyohlee 🐈⬛sextpanther.com/wyoh 🎙️ BE A GUEST, SHARE A STORY, ASK A QUESTION | Leave a voice memo at sexstoriespodcast.com 🙌 SHARE SEX STORIES🌈 Explore (y)our curiosity.🤑 Offer irresistible invitations.💦 Spread ripples of love.