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Sex Stories

302 | Actualizing Hedonism: Nico's Sex Stories

Apr 1, 2025
02:15:45

Voyeurism, non-monogamy, and exploring partner-specific kinks—Nico shares deep noodles on the power of permission and how he’s fortifying humanity through the gift of his own personal “medicine.”


 

00:00 Hedonism, collective enjoyment, and connecting with animals

05:20 How granting himself permission to be “selfish” allows him to experience what he loves and consciously gift himself to others

10:12 Practicing balance in all things and reflecting on past experiences to shape his future

15:44 Why he loves being asked to share present moments with others

17:40 Generosity tattooed on his soul and the gift of sharing “medicine”

23:46 Intense moments and out-of-body experiences for him and his partners

26:45 Laughter and communal joy that lead to intimacy

29:36 the ways he grounds himself in everyday moments and connecting with others during hard times

32:44 Eye gazing as his ultimate connector

39:20 Layering sensory pleasures and empowering humanity to find his own nirvana

42:51 Ego death and the cyclical nature of destruction and creation

47:26 Joyful non-monogamous explorations and preferred relational structures

53:50 Balancing his all-or-nothing tendencies and investing in his needs

1:02:14 Scandinavian influences: sex ed, a taboo-free night of freedom, and his first cougar encounter

1:10:36 How “self-preservation” and a fear of rejection in his early 20s led to pursuing older women

1:13:46 Public libraries, pin-up porn, and photographic voyeurism

1:19:05 Ambidextrous masturbations, scramble porn, and erotic supermarket magazines

1:23:35 Teasing and denial kink origins + an unexpected first handjob

1:31:07 Why he initiates sex with enthusiastic oral + pros and cons of being performance-focused

1:38:06 Energetic erogenous explorations and sharing sex-inspired creativity

1:46:20 Why he loves satisfying divorced women and the unparalleled pleasure in permission to pour his passion into lovers

1:51:10 Enabling his most Dominant self with his submissive Good Girl partner

1:55:13 How non-monogamy helps him discover the different sides of himself and noodles on “mating for life”

2:01:11 Sharing sensuality and embracing wildness

2:03:06 Swedish orgies and finding kinksters wherever he goes

2:06:50 Voyeurism and double-teaming at a sex party

2:09:39 Subtle voyeuristic dreams and why he wants everyone to discover their North Star


 

📈 STATS | 39 straight Scandinavian-American, he/him pronouns, non-monogamous, film professional, California-based, world traveler, into: sensual self-discovery, sexuality and brain chemistry, hedonsim, reinvention, ethical non-monogamy, kink, partners’ pleasure, emotional sensuality, existentialism, non-attachment

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