

Sex Stories
Wyoh Lee
How do we connect? What makes a mutually satisfying relationship? What are other people into?These are real human stories. Guests share details of their personal lives and/or work to add emotional context to the confusing experience of attempting to relate to other human beings. The goal? To learn from and more deeply understand one another through exchanges of personal wisdom and experience.The focus is always connection and intimacy in our modern world: relationships, dating, friendship, cultural “norms” and taboos. Conversations explore vulnerability, shame, desire, pleasure, celebration, creative bucket lists, fantasy play spaces, irresistible invitations and so much more. Listen and share to co-create the story-based, connection-first sex ed we never got—but will all definitely benefit from. Let's co-create the new horizon of personal education, together. Let's learn from each other & spread ripples of love.Follow us on our new instagram: www.instagram.com/lunarwoohooCreated and hosted by Wyoh Lee | wyohlee.comEdited and produced by Kimberly Loftus | Contact | sexstoriespodcast@gmail.comShare a story or be a guest: sexstoriespodcast.com/guest
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Mar 18, 2025 • 1h 26min
300 | Oral Mastery: Bernie’s Sex Stories
Hollywood in the era of free love, cunnilingus joy and expertise, and reflections on relationships over his eight decades on this planet—Bernie shares how creativity flows through all aspects of his life as an Indigenous storyteller and generous lover. 00:00 Enthusiastic creativity and why writing is the “hardest artwork there is”02:37 The intimacy of reading someone a movie and what he loves about being close to a woman04:27 Falling in love with himself over and over through the process of writing06:48 What he loves in a woman and his natural generosity10:23 Tips on how to kiss and his introductory experiences with physical intimacy14:35 Connecting through humor and why he always prefers talking over texting19:12 The unique chemistry of every relationship and knowing when the energy isn’t a match23:44 How there can still be deep love even with a lifestyle mismatch29:16 Hollywood free love in the 60s, handjobs on acid, and yelling “fire” to interrupt an assault33:00 Teaching a girl how to give the best blowjobs35:37 Eyes, tits, nipples, and clits + his favorite ways to make partners cum38:28 Turn-ons from partners’ reactions and why he rarely edges women42:31 Go-to masturbation habits and being okay with taking a long time to orgasm44:53 How he plays with pussies and his hands-on sex education48:59 Passed around from friend-to-friend and free love hippies51:19 Five girls in one week and the benefits (and drawbacks) of being a word-of-mouth lover55:44 What it’s like being with three girls at the same time57:22 Spiritual relationship needs and cumming through jeans1:02:57 How to give a great foot massage with cowboy boots on1:05:39 Car sex, sensitive thighs, and anal play preferences1:10:12 Creative condoms and the clap1:11:27 Preferring “natural toys” during sex1:13:30 Why cowgirl is his favorite sexual position1:15:56 Three-hour phone sex sessions and face-sitting surprises1:19:18 How a brain operation and a blitzed-out Halloween experience led to a substance-free lifestyle1:24:08 Spreading love and embracing Indigenous sovereignty instead of war 📈 STATS | 76 straight Indigenous Native human, he/him pronouns, single, writer/director, from Southern California, into: female orgasms, kissing, receiving head, humor, writing
🔥 PARTNERS | Make your world a sexier place—get a discount & support the pod!SDC: A place for swingers to connectFIRMTECH: Performance-enhancing cock rings | Use the code LOVER for 15% offBEDUCATED: Learn how to have great sexBUTTER WELLNESS: Prioritizing prostate pleasure | Use the code LOVER for 20% off ⚡️ WORK WITH WYOH | Explore (y)our creativity: wyohlee.com/linksOne-on-one photoshoots, content creation, writing retreats & creative support 🤩 PATREON | Wy’s exclusive updates, stories & the community discord: patreon.com/wyohlee 💸 PLAY | Tickle Wy’s moneykink: 🪭onlyfans.com/wyohlee 🐈⬛sextpanther.com/wyoh 🎙️ BE A GUEST, SHARE A STORY, ASK A QUESTION | Leave a voice memo at sexstoriespodcast.com 🙌 SHARE SEX STORIES🌈 Explore (y)our curiosity.🤑 Offer irresistible invitations.💦 Spread ripples of love.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Mar 11, 2025 • 1h 29min
299 | Erotica Education: Jessica Xie’s Sex Stories
Uninhibited horniness, dirty talk, using the stoplight system (red yellow green), and connecting through information exchanges with fellow sex nerds—Jess shares how her love for learning and deep communication fuels authentic connections both in her personal life and as a legal courtesan. 00:00 Investing in connection and being a “huge nerd”02:54 Growing up in a Chinese-American household where “food is care” + nostalgic dishes she loves to make05:23 The continuous process of learning self love and why she wants to go to a head spa08:15 Auralism, naked couch time, and feeling valued through shared experiences11:37 Why she talks through TV shows and movies18:06 The importance of feeling valued + ethical non-monogamy (ENM) and brothel health and safety practices21:56 Using the red, yellow, green safeword system and all the ways she likes to communicate with partners26:06 Her introduction to sex through Tamora Pierce books and Harry Potter fanfiction31:03 Exploring her own body, scant sisterly sex advice, and a secret make-out with a cute Italian boy34:16 Blowing ten guys at an uninhibited high school house party37:09 Being SO horny and what she loves about penises40:26 How oral turned into early kink explorations with trusted partners45:45 Creating sex contracts in high school and how she healed after an assault50:29 Popping her cherry after six hours of warm up53:46 Tight, wet, and being stretched56:09 ORGASMS! Clitoral quickies, g-spot squeezes, and orgasmic neck kisses57:53 Sapiosexuality and how she can cum from talking and reading1:01:35 Impact play, restraints, and extremely sensitive skin1:04:25 Masturbating in a circular bed for an audience1:07:06 Exhibitionism origins and how many orgasms she can have in 30 minutes1:10:31 Queer identity evolution from label-free to "definitely not straight"1:12:01 How being a legal courtesan is a perfect fit + her favorite brothel discoveries1:15:35 Helping a grieving widower reconnect with himself1:19:30 Excited for an overnight with Wyoh, playing with more couples, and exploring other ladies (+ their friends!)1:21:30 Her personal pleasure palace: a bed as a stage, shibari instructors, one way mirrors, and more1:25:56 Practicing community, spreading communication, and more kissing 📈 STATS | 30 pansexual American-born Chinese female, she/her pronouns, ethically non-monogamous, sex nerd, legal courtesan at Sheri’s Ranch near Las Vegas, from the East Coast, into: authentic connection, sapiosexuality, auralism, sensory play, MFM FFM threesomes, dicks, behavioral economics, ancient Greek history and literature 🔗 JESSICA LINKS | sheri's ranch profile / @jessicaxie_OXO
🔥 PARTNERS | Make your world a sexier place—get a discount & support the pod!SDC: A place for swingers to connectFIRMTECH: Performance-enhancing cock rings | Use the code LOVER for 15% offBEDUCATED: Learn how to have great sexBUTTER WELLNESS: Prioritizing prostate pleasure | Use the code LOVER for 20% off ⚡️ WORK WITH WYOH | Explore (y)our creativity: wyohlee.com/linksOne-on-one photoshoots, content creation, writing retreats & creative support 🤩 PATREON | Wy’s exclusive updates, stories & the community discord: patreon.com/wyohlee 💸 PLAY | Tickle Wy’s moneykink: 🪭onlyfans.com/wyohlee 🐈⬛sextpanther.com/wyoh 🎙️ BE A GUEST, SHARE A STORY, ASK A QUESTION | Leave a voice memo at sexstoriespodcast.com 🙌 SHARE SEX STORIES🌈 Explore (y)our curiosity.🤑 Offer irresistible invitations.💦 Spread ripples of love.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Mar 4, 2025 • 1h 48min
298 | Bumping Pelvises: Clara’s Sex Stories
Boldness, banter, boundaries and mental stimulation plus her very own reverse harem—Clara is a big dick magnet, proudly facilitates puddles of cum, and shares her reflections on love and what she needs in relationships. 00:00 Emotionally guarded but open to imperfect love03:21 How she honed her practice of patience and positive self-talk05:45 Dreams of ink therapy, self-care maintenance, and what she loves about getting tattooed08:42 Words backed by actions, being prioritized, and the need for mental stimulation12:50 Reading people and how she knows when they’re hiding themselves15:18 Playful banter and needing to be seen as a whole person17:32 How working with a queer youth group led to preferring repeat sexual partners20:20 Harem origins, enforcing strong boundaries, and a very hungry vagina24:48 Getting past the honeymoon phase and growing together from a firm foundation31:56 Knowing what she wants and giving no fucks34:41 Early introductions to sex and navigating relationships after multiple assaults39:00 How she found healthier ways to heal herself and the power of forgiveness43:57 Her first time: on halloween, in a graveyard—and the benefits of period sex47:41 Experimental 20s: corsets, BDSM, and learning via sex shop mystery bags53:45 How gaining comfort in her body led to enjoying cunnilingus and embracing empowered pleasure57:52 Clara's tips for giving the best blowjob59:35 FFF threesome learnings1:04:24 Squirt revelations and learning about her body through partnered play1:06:13 Deep throat training and finding edges of her limits1:12:21 The sensual joys of making out and getting thrown around like a ragdoll1:15:06 Different orgasms she can have AT THE SAME TIME1:18:49 Anal as dessert and how she can tell who has a big dick1:22:15 Playing with butts, squirting from anal, and entering Domme mode when pegging1:25:56 Raising anticipation through sensory deprivation and extending sexual experiences through teasing1:30:30 Solo play: cockrings on clits, vibrating dildos, shockers, suckers, and other favorite sex toys1:37:19 Plans for pansexual explorations and inviting deeper emotional attachments1:41:00 Dreams of dungeons and why monogamy isn't for her1:45:39 The importance of communication, advocating for yourself, and daily laughter 📈 STATS | 41 white, pansexual, she/they/any pronouns, polyamorous, US midwest, into: teasing, (reverse) harems, kissing, pussy worship, giving and receiving head, corsets, hard sex, pegging, threesomes, mental stimulation and getting what she wants
🔥 PARTNERS | Make your world a sexier place—get a discount & support the pod!SDC: A place for swingers to connectFIRMTECH: Performance-enhancing cock rings | Use the code LOVER for 15% offBEDUCATED: Learn how to have great sexBUTTER WELLNESS: Prioritizing prostate pleasure | Use the code LOVER for 20% off ⚡️ WORK WITH WYOH | Explore (y)our creativity: wyohlee.com/linksOne-on-one photoshoots, content creation, writing retreats & creative support 🤩 PATREON | Wy’s exclusive updates, stories & the community discord: patreon.com/wyohlee 💸 PLAY | Tickle Wy’s moneykink: 🪭onlyfans.com/wyohlee 🐈⬛sextpanther.com/wyoh 🎙️ BE A GUEST, SHARE A STORY, ASK A QUESTION | Leave a voice memo at sexstoriespodcast.com 🙌 SHARE SEX STORIES🌈 Explore (y)our curiosity.🤑 Offer irresistible invitations.💦 Spread ripples of love.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Feb 25, 2025 • 1h 56min
297 | Learning as Self Love: Yeh Ka-ching’s Sex Stories
Philosophical musings on art and voyeurism through the lens—Yeh shares how his “lack of emotion” inspired a life of trying out different personae and his transition from street photography on the Las Vegas Strip to stepping into the world of survival sex workers. 00:00 Documenting strangers’ sexualities and his personal academic reading habits06:54 Noodling on narcissism and approaching every interaction as significant09:37 Masking, social alienation, and exploring taboo14:25 Why his masculine role models are the “cowboys of porn” and the different sides of his Self18:30 Directing a dominatrix during a shoot and how his shame changes based on his active persona21:23 Reflections on the social construction of taboo and becoming desensitized to what was once “forbidden”26:21 Photography origins: surveillance-style photography, gonzo journalism, and erotica30:38 Voyeuristic inspiration from David Lynch’s Blue Velvet and learning as self love35:25 Feeling disconnected and experiencing social intimacy through information exchanges38:31 His analytical approach to human connection44:28 Pinning down what excitement actually is and how learning is always in support of his actions47:12 The secret to being a good voyeur and physiologically reactionary sexual attraction51:21 Ultimate voyeurism dreams + hypocritical health, safety, and consent practices54:35 Following assumptions and social scripts to achieve his desires56:15 Big reactions to his art and being shunned for documenting subjects on the edge of society59:32 Signaling shame and using context clues to assume peoples’ lines1:02:23 Being ostracized by clowns for his provocative work1:05:37 Approaching life with humor and why he likes being a "nice sociopath"1:08:15 Desires informed by Greek classics and the sexiness of androgynous femininity1:12:10 Putting on personae and his day-to-day asexuality1:15:48 Preferring exercise to ejaculation and post-photography masturbation1:18:29 How weightlifting leads him to easier arousal1:20:21 Enjoying sensations of lips and softness on his balls1:24:46 Discovering his queerness with the local puppy play coalition + his take on the Erotic and Eroticism1:28:58 Turned on by extremes as a photographer and a hands-on dildo experience1:32:27 An anonymous open-door fisting session and hiding in a makeshift gloryhole1:35:22 The thrill of documenting unpredictable situations and his "cognitive basis for morality"1:39:48 His most shocking stories and writing vignettes of each encounter1:44:17 Dreams of sissy porn, capturing the feminine mystique on film, and leaving space for the unknown1:48:46 Ideological lines, normalizing taboo desires, and why he wants to know what drives you 📈 STATS | 33 heterosexual queer Chinese man, he/him pronouns, monogamous, freelance photographer, classics scholar, lifer, from Las Vegas, into: sex, sexuality, voyeurism, documenting sexual experiences, philosophy, nihilism
🔥 PARTNERS | Make your world a sexier place—get a discount & support the pod!SDC: A place for swingers to connectFIRMTECH: Performance-enhancing cock rings | Use the code LOVER for 15% offBEDUCATED: Learn how to have great sexBUTTER WELLNESS: Prioritizing prostate pleasure | Use the code LOVER for 20% off ⚡️ WORK WITH WYOH | Explore (y)our creativity: wyohlee.com/linksOne-on-one photoshoots, content creation, writing retreats & creative support 🤩 PATREON | Wy’s exclusive updates, stories & the community discord: patreon.com/wyohlee 💸 PLAY | Tickle Wy’s moneykink: 🪭onlyfans.com/wyohlee 🐈⬛sextpanther.com/wyoh 🎙️ BE A GUEST, SHARE A STORY, ASK A QUESTION | Leave a voice memo at sexstoriespodcast.com 🙌 SHARE SEX STORIES🌈 Explore (y)our curiosity.🤑 Offer irresistible invitations.💦 Spread ripples of love.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

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Feb 18, 2025 • 1h 8min
Kinky Autistic Sex Nerd: Jack’s Update
Jack shares wild tales of pegging, unexpected orgies, and explorations in kink. Discover how a formal autism diagnosis reshaped their view on sexual dynamics. Learn about sensory play, flogging tips, and the thrill of threesomes, including a delightful anecdote about a pregnant couple. Jack recounts humorous dating misadventures, including a memorable encounter with a dentist. With insights on navigating intimacy and communication, this conversation is both enlightening and entertaining!

Feb 11, 2025 • 1h 31min
296 | Mutually Selfish Marriage: Elizabeth’s Sex Stories
Discover the art of radical self-care and the magic of romance novels as Elizabeth shares her journey in a nurturing marriage. She highlights the joy of feeling chosen and the significance of grand romantic gestures. Explore the concept of a mutually 'selfish' marriage that fosters individual happiness. Elizabeth discusses navigating asexual relationships, the importance of communication, and her open thoughts on polyamory. The conversation wraps up with the value of solo time and creative outlets, all while embracing vulnerability and emotional connection.

Feb 5, 2025 • 44min
Cock Rings & Cars: BJ’s Update
Dive into the playful intersection of nudism and car shows, where humor meets personal exploration. Discover the exciting world of innovative sex toys, including high-tech cock rings that enhance pleasure. BJ shares his journey reclaiming sexuality post-injury and delves into the emotional nuances of solo play. Explore concepts like compersion, the joys of giving, and the balance between seeking perfection and enjoying authentic connections in alternative lifestyles. Join in on the candid reflections about swinging, self-discovery, and community.

Feb 4, 2025 • 1h 9min
295 | Happy Sexy Easygoing Workaholic: Brian Gross’ Sex Stories
In this engaging discussion, Brian Gross, the President of BSG PR, shares his colorful journey through the adult entertainment industry. He reflects on balancing work with personal life, the joys of dry humping, and discovering masturbation later in life. Candidly, he tackles the realities of censorship and communication in modern media. Brian also dives into romanticizing his work and the generational shifts in dating and relationships. With charisma, he recounts wild tales from the Playboy Mansion and his adventures in solo travel.

Jan 28, 2025 • 2h 44min
294 | Life of Yum: Olivia Carter’s Sex Stories
Olivia Carter, an artist and sapiosexual demisexual Black woman, shares her vibrant journey of self-love and connection. She discusses finding joy in everyday pleasures and the importance of nurturing oneself to serve others better. Olivia explores love languages shaped by her upbringing and emphasizes clear communication as a key to fulfilling relationships. With a passion for astrology, she dives into how it influences emotions and interactions, fostering deeper connections that go beyond superficiality.

Jan 21, 2025 • 2h 29min
293 | Romantic Logistics With No Expectations: Avalon’s Sex Stories
Explore the fascinating journey of self-love and the journey from commitment to exploring non-monogamy. Hear insights on how past relationships shape current dynamics and the importance of emotional transparency. Delve into the complexities of jealousy and processing emotions while navigating the labyrinth of modern dating. With playful anecdotes, discover how identities evolve and the nuances of establishing genuine connections. Plus, a humorous take on bratting and the pursuit of intimacy brings a light-hearted twist to these explorations.