
Sex Stories
How do we connect? What makes a mutually satisfying relationship? What are other people into?
These are real human stories. Guests share details of their personal lives and/or work to add emotional context to the confusing experience of attempting to relate to other human beings. The goal? To learn from and more deeply understand one another through exchanges of personal wisdom and experience.
The focus is always connection and intimacy in our modern world: relationships, dating, friendship, cultural “norms” and taboos. Conversations explore vulnerability, shame, desire, pleasure, celebration, creative bucket lists, fantasy play spaces, irresistible invitations and so much more. Listen and share to co-create the story-based, connection-first sex ed we never got—but will all definitely benefit from. Let's co-create the new horizon of personal education, together. Let's learn from each other & spread ripples of love.
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Created and hosted by Wyoh Lee | wyohlee.com
Edited and produced by Jason Defillippo |
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Latest episodes

Mar 4, 2025 • 1h 48min
298 | Bumping Pelvises: Clara’s Sex Stories
Boldness, banter, boundaries and mental stimulation plus her very own reverse harem—Clara is a big dick magnet, proudly facilitates puddles of cum, and shares her reflections on love and what she needs in relationships. 00:00 Emotionally guarded but open to imperfect love03:21 How she honed her practice of patience and positive self-talk05:45 Dreams of ink therapy, self-care maintenance, and what she loves about getting tattooed08:42 Words backed by actions, being prioritized, and the need for mental stimulation12:50 Reading people and how she knows when they’re hiding themselves15:18 Playful banter and needing to be seen as a whole person17:32 How working with a queer youth group led to preferring repeat sexual partners20:20 Harem origins, enforcing strong boundaries, and a very hungry vagina24:48 Getting past the honeymoon phase and growing together from a firm foundation31:56 Knowing what she wants and giving no fucks34:41 Early introductions to sex and navigating relationships after multiple assaults39:00 How she found healthier ways to heal herself and the power of forgiveness43:57 Her first time: on halloween, in a graveyard—and the benefits of period sex47:41 Experimental 20s: corsets, BDSM, and learning via sex shop mystery bags53:45 How gaining comfort in her body led to enjoying cunnilingus and embracing empowered pleasure57:52 Clara's tips for giving the best blowjob59:35 FFF threesome learnings1:04:24 Squirt revelations and learning about her body through partnered play1:06:13 Deep throat training and finding edges of her limits1:12:21 The sensual joys of making out and getting thrown around like a ragdoll1:15:06 Different orgasms she can have AT THE SAME TIME1:18:49 Anal as dessert and how she can tell who has a big dick1:22:15 Playing with butts, squirting from anal, and entering Domme mode when pegging1:25:56 Raising anticipation through sensory deprivation and extending sexual experiences through teasing1:30:30 Solo play: cockrings on clits, vibrating dildos, shockers, suckers, and other favorite sex toys1:37:19 Plans for pansexual explorations and inviting deeper emotional attachments1:41:00 Dreams of dungeons and why monogamy isn't for her1:45:39 The importance of communication, advocating for yourself, and daily laughter 📈 STATS | 41 white, pansexual, she/they/any pronouns, polyamorous, US midwest, into: teasing, (reverse) harems, kissing, pussy worship, giving and receiving head, corsets, hard sex, pegging, threesomes, mental stimulation and getting what she wants
🔥 PARTNERS | Make your world a sexier place—get a discount & support the pod!SDC: A place for swingers to connectFIRMTECH: Performance-enhancing cock rings | Use the code LOVER for 15% offBEDUCATED: Learn how to have great sexBUTTER WELLNESS: Prioritizing prostate pleasure | Use the code LOVER for 20% off ⚡️ WORK WITH WYOH | Explore (y)our creativity: wyohlee.com/linksOne-on-one photoshoots, content creation, writing retreats & creative support 🤩 PATREON | Wy’s exclusive updates, stories & the community discord: patreon.com/wyohlee 💸 PLAY | Tickle Wy’s moneykink: 🪭onlyfans.com/wyohlee 🐈⬛sextpanther.com/wyoh 🎙️ BE A GUEST, SHARE A STORY, ASK A QUESTION | Leave a voice memo at sexstoriespodcast.com 🙌 SHARE SEX STORIES🌈 Explore (y)our curiosity.🤑 Offer irresistible invitations.💦 Spread ripples of love.

Feb 25, 2025 • 1h 56min
297 | Learning as Self Love: Yeh Ka-ching’s Sex Stories
Philosophical musings on art and voyeurism through the lens—Yeh shares how his “lack of emotion” inspired a life of trying out different personae and his transition from street photography on the Las Vegas Strip to stepping into the world of survival sex workers. 00:00 Documenting strangers’ sexualities and his personal academic reading habits06:54 Noodling on narcissism and approaching every interaction as significant09:37 Masking, social alienation, and exploring taboo14:25 Why his masculine role models are the “cowboys of porn” and the different sides of his Self18:30 Directing a dominatrix during a shoot and how his shame changes based on his active persona21:23 Reflections on the social construction of taboo and becoming desensitized to what was once “forbidden”26:21 Photography origins: surveillance-style photography, gonzo journalism, and erotica30:38 Voyeuristic inspiration from David Lynch’s Blue Velvet and learning as self love35:25 Feeling disconnected and experiencing social intimacy through information exchanges38:31 His analytical approach to human connection44:28 Pinning down what excitement actually is and how learning is always in support of his actions47:12 The secret to being a good voyeur and physiologically reactionary sexual attraction51:21 Ultimate voyeurism dreams + hypocritical health, safety, and consent practices54:35 Following assumptions and social scripts to achieve his desires56:15 Big reactions to his art and being shunned for documenting subjects on the edge of society59:32 Signaling shame and using context clues to assume peoples’ lines1:02:23 Being ostracized by clowns for his provocative work1:05:37 Approaching life with humor and why he likes being a "nice sociopath"1:08:15 Desires informed by Greek classics and the sexiness of androgynous femininity1:12:10 Putting on personae and his day-to-day asexuality1:15:48 Preferring exercise to ejaculation and post-photography masturbation1:18:29 How weightlifting leads him to easier arousal1:20:21 Enjoying sensations of lips and softness on his balls1:24:46 Discovering his queerness with the local puppy play coalition + his take on the Erotic and Eroticism1:28:58 Turned on by extremes as a photographer and a hands-on dildo experience1:32:27 An anonymous open-door fisting session and hiding in a makeshift gloryhole1:35:22 The thrill of documenting unpredictable situations and his "cognitive basis for morality"1:39:48 His most shocking stories and writing vignettes of each encounter1:44:17 Dreams of sissy porn, capturing the feminine mystique on film, and leaving space for the unknown1:48:46 Ideological lines, normalizing taboo desires, and why he wants to know what drives you 📈 STATS | 33 heterosexual queer Chinese man, he/him pronouns, monogamous, freelance photographer, classics scholar, lifer, from Las Vegas, into: sex, sexuality, voyeurism, documenting sexual experiences, philosophy, nihilism
🔥 PARTNERS | Make your world a sexier place—get a discount & support the pod!SDC: A place for swingers to connectFIRMTECH: Performance-enhancing cock rings | Use the code LOVER for 15% offBEDUCATED: Learn how to have great sexBUTTER WELLNESS: Prioritizing prostate pleasure | Use the code LOVER for 20% off ⚡️ WORK WITH WYOH | Explore (y)our creativity: wyohlee.com/linksOne-on-one photoshoots, content creation, writing retreats & creative support 🤩 PATREON | Wy’s exclusive updates, stories & the community discord: patreon.com/wyohlee 💸 PLAY | Tickle Wy’s moneykink: 🪭onlyfans.com/wyohlee 🐈⬛sextpanther.com/wyoh 🎙️ BE A GUEST, SHARE A STORY, ASK A QUESTION | Leave a voice memo at sexstoriespodcast.com 🙌 SHARE SEX STORIES🌈 Explore (y)our curiosity.🤑 Offer irresistible invitations.💦 Spread ripples of love.

4 snips
Feb 18, 2025 • 1h 8min
Kinky Autistic Sex Nerd: Jack’s Update
Jack shares wild tales of pegging, unexpected orgies, and explorations in kink. Discover how a formal autism diagnosis reshaped their view on sexual dynamics. Learn about sensory play, flogging tips, and the thrill of threesomes, including a delightful anecdote about a pregnant couple. Jack recounts humorous dating misadventures, including a memorable encounter with a dentist. With insights on navigating intimacy and communication, this conversation is both enlightening and entertaining!

Feb 11, 2025 • 1h 31min
296 | Mutually Selfish Marriage: Elizabeth’s Sex Stories
Discover the art of radical self-care and the magic of romance novels as Elizabeth shares her journey in a nurturing marriage. She highlights the joy of feeling chosen and the significance of grand romantic gestures. Explore the concept of a mutually 'selfish' marriage that fosters individual happiness. Elizabeth discusses navigating asexual relationships, the importance of communication, and her open thoughts on polyamory. The conversation wraps up with the value of solo time and creative outlets, all while embracing vulnerability and emotional connection.

Feb 5, 2025 • 44min
Cock Rings & Cars: BJ’s Update
Dive into the playful intersection of nudism and car shows, where humor meets personal exploration. Discover the exciting world of innovative sex toys, including high-tech cock rings that enhance pleasure. BJ shares his journey reclaiming sexuality post-injury and delves into the emotional nuances of solo play. Explore concepts like compersion, the joys of giving, and the balance between seeking perfection and enjoying authentic connections in alternative lifestyles. Join in on the candid reflections about swinging, self-discovery, and community.

Feb 4, 2025 • 1h 9min
295 | Happy Sexy Easygoing Workaholic: Brian Gross’ Sex Stories
In this engaging discussion, Brian Gross, the President of BSG PR, shares his colorful journey through the adult entertainment industry. He reflects on balancing work with personal life, the joys of dry humping, and discovering masturbation later in life. Candidly, he tackles the realities of censorship and communication in modern media. Brian also dives into romanticizing his work and the generational shifts in dating and relationships. With charisma, he recounts wild tales from the Playboy Mansion and his adventures in solo travel.

Jan 28, 2025 • 2h 44min
294 | Life of Yum: Olivia Carter’s Sex Stories
Olivia Carter, an artist and sapiosexual demisexual Black woman, shares her vibrant journey of self-love and connection. She discusses finding joy in everyday pleasures and the importance of nurturing oneself to serve others better. Olivia explores love languages shaped by her upbringing and emphasizes clear communication as a key to fulfilling relationships. With a passion for astrology, she dives into how it influences emotions and interactions, fostering deeper connections that go beyond superficiality.

Jan 21, 2025 • 2h 29min
293 | Romantic Logistics With No Expectations: Avalon’s Sex Stories
Explore the fascinating journey of self-love and the journey from commitment to exploring non-monogamy. Hear insights on how past relationships shape current dynamics and the importance of emotional transparency. Delve into the complexities of jealousy and processing emotions while navigating the labyrinth of modern dating. With playful anecdotes, discover how identities evolve and the nuances of establishing genuine connections. Plus, a humorous take on bratting and the pursuit of intimacy brings a light-hearted twist to these explorations.

Jan 14, 2025 • 1h 5min
292 | Naughty Nasty Taboo: Spike’s Sex Stories
Dive into a world where intimacy dances with community! Explore the charm of clumsiness and its role in embracing sexual identity. Discover the evolution from survival sex work to intimate educator and the playful dynamics of dominance and submission. Savor discussions on personal empowerment through solo play and the allure of various kinks, from foot fetishes to leather. Finally, celebrate the importance of love and open dialogue in nurturing a supportive and connected community around sexuality.

Jan 7, 2025 • 2h 42min
291 | How Far (And Much) I’ve Come: Wyoh’s Update
Dive into a personal journey of sexual discovery and identity. Enjoy reflections on the impact of early sex education and the journey to self-acceptance. Experience candid discussions about boundaries, consent, and the evolution of sexual preferences. Explore the intersection of intimacy and creativity, revealing how exercise enhances sexual experiences. The blend of humor and vulnerability creates a rich dialogue on relationship dynamics and the importance of communication. It's an enlightening look into modern sexuality.