

Sex Stories
Wyoh Lee
How do we connect? What makes a mutually satisfying relationship? What are other people into?
These are real human stories. Guests share details of their personal lives and/or work to add emotional context to the confusing experience of attempting to relate to other human beings. The goal? To learn from and more deeply understand one another through exchanges of personal wisdom and experience.
The focus is always connection and intimacy in our modern world: relationships, dating, friendship, cultural “norms” and taboos. Conversations explore vulnerability, shame, desire, pleasure, celebration, creative bucket lists, fantasy play spaces, irresistible invitations and so much more. Listen and share to co-create the story-based, connection-first sex ed we never got—but will all definitely benefit from. Let's co-create the new horizon of personal education, together. Let's learn from each other & spread ripples of love.
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Created and hosted by Wyoh Lee | wyohlee.com
Edited and produced by Jason Defillippo |
Contact | sexstoriespodcast@gmail.com
Share a story or be a guest: sexstoriespodcast.com/guest
These are real human stories. Guests share details of their personal lives and/or work to add emotional context to the confusing experience of attempting to relate to other human beings. The goal? To learn from and more deeply understand one another through exchanges of personal wisdom and experience.
The focus is always connection and intimacy in our modern world: relationships, dating, friendship, cultural “norms” and taboos. Conversations explore vulnerability, shame, desire, pleasure, celebration, creative bucket lists, fantasy play spaces, irresistible invitations and so much more. Listen and share to co-create the story-based, connection-first sex ed we never got—but will all definitely benefit from. Let's co-create the new horizon of personal education, together. Let's learn from each other & spread ripples of love.
Follow us on our new instagram: www.instagram.com/xstoriespod
Created and hosted by Wyoh Lee | wyohlee.com
Edited and produced by Jason Defillippo |
Contact | sexstoriespodcast@gmail.com
Share a story or be a guest: sexstoriespodcast.com/guest
Episodes
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Feb 11, 2022 • 1h 12min
155 | Everyone is Hot: Adj’s Sex Stories
Adj (28 Black queer polyamorous cis f currently in multiple relationships) loves Toronto because it’s full of cuties, is an avid pillow humper, thinks everyone is hot and sex is sacred so why not try and do it with everyone, is less subby than she thought, loves pegging so much, and is living deliciously, following her desires. She is into sensory and impact play, exhibitionism, is new to pegging partners and is loving it, wants to explore being a soft domme, wants to get tied up more, and is turned on by earth.
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Feb 4, 2022 • 55min
154 | Tongue, Teeth, Tease: Charlie’s Sex Stories
Charlie (30 single bisexual Nigerian dude raised in an African Christian home and is still looking forward to his partnered sexual debut) is mostly out; though not with his mom. Turn ons: thigh high stockings, short skirts, being able to see the shape of the ass, feminine guys, and nice butts everywhere. Turn offs: beards and not wanting to use a condom. He shares details of first time masturbations involving a bucket, discovering his queerness, a summer of teases, moving to Germany and delighting in German sex toys, exploring Hentai and amateur porn, butt plug explorations, edging with toys, all the sensitive spots on his body, and his blowjob technique.
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Jan 28, 2022 • 1h 10min
153 | Play and Pleasure Wisdom: Dobromil’s Sex Stories
Sexy is playful: time and space different from the daily norm, and it’s clear Dobromil (33 homoflexible poly Slavic man) loves it, loves talking about it, and has gained so much pleasure wisdom, including amazing examples of how to have a safer-sex convo: R - relationship statusB - boundaries — right now, where to go?D - desires — a specific want you notice in this moment?S - sexual health — testing status? Partnership status? M - meaning — what does it mean for you? What do you want it to mean? He shares memories of his first arousal (Blue Lagoon!), why his dad was surprised during his sex talk, porn and pleasure in the forest, realizing his attraction toward penises, an early experience on the Croatian seashore that was exhilaration and the first cruising and experience and also first ping of shame. We talk gay culture, feeling SO gay together, and a ritual of desire that led him to a group of radical fairies! We get early details of water feeling good, an ANGEL of a human with a relaxed family whose disposition was so non-judgmental it softened the same. Sensual details, being too shy to come out to his family, a lover who opened up his eyes to creating relationships he wanted, and rewriting the monogamy script, and discovering Cindy Gallop’s Make Love Not Porn Ted Talk and wondering how to consciously go off script. Which led to more exploration, tantra, creativity, The Rainbow Gathering in Italy, a Croatian festival with sex workshops, The Mulit-Orgasmic Man, and getting pleasure from giving pleasure, youth nights at the (gay) saunas, and the difference between boundary setting in Eastern vs Western Europe, and the differences across sexual cultures, along with experiences getting STI tests in different countries, how condoms are like a diving suit, and getting turned on by straight porn!
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Jan 21, 2022 • 1h 1min
152 | Desire Discovery: Anna’s Sex Stories
Anna (33 bi pansexual w cis F married exploring kink, sensory play, nuru massage, switch, bondage, pet play) grew up religious in the south—and: her mom was the sex-ed teacher. Health and safety convos were always easy for her, but pleasure she had to figure out on her own. She takes us through her life: finding an unlabeled VHS that was hardcore BDSM porn when she was in first or second grade, figuring out orgasms were a thing but knowing it was private time, getting secretly fingered under a pillow around family in the living room, what it was like to find out a high school boyfriend was gay, and how she reveled in being an erotic power-filled prowless in college, where she finally got to explore and enjoy her horniness somewhere no one knew her, including awesome anal play and a phase where she would jerk off with her ass, and separately, nude modeling where she was able to practice asking for what she wanted and needed. These days, she’s happily and hotly married to a co-switch that she is magnetically attracted to, and with the help of the universe randomly leading them to a very kinky fire performance, eventually they found their way to exploring nuru massage and a kink crate subscription, which led to tales of working through partnered difficulties (consciously) with sex, details of nuru kiddie pool play (NOTE: NURU IS WATER-BASED AND TECHNICALLY CONDOM SAFE, BUT EXTREMELY SLIPPERY AND CAN CAUSE SLIPPAGE — PLAY CAREFULLY!!!), how clothes help her feel into her Domme side and how a recent bipolar II diagnosis has affected her sense of personal power, doctor, teacher, and pet play, a desire to be a long-tailed rainbow alien bear, dreams of stranger play, and sexy cooking that started with playful pinches with tongs one night.
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Jan 14, 2022 • 56min
151 | Unrequited Kinkiness & Photo Play: Hathor’s Sex Stories
Hathor (36 cis F androsexual submissive into rope bondage, erotic photography and getting awesomely fucked) is Horny. She thought exploring erotic photography was just a gateway to hot sex, but she’s realized: it’s one of her kinks. We talk about unrequited kinkiness, early not-safe-feeling experiences of partners pushing (reinforcing the message of “sometimes guys will want to have sex, and you’ll just have to” that was present in her upbringing), and casual flings brought ecstasy and magic. And, Hathor is a sex fiend. She found and researched with the help of Good Vibrations, and lived through her 20s with the hope that a worthy Dom/me would appear at some point. In the meantime, she dated a masc femme partner and finally decided she was ready for love, which led to a very hot body-centric partnership. We talk sex in a Hello Kitty tent at Burning Man, finally dabbling with rope and rope tops, and exploring big-budget fantasies in this next chapter, with lots of thoughtful noodling throughout the entire convo. Hathor’s Update from November 2022 | Public Rope Bunny 🔗 HATHOR LINKS | fetlife
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Jan 7, 2022 • 1h 3min
150 | Nurturing is My Love Language: LG’s Sex Stories
“I need to be used” is a new—but *very* clear—sentiment for LG (26 single Cuban American bi-curious cis f submissive), a little who is three months into a brand new Daddy Dom/little girl dynamic. She shares everything that led up to this relationship: the deep intimacy and consistent amazing sex (especially oral) of her 5-year teenage relationship, growing up Christian-ish and the lack of sex ed and clear language, making out with boys during nap time in preschool, and her first orgasm: an accidental peegasm when she was in elementary school. The opening of LG’s vagina is extremely sensitive and can cause her to cum, she also love rimming, and has come to the conclusion that monogamy with someone who’s not into oral is a dealbreaker. Luckily, her new daddy also loves it, and for the first time she feels her physical and emotional needs being deeply met, without the requirement of the connection heading toward life partnership. She talks about realizing she must be kinky, discovering she’s definitely a cumslut, gangbang fantasies, how how it is that her Daddy is fixed, understanding subspace, reading books with good sex, feeling ready for a vanilla threesome, how fast she cums (so edging is hard), and how hot it is to stare into a lover’s eyes while heartbeats and orgasms sync up.
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Dec 31, 2021 • 31min
149 | Divine Magical Hole: Stories of the Goddess
🥳 Happy 3 years of Sex Stories!!! Celebrating with a celestial being: a goddess who uses whatever pronoun is needed, ageless, lover to all lovers, into worship, tribute, self love; occupying a human container that is an artist; creative origin: from inside all of us. A discussion of pleasure in human form, The Goddess speaks to how she enjoys receiving worship and tribute both in the digital and 3D realms, being licked from head to toe to climactic ecstasy, and how shame experienced by her mortal form gave way to uninhibited goddess sexiness where communicating about desire explicitly makes all the difference. The Goddess also shares about her experience making health and safety practices something that turn lover-worshipers on, how hot it can be to inspect a lovers’ genitals before beginning, and what it’s like to be a courtesan in Nevada, how she likes to be taken from behind, the parts of her which receive the most attention, how seed/money is presented to her, the compliments she loves best, how she convenes with silent mortals who wish to commune with her and who find themselves speechless, feeling deserving and divine, and what it’s like to occupy a space full of other goddesses available to be worshiped, and Wyoh’s deepest, most taboo desires.
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Dec 24, 2021 • 1h 17min
148 | Non-Binary Video Voyeur: BellaDonnaKaren’s Sex Stories
Raised by a bi-mom who was clearly kinky and suffered from repression, BellaDonnaKaren (45 he/she/they w pansexual poly non-binary person who is married and partnered) is a lovely human after Wyoh’s very own heart, because they looooooove exploring. Topics of discussion: the sexiness of low cut silk lingerie, hotness of the hunt and following curiosity, difficult on dating apps, meeting their partner at 16 and being WILDLY attracted, a big shame experience resulting from their partner’s move to another state, and how that eventually became their wife, the internal turmoil caused by normalized ideas that romance includes a lot of partnership ideals in which ownership, possession, and jealousy are part of “love.” Neither BDK nor Wyoh are into that! They also talk early experiences, discovering riding crops, Kama sutra positions, oil, massage, candles, and how hot their girlfriend’s mom’s bedroom was — and the day they tried anal for the first time, on her crisp white sheets. And ball play, foreskins that led the way to masturbation discoveries, growing apart from their partner sexually during a period of shame, reconnecting after a period of intense porn marathons and starting to explore kink together, the effect of MDMA on their own personal feelings of shame and embarrassment melting away, and how that led to a sexual revolution and awakening in the late 20’s and early 30’s, in which they also learned that watching videos of other people fucking their wife is hot. And asking their mom about golden showers, and further explorations when it comes to appreciating BDSM in fantasy vs actually wanting to try it in the 3D world, how much they love being a target, what happened when they drank the golden shower of a partner on MDMA, and future desires to explore lovers of all ages, glory holes, orgies, more group play, and about BellaDonnaKaren, who is, in their words, a “goth chick that lives inside of me, that’s always lived inside of me” — and is, so far, not part of their sexual life, but is an extremely hot creative outlet. NOTE: Phimosis and paraphimosis are problems with the foreskin of the penis. Phimosis is when a foreskin can’t be pulled down (retracted) from the tip of the penis. This is a common problem in young boys. Paraphimosis is when the foreskin is retracted but can’t move back up. This can prevent normal blood flow in the penis, and may cause serious problems.
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Dec 17, 2021 • 1h 27min
147 | Trust, Healing & Ongoing Exploration: E and A’s Sex Stories
Talking about sex ahead of time didn’t just lead E (28 w queer trans non-monogamous non-binary person from Vermont) and A (26 w queer non-monogam-ish trans guy from from New York) into a few nights of hotness, but has led to a kink-tastic relationship (now that they both know how freaky they each are) of trust, healing and ongoing exploration. This episode is full of *so* many details, including: repurposing back massagers and lollipop vibrators, sex-positive parents, giving vs receiving and untangling desire and trauma, discovering multiple orgasms and squirting, embracing queerness and shucking off performative faux-sexiness, the slow burn of anticipation, light touches, why restraint is so hot, a rope suspension fantasy, squirting methods, early squirt shame, relief of chest impact play, praise kinks, tail goals, hard biting, a love of hickeys, breath play, body worship, inflatable anal toys, (I’m)patience limits, body-safe silicone bottles for insertion, group play dreams for the future, and: a google doc to share it all.
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Dec 10, 2021 • 1h 3min
146 | Dominant Women and Attitude: Hawthorn’s Sex Stories
Hawthorn (63 pansexual Anglo/Celtic Australian non-binary switch and pagan witch, married and polyamorous) loves kinky sex, and they’ve been exploring lots of vanilla sex lately! We talk about their evolution on the yes/no/maybe list, how sexy is an attitude (and also, a Dominant woman), and they tell us about the amazing sex parties they’ve experienced via a sex-positive, inclusive & safe group (curiouscreatures.biz). Their personal cunnilingus how-to has so many amazing, specific directions…but like poetry. We talk remembering line-drawing demons torturing people in hell in cartoons, their dad’s definition of a “Poofta,” and how they found their parents’ vibrator, how understandings of consent have evolved, how an open relationship has changed their sex life, and so, so many beautiful sexy and kinky details. 63 Anglo/Celtic Australian, Non-binary, They/Them, Pansexual, married/polyamorous, bottomy switch, very into cuddles, sensual play, impact, CBT, receptive anal, cunnilingus and rimming.
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