Let’s Get Real with Stephen Jones

Many faithful Saints silently wrestle with the same question: “Why do I still feel broken?” In this powerful episode, Dr. Kawika Allen unpacks the hidden spiritual struggle of scrupulosity—anxiety disguised as righteousness—and how it convinces even the most devoted disciples that they’re never enough. What if the reason you feel unworthy isn’t because you’ve failed, but because you’ve been trying to earn what was never meant to be earned? We explore the toxic grip of maladaptive perfectionism, the lies it tells, and the liberating truth that Christ’s grace meets us in our mess—not after we’ve cleaned it up. If faith has started to feel more like a burden than a blessing, this conversation will help you rediscover the rest and relief that comes from receiving, not performing for, the Savior’s love.

Dr. Timothy Rarick, a professor and family advocate who has spoken at the UN about father-daughter relationships, dives into the vital role of fathers in today's society. He argues that fatherhood is misunderstood and often marginalized, calling for more present dads rather than perfect ones. Rarick discusses the importance of the Family Proclamation as a blueprint for family life, critiques societal shifts leading to fatherlessness, and emphasizes the transformative power of engaged fatherhood for emotional development in children.

Dr. Brian Willoughby, a BYU professor specializing in marriage and family relationships, dives into the challenges of modern dating. He discusses how swipe culture is leading to delayed marriages and emotional detachment. Willoughby critiques the rise of 'Me-Marriage' and highlights the impact of individualism on intimacy. He encourages embracing commitment and covenant relationships, emphasizing the value of genuine connection amidst digital distractions. The conversation is a blend of heartfelt insights and hopeful guidance for navigating love in today's world.

What if the very thing you prayed would go away… is actually God’s invitation to know Him better? Ron Squire was living the life he planned, until a fall left him paralyzed and full of doubt. His faith didn’t feel like enough. But through the unlikely lens of Viktor Frankl, and a God who doesn’t waste suffering, Ron discovered something deeper: Pain isn’t punishment. It’s a privilege. And when you stop running from it… You might just find the faith you’ve been missing.

Dr. Jeffrey Thayne, a psychologist and BYU-I professor, dives into the emotional depths of faith and belief. He challenges the notion that logic alone can resolve crises of faith, revealing how moral intuitions and community shape our convictions. With amusing analogies and personal anecdotes, he emphasizes that genuine belief transformation comes from meaningful experiences, not just arguments. Thayne also discusses the struggle between societal pressures and personal morals, highlighting the need for compassion in navigating differing views.

John Hilton III, a scholar at Brigham Young University, shares profound insights on connecting with Christ through His suffering. He encourages listeners to face the crucifixion to deepen their understanding of love and sacrifice, and to reevaluate Latter-day Saint teachings about Gethsemane and Calvary. Personal anecdotes enhance the message, revealing the importance of compassion and forgiveness in spiritual journeys. Hilton also highlights how Christ's suffering can transform perspectives on faith and relationships, urging a more profound connection to divine love.

Austin Fife, author of the Light and Truth Letter, shares his profound journey from faith to doubt and back again. He discusses his crisis of belief triggered by personal loss and the unexpected support from his wife. Austin recounts challenges, including family struggles with addiction and the emotional turbulence of divorce. Through introspection, he emphasizes the importance of questioning beliefs and the role of community in navigating spirituality. His story showcases how vulnerability can lead to a richer and more resilient faith.

What happens when faith and Hollywood collide? Early in his career, actor Scott Christopher promised the Lord that he would be open about his faith at all times and in all circumstances. Keeping that promise opened up conversations and opportunities he never expected. In this episode of Let’s Get Real with Stephen Jones, Scott Christopher shares his incredible journey—from childhood dreams of performing to landing a major role in an Amazon Prime series. But along the way, he faced an unexpected challenge that tested his values and changed everything. He also opens up about his overall experience in the entertainment industry, what keeps him centered in his faith, and the defining moments that shaped his career. Can you stay true to your beliefs in Hollywood?

Did the Book of Mormon Witnesses Really See the Gold Plates? What if the most controversial testimonies in Latter-day Saint history weren’t just words—but undeniable evidence of something far bigger? In this episode of Let's Get Real, historian Don Bradley—who once left his faith but later returned—tackles the hardest, most controversial questions head-on: Were the Three and Eight Witnesses deceived? Were they part of a fabrication? Or did they really see the gold plates? Don reveals hidden details that change everything you thought you knew about their testimonies—not just as proof of an ancient record, but as witnesses of the Resurrected Christ. Because in the end, it’s not just about their testimony—it’s about ours. You might think you know the story—but once you see this evidence, you’ll never look at their testimonies the same way again.

In this engaging conversation, Casey Griffiths, a church historian and podcaster known for "Church History Matters," unpacks the financial practices of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints. He challenges misconceptions about the Church's wealth, explaining the foundational Law of Consecration and its focus on unity. Griffiths discusses the balance of saving and giving, the Church's humanitarian efforts, and how investments support community welfare, revealing the thoughtful principles behind their financial strategies.