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How to Have the Hardest Conversations—in Marriage, Politics, and Life

Plain English with Derek Thompson

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Looping for Understanding in Conflict Resolution

In conflict situations, the key to effective communication is looping for understanding. This technique involves asking a question, listening actively, repeating back what was heard in one's own words, and confirming understanding. By proving active listening, it triggers social reciprocity, encouraging the other party to listen in return. Moreover, it acts as a self-hack to prevent internal debates and ensure focused listening.

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