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219. How to Make a Friend & Find a Date with Logan Ury

We Can Do Hard Things

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How to Show Who You Really Are on a First Date

On a first date, it is important to tell stories that light you up and make you feel a lot about yourself. Sharing quirky and interesting stories about your life can help people connect with you on a deeper level. Instead of complaining or talking about negative things, focus on talking about what you want and the things in your life that make you shine. Don't try to be unobjectionable and please everyone; instead, be true to yourself and stand up for who you are. The goal is not to have everyone like you, but to find someone who truly likes the real you. Don't be afraid to show your complexities and share your true self, as this will make the other person feel more comfortable sharing their own complexities.

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