Highly effective people harness the Pygmalion effect by setting up positive expectations for themselves and others through the power of labels, thus bringing those expectations to life. They also focus on eliminating ambivalence in relationships and tasks. Moreover, the power of liking plays a significant role in likability, as individuals who are liked tend to have a longer list of people they like, thereby increasing their own likability. Being assertive in showing appreciation and liking towards others is key to enhancing likability, as it starts with actively spreading likability. Contrary to popular belief, being likable is not about others but about oneself, and it involves acknowledging and appreciating individuals through small gestures. Highly effective people are charismatic because they actively pursue relationships with individuals they genuinely like and openly express their admiration towards them, contributing to a positive and influential environment.
Do you want to know how to talk to anyone with ease and confidence?
In this episode, you will learn science-backed psychological tricks to be more successful, charismatic, and influential today.
Vanessa Van Edwards is the founder of The Science of People, a behavior lab that studies high achievers and the science of confidence and body language.
Her research proves that anyone can learn these practical skills and become a more successful person by using the same simple habits that almost every high achiever has.
Whether you want to be a better leader, land your dream job, achieve big goals, or align your life with what you want, this is the episode for you.
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If you liked this research-packed episode, you’ll love hearing Vanessa’s other appearance on the podcast: Research From Princeton: 13 Proven Hacks That Boost Your Influence & Make You More Confident
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