The need for approval in the presence of a group or crowd can lead to social anxiety, inhibiting our ability to flourish. Stoic philosophy offers insights on taming social anxiety and overcoming the fear of disapproval. Reflecting on the nature of a crowd and relating to individuals instead of groups helps diminish the anxious need for approval. Maintaining a state of calm indifference when attacked by others' scorn is essential. Pausing and choosing an appropriate response, treating insults as insignificant, and responding with humor are effective strategies. Humor diffuses tension, shows resilience, and breeds power. One should be able to laugh at oneself and recognize one's flaws with humility. Ultimately, it is important not to take oneself too seriously and learn to respond to insults with grace and self-awareness.
“Most people can never, even for a moment, disentangle themselves from the restraints imposed by those around them, nor can they disregard their approval. From the moment they begin to understand their parents’ smiles and frowns they have needed the moment to moment approval of everyone, even strangers…These people measure their entire worth by what […]
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