Victoria Kirby, an IFS and IFIO therapist from London, shares her insights on navigating the complexities of sex and sexuality. With a rich background in public health and sexual health advocacy, she discusses the intricate interplay of emotional needs, consent, and sexual shame in therapy. Victoria emphasizes the importance of creating a safe environment to explore genuine sexual needs and addresses challenges therapists face in discussions of sexuality. She also highlights her upcoming workshop, aiming to equip practitioners with tools for deeper conversations around sexual identity and relationships.