Janene Lin, an essayist, delves into her unconventional dating approach when she proposed a joint bank account on a third date. She reveals how the weight of paying or splitting bills made her feel undervalued in relationships. Janene shares chaotic family dinner rituals that shaped her money viewpoints and explains why she believed a joint account would test compatibility. Surprisingly, her date, Aodhán, agreed to meet at the bank, leading to a unique bond. Now married, they navigate family finances as partners, emphasizing the importance of early money conversations.
