In this enlightening chat, Drew Boa, founder of Husband Material and author of Outgrow Porn, shares his transformative journey from battling his sexuality to embracing it. He introduces the BOA method—Breathe, Observe, Attune—as a practical tool for managing urges. Drew emphasizes the importance of inner-child work and reframing relapses as growth opportunities. He promotes self-compassion and curiosity in the recovery process, encouraging listeners to understand the needs behind their urges, ultimately fostering a healthier relationship with sexuality.