In this episode, Carolyn Lovewell, author of 'Existential Kink' and a master of shadow work, dives into the fascinating ways we can transform our hidden desires into empowerment. She discusses why people are attracted to negativity, emphasizing the healing potential of self-acceptance. Through vivid storytelling, she shares her experiences with pleasure through discomfort and how confronting our deepest struggles reveals true strength. The conversation unpacks the relationship between creativity, spirituality, and personal growth, encouraging listeners to embrace their unique journeys.