Bo Seo, a world debate champion and author of "Good Arguments," shares his journey from avoiding disputes to mastering the art of constructive dialogue. He emphasizes the importance of effective debating skills in sharpening our thinking and enhancing listening capabilities. The discussion explores how practicing disagreement can foster better connections, especially for those who struggle with agreeableness. Seo also highlights the need for curriculum changes in education to promote argument literacy, emphasizing the value of engaging with diverse viewpoints.

This is the second episode in a three-part series about how to have difficult conversations with people who see the world differently, how to have better debates about contentious issues, and how to ethically and scientifically persuade one another about things that matter – in short, this is a three-part series about How Minds Change (which is also the title of my new book).There seems to be a movement afoot, a new wave of nonfiction about how to reduce all this argumentative madness and epistemic chaos. I want to boost everyone's signal on this issue, so I thought it would be nice to collaborate instead of compete, since that's part of what we are all proselytizing with these books.So this episode’s guest is Bo Seo, the author of Good Arguments – a book about how he became a world debate champion in which he not only teaches us how to apply what he has learned to everyday life but imagines communities built around, not despite, constant arguing and disagreement.Seo says that a political life without constant disagreement would be impoverished. As he puts it, quote, "Nations are, at their best, evolving arguments. As he writes, “In a liberal democracy, good arguments are not what societies should do but also what they should be.” See believes that on well curated, well moderated platforms, ones that value good faith interactions, arguing and disagreement would flip from being catalysts for polarization to the very engine of depolarization and change. In the interview, he not only tells us how to defend ourselves against bad arguments, but explains how in his mind a great democracy isn’t a place where everyone agrees and sees eye-to-eye, but one where we work to have better quality disagreements.- Bo Seo’s Website: www.helloboseo.com- How Minds Change: www.davidmcraney.com/howmindschangehome- David McRaney’s Twitter: https://twitter.com/davidmcraney- YANSS Twitter: https://twitter.com/notsmartblog- Show Notes: www.youarenotsosmart.com- Newsletter: https://davidmcraney.substack.com

World champion debater Bo Seo knows how to win an argument. He’s made it his mission to teach everyone to disagree better. Bo walks us through how to apply the most effective strategies from competitive debate to improve our disagreements at the dinner table. Bo and Maya also discuss how to determine whether an argument is worth having in the first place.  For more on Bo’s work, check out his book, “Good Arguments: How Debate Teaches Us to Listen and Be Heard.” If you enjoyed this episode, we recommend this one from the archives: "A Black Musician Takes on the KKK." For a behind-the-scenes look at the show, follow @DrMayaShankar on Instagram. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

In this engaging discussion, Bo Seo, a two-time world champion debater and author of "Good Arguments," shares his insights on effective arguing. He highlights the historical significance of debate and why it's a lost art in education. Bo explains the three types of disagreements—facts, judgments, and prescriptions—and emphasizes the importance of identifying what’s at stake in any argument. He also introduces his three P's for persuasive rhetoric, offering listeners practical strategies to enhance their debate skills and foster constructive dialogue.

What does it take to admit you’re wrong? And why is it so difficult? Cognitive psychology and neuroscience studies reveal that human decision-making relies on a host of factors that don’t always lead to objective evaluations. Opinions can form as a result of fear, anger, pleasure, and other emotions that not only contribute to bias, but can also harden over time. The resulting misconception often then rattles through every aspect of our lives, from our work to our politics to the very relationships we hold dear. But what if there were a way to break out of that process? Three luminaries in the field of business, psychology, and debate sit down for a fascinating discussion on how to argue well, and how to be open to changing your mind.  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Bo Seo, a two-time world champion debater and author of "Good Arguments," shares his insights on transforming workplace disagreements into productive discussions. He emphasizes the importance of constructive debate for better outcomes, advocating for tools like the RISA checklist. Seo introduces techniques like the 'Four W's' for structuring arguments and highlights the need for role-playing opposing views to enhance engagement. Ultimately, he encourages fostering a culture of debate to improve team collaboration and communication.

When Bo Seo was 8 years old, his family moved from Korea to Australia. He did not speak a world of English. At school, to deflect attention from his inarticulacy, he became an agreeable wallflower. But that all changed when Bo’s fifth-grade teacher introduced him to competitive debate. Bo was hooked, and in the years to come, he’d not only win two debate world championships but also go on to coach the Australian national team as well as the Debating Union at Harvard, where he earned his undergraduate degree and is currently a law student.Earlier this year, Bo published his first book, “Good Arguments: How Debate Teaches Us to Listen and Be Heard,” which was chosen by our curators as one of the year’s eight best works of non-fiction. In today’s episode, Bo sits down with one of those curators, Adam Grant, to share time-honored techniques for getting your point across, changing minds without hurting feelings, dealing with bullies, and knowing when to shut up.---Download the Next Big Idea app today by visiting nextbigideaclub.com/app

Bo Seo, two-time world champion debater, shares tips on effective communication and persuasion. Topics include the enduring significance of debating skills, crafting arguments with evidence, engaging in constructive disagreements, and practicing empathy to understand differing perspectives.

In this engaging discussion, Bo Seo, a world debate champion and author of "Good Arguments," shares his journey from avoiding arguments to mastering them. He emphasizes the importance of constructive debate in sharpening our thinking and improving communication. Bo provides strategies for handling disagreements, including engaging with bullies and creating common ground. He also highlights how healthy arguments can enhance personal relationships and education, urging us to embrace differing viewpoints for growth.

What's it take to debate like a champion? How can you engage so that people will listen? How can you listen actively, and respond in good faith?  A mission critical program for listeners of Intelligence Squared, we sit down with Bo to examine debate through the lens of education, politics, and the future of democracy. Considered one of the most recognized figures in the global debate community, he has won both the World Schools Debating Championship and the World Universities Debating Championship, and has since been writing for The New York Times and The Atlantic. In this wide ranging interviews, Bo discusses his new book, “Good Arguments,” in which he argues how good-faith debate can enrich our lives and fortify our society.  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices