Alison Armstrong is a speaker, thought leader, friend, and bestselling author of The Keys to the Kingdom, and The Queen's Code. In 2018, as I was discovering that the men's movement was much bigger than I realized, reading Tomassi and Donovan, and listening to Michler and Peterson, I also discovered Alison's books. I saw myself reflected in them to a degree that I still find striking. Now, almost 9 years after publishing the Queen's Code in print, she's finally released it in audiobook version, read in her voice. And not a moment too soon. Because The Great Reconciliation is happening, and the Queen's Code audiobook is here to help us all hear and most importantly FEEL the way we could be, as women and as men, together. In our conversation we discussed: - Alison's journey to write and record the Queen's Code - The difference between needing vs. being needy - How Alison used to treat men at parties - The importance of discovering our ultimatums; - Why we should all go a bit easier on "nice guys” - My own important learnings from Alison about the Great Reconciliation - Finally, stories about her relationship with the man in her life, Dan WATCH THIS EPISODE ON YOUTUBE https://youtu.be/i2x3SKht-w4 https://youtube.com/@renofmen CONNECT WITH ALISON ARMSTRONG http://alisonarmstrong.com  Buy the Queen's Code audiobook Buy the Queen's Code in print at Lulu.com SPONSOR: My 12-week Renaissance Mentorship Program The Greek mathematician Archimedes said, "Find me a solid point on which to stand, and I will move the Earth." If you're looking for solid ground within yourself, and are ready to put in the work... Email me at info@renofmen.com to find out more. THE RENAISSANCE OF MEN https://www.renofmen.com https://www.instagram.com/renofmen/ https://twitter.com/renofmen Mentioned in this episode:Cross & StripesCelebrate American craftsmanship with metalwork and apparel that's built to last. Use code SPENCER for 35% off your first order.Cross & Stripes

Alison Armstrong, a relationship expert, joins the podcast to discuss owning sexual needs, restoring sexual honor, and having more sex. They explore topics such as effective communication of sexual needs, understanding men's and women's needs, challenging cultural norms around sex, and confronting shame. They also touch on creating safety and connection, deserving sex, and personal growth and commitment to positive change.

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