Aleta Cai, a dominatrix and healer with a unique journey from a strict Chinese upbringing, dives deep into the fascinating connection between BDSM and healing. She discusses the empowering feeling of radical confidence that came with her profession and the complexities of subspace. Aleta shares insights on why she rarely sees women among her clients and the allure of submissiveness in her culture. She also critiques '50 Shades of Grey' for its inaccuracies, while reflecting on her emotional connections, even falling in love with one of her slaves.