Distilling life on the page: The beauty of storytelling with Yiyun Li
Dec 2, 2023
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Yiyun Li, author of Wednesday’s Child: Stories, discusses the beauty of storytelling and examining losses in life. She shares her personal experience with grief and the therapeutic effects of gardening and writing. The podcast explores the role of English as a literary language and the universal theme of grief in literature.
Literature examines losses in life and offers a platform to explore grief and suffering.
Writing and gardening serve as outlets for processing emotions and accepting life's uncertainties.
Deep dives
Writing as a Distillation of Life
Writing serves as a way for author Eon Lee to distill her life experiences into a piece of writing. Although no writing is perfect, it comes as close as possible to capturing the essence of life. Lee believes that writing can be a powerful tool for navigating life's challenges and finding strength. Through writing, she explores themes of impermanence and acceptance, drawing parallels between the garden and life itself.
Grief as a Universally Recurring Theme in Literature
Grief, suffering, and loss are universal themes that have always been explored in literature. Lee believes that the process of living entails losing things and experiencing grief and loss. Literature offers a platform to explore these themes and examine the emotions that accompany them. In her latest collection of stories, Lee delves into the complexities of grief from different perspectives, including the loss of a child, while also infusing moments of humor into the narratives.
Acceptance and Resilience in the Face of Loss
Lee emphasizes the importance of accepting the losses in our lives and acknowledging that some things are beyond our control. She shares her personal experience of losing her son to suicide and how acceptance has been an ongoing process. Lee rejects the notion of finding closure or making peace with her loss, noting that the wound will always be there. Instead, she embraces the idea of living in a new landscape, adapting to a changed reality while maintaining resilience.
Writing as a Placeholder for Life's Challenges
Lee finds solace in writing and gardening as they serve as placeholders for the difficult moments in life. Writing allows her to externalize her thoughts and emotions, giving them a space to exist and be explored. Similarly, the impermanence and uncontrollable aspects of gardening remind her to accept life's uncertainties. By engaging in physical movement and engaging with the world through writing and gardening, Lee finds a sense of purpose, meaning, and a way to shape her experience of time.
Yiyun Li, writer and author most recently of a collection of short stories Wednesday’s Child: Stories, talks about the beauty of storytelling and how she uses stories to explore the relationship between parents and their children — including mothers, like her, who suffer the loss of a child: “That's one thing that literature does well, is to examine losses in life,” she says. In the 20 years since Li arrived in the US from China, Li has become a prolific writer, publishing five novels, three short story collections, and a memoir. She’s also currently director of Princeton University’s creative writing program. While achieving professional success, Li has navigated private tragedy and loss. She shares how the garden and gardening have become both sanctuary and metaphor for life. “It’s a place,” Li says, where “nothing works perfectly.”
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