

313: Psychedelic Pleasure Liberation with Dr. Nicole Thompson
In this episode of Better Sex, host Jessa Zimmerman interviews Dr. Nicole Thompson about her journey from purity culture to sexual liberation, focusing on how psychedelics can aid in this transition. They discuss the impact of purity culture, the importance of community, and the principles of set and setting in psychedelic-assisted therapy. Nicole shares her experiences and insights on how to use psychedelics to enhance sexual pleasure and dismantle shame. They also touch on the significance of communication, consent, and the importance of feeling safe in sexual experiences.
00:00 Introduction to Better Sex
01:01 Guest Introduction: Nicole Thompson on Sexual Liberation
01:56 Nicole's Journey from Purity Culture to Sexual Freedom
03:05 Challenges and Transformations in Sexual Liberation
06:01 Therapeutic Approaches and Sexual Healing
14:41 Exploring Psychedelic Integration in Therapy
17:14 Creating a Safe and Intentional Space for Psychedelic Therapy
18:36 The Importance of Graduated Dosages in Psychedelic and Sexual Experiences
20:18 Applying Set and Setting to Sexual Liberation
22:04 The Role of Community and Safe Practices in Psychedelic and Sexual Experiences
25:08 Recognizing Boundaries and Red Flags in Sexual Relationships
27:33 The Power of Communication and Integration in Sexual Experiences
29:52 Hopes for the Future: Ending Rape Culture and Closing the Orgasm Gap
32:19 Resources and Final Thoughts
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Guest bio:
Nicole is a queer Sex and Relationships psychotherapist and the host of the Modern Anarchy podcast. She’s the author of The Psychedelic Jealousy Guide: Crafting Secure Non-Monogamous Relationships and conducted the first published academic study on Relationship Anarchy.
Nicole is widely recognized as a leading theorist on non-monogamy and sexuality. Through her private client work with The Pleasure Practice, she helps people liberate pleasure, navigate desire, and create deeply connected relationships rooted in authenticity and expansion.
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