everybody has a secret my boyfriend's sexting a bot
Aug 14, 2025
The hosts celebrate their reunion while preparing for a big change with a new co-host. A listener’s story about discovering infidelity through AI raises eyebrows, sparking a conversation about digital trust in relationships. The discussion dives deep into emotional fidelity, questioning whether chatting with AI can betray a partner's trust. They explore the dangers of relying on technology for intimacy, highlighting the need for genuine human connection. It's a thought-provoking examination of love, loyalty, and the evolving definitions of betrayal.
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Snooping Revealed Intimate AI Chats
- Grace discovered months of her boyfriend Pete's conversations with ChatGPT that revealed fantasies and vulnerabilities she never knew about.
- She felt betrayed, ashamed, and terrified she was competing with an AI for his emotional and sexual attention.
AI Became An Emotional Crutch
- Louis and Annabelle observe AI has shifted from factual tool to emotional crutch for some users.
- This change creates new relationship dynamics where people seek solace from programs rather than partners.
Confront And Demand Vulnerability
- Confront Pete directly and cite the ChatGPT conversations you found.
- Ask for an explanation and demand he be as vulnerable with you as he was with the AI, then decide based on his response.