The Sporkful Dan Savage Recommends A Polyeaterous Lifestyle (Reheat)
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Aug 29, 2025 
Dan Savage, a renowned sex advice columnist and host of the Savage Lovecast, brings his humorous insights into the relationship between food and romance. He discusses how breakfast choices can set the tone for intimacy and shares funny anecdotes about dining dynamics, especially on first dates. The conversation delves into the challenges of differing food preferences in relationships, promoting a 'poly eaterist' lifestyle. Practical tips for navigating cooking conflicts and enhancing communication in couples are also featured, all wrapped in light-hearted banter.
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Eating Behaviors Shift Under Observation
- People eat differently when being observed on dates, often self-consciously.
- Women commonly perform restraint due to cultural stigma around appetite and desire.
Keep Morning After Breakfast Simple
- If you want someone to stay after sleeping over, make a simple thoughtful breakfast like poached eggs on toast and fruit.
- Avoid overcomplicating dishes (e.g., Eggs Benedict) that risk failing or creating obligation.
Prioritize Intimacy Before Dinner
- On Valentine's Day, have sex first and go to dinner later to avoid being too full or falling asleep.
- Choose a late reservation when restaurants are emptier and staff less frazzled.