Respectful Parenting: Janet Lansbury Unruffled

Stop Whining

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Feb 25, 2025
Whining can be a parent's worst nightmare, leading to frustration and negative reactions. A mother expresses her distress over her 7-year-old's constant pouting and pleas for new toys. The discussion delves into the emotional complexities behind whining, emphasizing empathy and communication. It highlights the importance of patience during difficult phases and acknowledges that children's emotional outbursts are often temporary. The conversation encourages a nurturing approach to help children express their feelings constructively.
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ADVICE

Handling Whining

  • Make peace with whining; it's universally disliked.
  • Focus on connecting with your child and understanding their feelings.
ADVICE

Understanding the Want

  • Ask curious, probing questions like, "What makes you want all that stuff?"
  • Open a dialogue and try to understand your child's feelings.
INSIGHT

Temporary Phases

  • Children's behaviors are temporary and change quickly.
  • Avoid labeling children, as this can create self-fulfilling prophecies.
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