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277: Plot Twist: Plot Twist: How an 11-Second Loss Launched Ken Nwadike Jr.’s Mission of Free Hugs, Healing and Peace

Feb 6, 2025

Ken Nwadike Jr. is the founder of the Free Hugs Project, using the power of hugs to foster peace and connection. He shares how missing the Boston Marathon qualifying time by just 11 seconds twice led him to activate a transformative movement after the 2013 bombing. Inspired by his mother and the challenges of his upbringing, he now spreads kindness at protests and difficult moments. Ken discusses the significance of a single hug in bridging divides and his mission to create empathy and understanding, even in the most turbulent times.

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Ken Nwadike Jr.

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Ken Nwadike Jr.'s transition from disappointment in missing a marathon qualifier to launching the Free Hugs movement highlights the power of kindness in healing communities.

His journey illustrates the importance of empathy and understanding in bridging divides, especially regarding systemic injustices faced by marginalized groups.

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Personal Connection to Trayvon Martin

The emotional impact of Trayvon Martin's death is profound, particularly for individuals who identify with him. Seeing negative comments about Trayvon, many of which suggested he deserved his fate, deeply affected the speaker, as they recognized they could have been in similar circumstances. The speaker reflects on the unfair judgments of young Black boys, emphasizing the need for society to allow them the grace to mature rather than holding them accountable for actions in their youth. This realization prompted the speaker to voice their concerns publicly, underscoring the importance of empathy and understanding in discussions about race and justice.

Intro

1min

Hugs of Hope: A Boston Marathon Journey

17min

Navigating Human Connection in a Digital Age

4min

Reflections on Race, Fatherhood, and Building Alliances

5min

Building Bridges: A Journey from Distrust to Collaboration

5min

In this Plot Twist episode, Ken Nwadike Jr. shares how missing the Boston Marathon qualifying time by just 11 seconds—twice—led to a life-changing movement of peace, connection, and activism.

Ken grew up in a Nigerian household with a strict mother who instilled discipline and resilience in him from a young age. Despite facing financial struggles and homelessness, he found his way through running, eventually organizing the Hollywood Half Marathon, a moment that brought his mother to tears as she realized the impact of her son’s vision. But it was the 2013 Boston Marathon bombing that sparked his most unexpected turn.

Heartbroken by the attack on the running community that had given him so much, Ken set out to qualify for Boston. But after narrowly missing the mark twice, he chose a different path—showing up at the marathon with a simple but powerful message: Free Hugs for Runners. That act of kindness went viral, and what started as a moment of solidarity turned into a movement of peace.

Ken went on to bring the Free Hugs Project to protests, riots, and difficult moments of national tension, working to bridge divides through human connection. In this episode, he shares how a missed opportunity turned into his life’s greatest purpose, how a single hug can shift perspectives, and what he’s learned about finding common ground even in the most volatile situations.

Tune in to hear how one of Ken’s biggest disappointments became the foundation for a mission that has impacted thousands—and how we all have the power to create change in unexpected ways.

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